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Which guy should i choose!?
hey wow ok so heres my problem. it might be kinda long so sorry. at like the end of the school year i started going out with my neighbor and i liked him sooo much but he was always at baseball during the summer and i never knew if he was home or not cause like he wouldnt call and he got on the internet like .. not alot. lol so like yeah there was this grad party at my friends house and i went and i ended up making out with this guy there and we started talking alot and i ended up liking him so much more than my neighbor so i dumped him and went out with this other guy. but this guy is going to portugal for a month and then coming back for a week then going to some camp til the rest of the summer. he hasnt called in like 3 days but i talked to him like twice online but then like 3 days ago i talked to my neighbor and he told me he wanted me back and that he still liked me and that i was special and all that andthat he would dump a girl in a heartbeat for me and now i think i might like him alott . i'm so confused. should i take a break with my bf right now till he comes back ? i still like him a lot too but idk... i might end up doing something really bad while hes gone so should i just take a break with him and maybe try something with my neighbor again? i want a long term relationship and i cant figure out which guy is like more up for it like which guy could actually do it.
i'm 13/f and sorry that it was really long
thanks<3
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Dont worry if the question is to long.. I know just what you are going through. But the best way I found out who I wanted to be with is.Who do you think that you will see more?Who do you feel liek your self around? who can you tell anything to no matter what. It seems to me that you did like youe neighbor but you didnt give him a fair enough chance to show that he liked you to. Beacuse when he left you went and found your self a new guy. So i think that while your "new bf" is gone just hang out with your ex and see how much fun you have with him and by the time your "bf" comes home you will find out who you liked being around more, But i think that, thats fair enough because you didnt give your ex a chance at all .. Hope I helped.. Rate me.
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You don't get into a relationship by dating the guy that is around more often, you get into one by talking and hanging out and having fun and meeting someone you really connect with. It sounds like you aren't sure at all which guy you want for a boyfriend or even which one you are willing to put the work into having a relationship with, so take a break from a serious boyfriend searching for a bit and have some fun with the guys you are interested in. Get to know them and understand them better before deciding if they can commit to a long term relationship (or if you even want them too)
Take a deep breath and relax, you have plenty of time in your life for long term relationships but this is a great time to date a bunch of people and figure out just what you want from those relationships!
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