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Q: I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it.
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You answered your own question.
you needa leave him if you dont feel loved like you used to be. you deserve better.
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Q: There is this guy that I see around and whenever I see him he always staring at me. When I catch him he looks away very fast but if he thinks I'm not looking he will stare longer. There have been some instance where we have made eye contact for a long period of time. He doesn't say much to just small talk. But there are some days when he ignores me like I'm not even there and that confuses me. I want to know if he likes me and why he keeps staring at me but wont say anything. Should I make the first move?
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I am a female, and i always think that making the first move is always the best because most men are worse then girls are and are just so nervous.
I am guessing this is in school.
My suggestion is if he seems really shy he might not really respond much in person if you confront him.
so...
I DO NOT LIKE RECOMMENDING THIS.
but if you think this guy is kinda shy or confusing
I would talk to him online and see how he acts when you talk, see if he flirts etc.
facebook is the perfect thing.
Although, I say if he seems like a sweet boy, and wouldnt be rude, or start drama about you confronting him in person then do that! in person is always better.
OR
you can do the online thing
THEN
in person
HOPE THIS HELPS
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Q: female 17,
how do i get over my ex boyfriend? i"m in love with him but i've had enough of him he has played me lied to me cheat on me abuse me (emotionally) and I'm tired of being his rebound when we are together just the two of us he makes me feel so good and says all the right things and it just makes me feel so good but then when he gets in front of people he lies and doesnt even act like we mess around when he knows that we do. and on facebook i like his status and it said would he kiss me and he said NO shaking my head because the say before we were together and we kissed his is so fake and i just want all this to end i have to cut him off and forget about him but its so hard what do i do? if i continue to be his friend like we are now i know that i'm still going to mess around with him and i dont want to anymore because i know that i'm only going to hurt myself..we have a class together too which makes it harder. and my EX best friend flirts with him knowing that i went out with him.
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you need to put as much distance as you can between you as possible. I have been in this situation, and its just not good. You know the answer to your own questions sweetie, you know what's best for you, you just have to be willing to do it for yourself. He doesn't treat you the way you should be treated and he is acting the way he is and has, so you should stop talking to him in general. You are honestly not losing anything in the long run. And your ex best friend isn't important let her do her...because karma is a B*TCH and obviously she is your EX best friend, just as he is your EX boyfriend. BOTH in the PAST so leave em that way. thats the best you can do.
hope this helped:D
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Q: Dear lifesachallenge101
umm i like this boy im 13 hes 15 and he live infront of my house he looks at me in a flirtasious way he always tell my little sister things so they tell me umm he makes my back tingle makes me smile he have gave me his num. ived called him hes caalled me he said he liked me but ONE PROBLEM HHE HAS A GIRL IT HURTS ME SOO BAD NOWING HES NOT WITH MEE ...I ACT LIKE IF I DONT CARE and i do he drives me crazy !
hug & rockets
moniitah
xoxxo
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I would just wait until the relationship to die out or tell him how you really feel.
Just do not cheat.
xoxo.
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Q: Okay, so I'm only 13 and in 8th grade, and well this guy.... well he has a gf and he is a freshman and he sends messages while he is dating this girl.... and IK cuz he did it with me and lied and said he broke up with her and I believed him! But anyways he let me get on his facebook and thought he was smart and deleted the inbox, but he didn't delete the sent mail..... and I looked at it and I thought I was special but I saw he had messaged all these girls while he was messaging me.... And he is STILL doing it and he DOES have a gf.... and I want to know if I should tell her, cuz IK I would want to know but I don't want to do it out of revenge or anything or hurt their relationship..... but I even copied the message he was sending a girl.... Gerry December 24, 2010 at 12:40am
i would kiss you on the bus
Gerry _ _ _ _ _ December 24, 2010 at 12:42am
well night sexy if you want i would kiss you on the bus if you didnt tell anyone and if you came up and sat by me. night sexy get on tomorrow.
and said that to another girl, but like I asked above this should I tell his gf? I don't think she will believe me.... but I hope she will. :/ Oh and he tries to get girls to send him pics he begs and begs...... and trust me he has gotten some.....
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You should definitely tell the girl... in a polite and genuine way, as nice as u can. Tell her the way that you would like to be told in this position, which might be a bit difficult. I truly believe you NEED to tell her, and even show her proof. I dont think that you should do it over the computer or texting or over the phone because telling her face to face will make her see that you are serious and you could even show her the proof. He sounds like a pig and believe me you're not messing up the relationship he did that enough! If she does not believe you then thats her problem because you did what you needed to you, its her choice if she wants to not believe you.
I have been in a situation kinda like this but a bit worse.
I slept with this dude who told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend and i believed it!
I wanted him alot and he was so so so sweet to me. Well turns out after i slept with him, i found out that they were still dating, and i felt horrible! I told her, because well i dont keep secrets like that and especially when its a horrible issue like that and i would wanna know too! Well, I told her and she didnt believe me! They were dating for a year or so and they continued to date a year or more after this happened. After I told the girl what happened, I talked to one of her close friends and she told me that she has been told by a few girls that he has cheated on her, but she thought all were lying. Even her 'friend' told her that he fingered her! I know, and she still didnt believe her.
What is important here is that you can do all that you can do, and that by telling her what is happening.
It is on her what she believes.
xoxo.
(hope this helps :D )
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Q: i have this boyfriend and he's pretty sweet but he liks doing sexual stuff. he knows i'm a virgin and that i want to wait but he still wants to do things like oral and stuff. i'm pretty sure he likes me because he texts me all of the time and we talk about alot of things, not just sexual. infact we barely ever talk sexual, but when we're together he always wants to after we start making out and stuff. but i guess thats normal right? anyways i'm 18 and he's 17 but i'm scared he might be too young for me and especilly since girls mature faster than guys. do you guys think i should stay with him? any opinions would be awesome, thankss.
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If he makes you happy thats all that matters! age is just a number. Yes, its true SOME girls mature faster then SOME guys. Honestly all guys are not the same. I mean im talking to this 14 year old and im 17 years old yes it seems bad and people can judge me all they want and yes ill be 18 in May and he'll only be 15 in October but i've been with a few boys before him and i have never been truly happy like i am now. He looks like he is 17 and he is very mature for his age. And for instance i know this 15 year old and he acts like he is 11, and billy(the guy i like) acts 17 & sometimes more mature then me. If he is mature enough for you and he treats you right, and you can be yourself around him then stay with him. It's all about your happiness, no one else's. Just dont move too fast either, from experience, thats not a good idea. Make sure that your feelings for each other are real, and nothing short term and really get to know each other. Wish you much luck, boys can be as complicated as girls, and if he truly likes you and wants to be with you, he'll wait for sexual stuff, you should NEVER feel pressured ! your first time is more special then you'll ever know... you'll remember it and who it was with forever. Good Luck darling :D
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Q: Okay so I'm 22/F and I'm in a relationship with a 24/M. I think I maybe bi...and I'm curious to maybe starting dating a girl or hooking up with a girl. My boyfriend says he doesn't mind it. Are there any websites to meet girls who are into hooking up with girls in a relationship? Or where could I meet a girl who would be interested in something like this. Any advice? Has anyone felt this way? Please share your experience! Thanks!
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I've gone through the same thing... im bi curious and i have only kissed a girl, but you cant help if you are curious about girls, cuz i still am. I believe that u should experiment and see what you like.
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Q: 17/f
I don't know why this happens to me. but me and this guy like each other. we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet but we definitely have potential. anyways, we hang out a few times. and we have fun a lot. A few times, we will even kiss and make out. Out of like the 20 times we hung out, we've gotten pretty frisky like 4 times. Here's my problem, when we do go pretty far.. I always get this sick feeling in my stomach. Like I have to throw up. You know how right before you throw up, you get that sour feeling in your mouth? and like a bunch of saliva in your mouth? That's how i feel when we make out a bunch and get really into it. I don't know why this happens?
Its like whenever it happens, I have to tell him to stop and I get a drink of water and try to calm myself down, but it doesn't really go away. I don't think it's because i'm nervous.. because I'm never nervous around guys. especially him. I always feel myself around him. Help!
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The only thing i can think of is... maybe you arent ready to go as far as you are going with him. I personally haven't had this problem but a friend of mine has had one in the past similar to this situation. She just moved slower with him and when they finally went further with sexual stuff, she didnt have the problem anymore.
HOPE THIS HELPS A BIT :]
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http://livelifewithnolimits.wordpress.com/
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Maryland Age: 20 Member Since: April 2, 2010 Answers: 30 Last Update: September 18, 2011 Visitors: 3430
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