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" align=left hspace=10> Hey! My name is Kimberly and i am 17 years old. I'm a very outgoing girl and i love to have fun with my friend. I play basketball, shop, and i'm in love with the beach. My family and friends mean the world to me, and i would be no where without them. I've learned a lot about myself and who my real friends are in the past year.
I love helping people if its anywhere from what outfit to wear to which boy they should date. Yeah, i have made mistakes in my past but i have learned from them and it has only made me stronger. So feel free to ask me anything and i will try and help the best way i can. :D
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Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
i don't think there is anything wrong with just hooking up with someone. everyone likes the idea of having someone there but not being commited to them. Just make sure the person you are hooking up with knows that it is nothing more than just hooking up. The last thing you wanna do is lead someone on.
well I like this boy alot for like 4 years and my friends tell me i need to talk to him and make a move. But i dont know what to say to him. How can i start talking to him, or what should i say? Because im so nervouse talking to him and we dont really talk that much so how can i start a conversation. And plus he knows i like him.
First off just relax.I know that talking to a guy is sorta scary, especially a guy that you really like.So when you see him walking in the hall go up to him and just start a conversation.( i know that is easier said than done.) but try to start talking about something that you know he is interested in or, im not sure if you have any classes with him, but if you do ask him about something that was going on in class or something along that line. I know talking about school might not be the most interesting thing to talk to your crush about but at least this will get things moving along. It will show him that you are interested. Overtime hopefully you will talk more often. Then that is when you can maybe exchange number and start hanging out. But most importantly, just remember to be yourself. :)
Hi I am 16.f. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. He is my first true love, and everyone says 'youll never forget your first love' and everything, like our relationship will never last. But what if I TRULY think he is the only one I could ever be with. I know I am young, and of course I wouldn't get married now, and I have time to think about it but on one hand I can't imagine a future with anyone else, but on the other hand EVERYONE seems to think that just because I have never loved anyone else means I wont last long with him?? Is it possible that I just happened to find the perfect guy right off the bat? Has anyone had an experience like mine??
i have never experienced something like this but my best friend is right now. she is only 16 and she is completely in love with her boyfriend. if you and your boyfriend really love eachother and it is meant to be, you will end up together. In the next couple of years you will be growing up and changing. But the most important thing is, stop listening to what everyone else is saying. Just worry about right now and enjoy the times you have with your boyfriend and friends. hope this helped.
So there's this guy (there always is..) who I half-like. (I say "half" because I have all the symptoms of liking him.. but can't possibly actually do so). Either way: He really is the sweetest guy and soo much fun to be around!
Now to the problem: He likes me. Not HALF-likes me. He really likes me. I've been through this before (hundreds of times) so I know what my options are:
A: Keep spending time with him, watch him fall for me, then reject him and break his heart when he asks me out.. and lose him forever.
B: Stop spending time with him to ultimately spare his feelings.. and lose him forever.
C: Tell him the truth, slowly see how things change between us and get awkward.. and lose him forever.
D: Say yes when he asks me out, because after all I do "half-like" him.. (well, I guess this is the option I've never been brave enough to try with any of the other guys.. but I'm pretty sure it follows the pattern and ends with..) .. and lose him forever.
You wanna make my day by adding a fifth option?
Thank you! :)
Well, since you do "half" like him. Spend more time with him. Get to know him and let him get to know you. Become real good friends first. Thats always best. After you guys spend time together you might be surprised how your feelings might change for him. They might get stronger or you might realize that you just wanna be friends. This way, you arent really hurting him if you guys just hang out as friends. But just make sure he knows that as of right now you just wanna be friends cause the last thing you would wanna do is lead him on. Just take things slow and most importantly follow your heart girl. Hope this helped! Lemme know how things work out for you. Best of Luck! (:
so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!
ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf)
Well if they arent together then i think you should go for it. First, have your guy friend introuduce you to him. Then talk to him. Get his number and maybe hang out a couple of times. Try to start out slow, you dont want to rush things. After you hang out a couple times and talk, you will know if he is liking you too. He will text you first and ask you to hang out. Then just go from there. You might be surprised though, after you talk and hang out you might not be so crazy about him. But you never really know until you try (:
And as far as if you guys will be together, you are going to have to take that by ear too. Like i said, make a good friendship with him first, then go from there.
I hope this helped.
Make sure you keep me updated. And good luck girl (:
If you need anything else let me know.
Okay I'm going to explain this the best way I can.
Me and my boy was together for 4 months, but we broke up because of his parents, and well, we got back together, but now he's living 1 hr away from me, he use to live right around where i live but now he's moving 1 hr, away, maybe even almost 2 hours, but hes gonna come down on weekends and stuff, but he's living by himself, so it's probly gonna be hard to call me, but we can talk on the cell you know
do you think this can work? I love this guy so much, he makes my heart race, and gives me butterflies, makes me smile! ah i'm in love! this can work righttttt?
Even though it's going to be hard and you might not see him that often, i think anyone can stay together. If you guys are really that much in love like you say you are, then you both will make time to see and talk to eachother. There will be times that it will get really hard, but if it's meant to be, then everything will be fine!!! Hope this helped. Good luck girl! (:
So i was on msn and someone told me this girl(an ex classmate) i used to like just broke up with her bf. i msned her and asked for her number which i got. now should i ask her on a date? or did she just give me her number cuz we r ex classmates and she din wanna b rude? fyi the time gap thing doesn't work with her, she goes into a new r/s 2 days after the prev one is over.
Thanks for any help
Well it's obvious that she did want to talk to you, beacause if she didn't then she would have never of given you her number. So i would just start off slow. Text her first. And just talk with her. Then once you guys talk a little maybe call her and ask her on a date. Hope this helps! Good Luck! (:
how should i make out? like wat should i do with my toungue? how should i move my tounge? thanx in advance.
Just be natural and soft. There isnt really a right or wrong way to kiss. Believe me, it will just come to you. Just don't think about it too much and you will be fine! (:
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move
First off making the move is just as hard for the guy and it is for the girl. You said that he is really shy. So he might not ever make the first move. Also make sure you let him know that its okay for him to make the first move.
I know that you don't want to make the first move, but you might just have to if he is very shy. Just grab his hand when you are walking. Who knows, if you do that, then maybe he will make the second one! (:
so this kid nick, we're really close and all, but he's so caught up in his friends and well i wish we would go out, but he just doesn't have time for a girlfriend, so what do i do? pfhaaaaha.
Well i think you should talk to him and tell him how you truly feel. Tell him that you think he should spend a little more time with you.If that doesnt work then you might want to take a little break from eachother.Just until he figures out want he wants. If you guys were really meant to be, then everything will work out. Good Luck! (:
well this will be long im sorry but its love okay? ok so i've been going out with this AMAZING guy for the past two months (2 month anniversary on 8th August) and we really love each other...he's really tall and sweet with curly brown hair...ohhh, i could go on n on i'm so in love with him =) but dats not da problem
You see, my normally perfect friends absolutely DETEST him... and its wrecking my life... but let me explain the whole story okay.
in the sixth grade (we're in the ninth now) my bf, say john, was very very popular and was like one of the biggest jocks around school and was considered really really cool and dated all these popular girls. Then he had a stroke (i know i know, so young, i cried for hours after i heard this it was so sad...) and was admitted to a hospital, fighting for his life. The doctor performing the surgery went all oversmart and tried to experiment on an eleven year old kid and messed about with the equipment and even though he recovered the messing about left him paralysed in the right side for a couple of months...he's fine now of course except he has a slightly deeper voice but back then when he came back to school everyone just began ignoring him...you knnow, the way those popular people generally act...and it was like suddenly they didn't even know him anymore and he sort of became, well, NOT popular. They talk to him of course but only with a sorta pity and the girls treat him like dirt (only the popular ones he dated). And all the people who were jealous of him when he was popular are really mean to him nowadays...so anyway I joined the school last year and he's had a crush on me since last year and we've had a complete fairytale story... until now of course...my friends (only some, the really close ones are okay) are being total bitches and dissing him and no matter how brave i am (i stood up to a group of twenty all alone!) and how much i tell them he's nice they wont listen...all they care about is his popularity and i'm beginning to hate EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM for it. And i'm the type who'll die for her love and stuff but its just so sad...i mean am I the only person with a heart in this school? or should I break up with him to please my friends? Please dont give one line advice...you understand i'm gonna need a lot of it...i really cant stand it anymore... help, please!
oh and did i mention that i'm totally in love with him and he sort of cannt go to sleep without hearing my voice (likewise) and i think i'd die if i cant tbe with him...but then i'm dying this way too... HELP!!!
Okay, well first of all don't let your friends tell you who you can and can't talk to or be with. If you like this boy, then by all means stay with him. He sounds like a very nice kid. I think you should just forget about all the "popular" girls. Because after high school, it doesnt even matter if you were popular or not in school. These girls sound like they are self-centered and live to make people lives miserable. So don't let what they say bother you. Yeah, it's going to be hard but don't make it seem like it bothers you. Cuz if you show them that it does, they are going to continue with it. But if you show that it doesnt, they will move on to someone else.
As far as your "close" friends.They should be supporting you. Anyone that would do that to anyone is not worth it over the man you love.
Your boyfriend had a horrible thing happen to him. I'm sure that he feels lucky that he has you in his life. Keep him. He sounds like an amazing guy, so why would you want to give him up???
I know it might be hard at first to do this, but you will get through it. Hope everything works out for the both of you. (:
17/f.
me and my best friend sara like the same guy but she doesnt know i like him too. ive known this guy longer than she has though and i think he likes me too. the thing is shes one of my best friends and i dont want her to get mad at me. everytime that he comes around, she's like he's so hott and i dont say anything because i dont want her to get mad. last weekend we were at a party and he was flirting with me and he gave me a hug when he left and she got a little mad at me. he knows that she likes him, but he doesnt know about me. im really good friends with his best friends sister and she said that she would talk to him for me but idk. do you think i should talk to sara? or should i just play it off until she gets over him cause at the party she didnt even talk to him and she's not shy.
thanks in advance =]
I was in a situtation just like this once before.
You are better off letting your friend know how you feel. Explain to her how much you like him and how you think he might like you too. If she is a good friend she will understand. Yeah, she might be mad at first. But she will get over it.Just give it some time. (: Go for it girl!!