about

My name is Racquel. I am eighteen years old and I am a student at NCIVS.♥


I have blonde hair and deep blue eyes.I weigh about 120 pounds and i am 5'5 inches. I think thats all you really need to know about my apperance.♥


I'm quite funny when i want to be around my friends. I'm out-going and i will talk to anyone, even if i dont know them. I have a few close friends, but that's all i really need =P. I can get really angry sometimes, but that is only if you make me mad. I didn't really have the best childhood, but that's beside the point. I'm very easy to get along with, im fun to be around, I don't really have a lot of self esteem, but im workin on it. I say good things about myself some of the time. But other than that, i would love to talk to anyone who wishes to. =)♥


If you need questions answered, ill try to answer them to the best of my ability. I will tell you like it is, because im that type of person, so dont get offended if i say anything mean. But, please give me feedback, i'd really appreciate it very much!♥

advice

I have been texting and chatting it up with this guy for a pretty long time and we were getting really into eachother. We both admitted that we liked eachother. For the last six days he has not text me back or anything, but I got my friend to text him and he text her right back. Now his relationship status in In a Relationship.
what should i do?

That means he found someone else... if he is ignoring you and not texting you back, thats a hint saying that I dont want to talk to you anymore...especially if his status is "In a Relationship".

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15/f.
me and my bf have been dating almost 6 months. and i wanna get him something for our anv.im hoping he'll remember,lol.
anyways. he LOVES music, hes in a band and he never stops listening to it. i thought about making him a CD. but he already has so many and stuff. any other ideas?
thank you!

Well, my idea is, (if its not too cold out) you should take him out on a date at the beach or at a park and make a picnic. You can bring a portable stereo and bring your homemade CD along and show him. Just relax and enjoy your time together. If you want to make it memorable, you could write him a love letter, or song and put it in a bottle (like the message in the bottle type thing) and put a ribbon around it. If you want any other ideas, please feel free to ask me. =) Im sure you two will have fun!

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I have.....i'm just gonna say it i have large boobs and alot of guys flirt with me but i want to know if they like me or my boobs please help me, massie

they are guys...what do you think?!? they like you for your boobs, thats it.

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I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?

Hm, if you wanted to have a party of some sort, you could ask him if he wanted to go bowling or something where you and him and his friends can enjoy a fun night out. That Jets idea is good idea too =). You should do something you both enjoy too. Now that christmas is over you cant really do the secret santa, but, you can send him little secret admirer notes if you want to, but there may be a risk in doing that. Anyways, just do something where a group of people can enjoy doing something and talk to your crush and have fun. =) Hope i helped.

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i like this cute guy. he's cute, funny, and smart. really what my problem is, is that i think he might have a gf. im new to his school and i have no idea whats going on with other ppl. at lunch he would finish his lunch and go sit with these other girls for like 2 minutes. but he will do this at every lunch with the same group of girls. he is in 3 of my classes everyday so i would like some advice on how i could get him to like me or even just what i should do about this situation. thx in advance.&hearts

P.S. im 13/f and i am wearing miniskirt to school tomorrow.

um okay.. do not wear a miniskirt to school.. bad idea.. that is not the way to get attention from a guy, you'll attract the wrong type of guys if you do that..if you want to talk to him, just do it. Since he's in three of your classes ask him questions about homework or something.. do not dress up yourself and be someone you arent, that is wrong.. you just gotta be yourself and if he likes you for who you are then thats great, if he has a girlfriend, at least then maybe you'll be friends.

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what do girls look for in a guy

well, im different from most chicks in a way also, so my answer might be different from others.

I look for a guy that is nice, funny, caring, respectful, and trustworthy. Im not too picky.. but thats basically what i look for in a guy.


-Kell

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lately ive been having SO much trouble with guys! first of all this guy said that he that i was hott and thought i was a cool girl and seem really nice and said "we should get to know each other better" but then he said he wanted to do stuff with me..and he just broke up because he had to with his girlfriend of over a year..he still always says i love you lauren on his away messages and everything but then he acts like he wants to get to know me better? we didnt talk for awhile then today hes like hey im gonna be at my friends are you gonna go over to his neighbors house? and im like nooo im leaving tomorrow outta town and hes messaged back and was like dangit i was looking forward to seeing you!! which i dont even know if he is going back out with his girlfriend because their parents said they couldnt go out for some reason but they wanted to behind their back! i mean i told him before that i dont know if we should "get to know each other better" because they were both like in love and then hes like well shes probably gonna leave me for another guy anyways..so now thats all confusing! and all this stuff..and then i kinda was crushin on this other guy before we always flirted and i loved talking to him and he just just adorable and the sweetest ever but he liked this other girl and now they are going out..so that hurt me too..now we cant flirt and stuff and he always talks about his girlfriend and it makes me sad seeing him because i know we cant talk and flirt like we use to and he probably doesnt see me as that kinda girl now since he really likes his girlfriend..and then a couple days ago i was talkin to this kid on AIM that i thought was really cute and everything but we havent met yet ive just always thought he was cute and stuff...ive seen him around alot ..well he just blew me off so now i feel like a complete idiot! now if i see him again im gonna be embarassed because im gonna feel like he thinks im some stupid girl that he doesnt want to talk to..im so fed up with guys ive never even had a boyfriend but ive madeout with some! im 16/f..

should i keep hanging out with these guys and trying? but i dont want to get hurt...i just really want a guy..or a friend anything!! they all seem to screw me over :[ i just wish i could have someone that would understand me and could be there for me! i have my best friends but a guy would be nice too...ive waitied 16 years for a guy!? i feel like i'll never get the opportunity because things always get messed up

well sorry so long but thanks for helping and taking your time to read this!

Well, by the sounds of things.. i think he is going to use you because thats usually what guys who use chicks do.. believe me i know. Just be careful and if you are unsure.. dont date or hang out with him anymore

Racquel

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So I started talking to my ex and we were getting along and we were just going to stay friends. Well, I see this guy I used to know he's a year and half older. He's a saufmore I'm an eigth grader. He hugs me and keeps flirting w/ me and hitting on me. He hints he wants to go out, but he's really perverted. I think I like him though. I don't know if I should go out with him, he's said some...umm bad stuff. My mom would kill me if she found out, but I'm not too worried, I'm not the goodie goodie type. I'm kinda afraid if I go out with him I'll do a lot more than I want. I mean one of the first things he asked me was how far I've gotten and what I'd say if he fingered me, and I said I dont really care {ik i'm so freaking stupid}. Now my ex asked me what I would say if he asked me out and I pretty much said yeah w/e no it's just bc you can't go out w/ this one girl and he said no she still wants togo out but nvm. Are all guys perverted at 15?? Is it ok? There aren't that many good guys that I really like. I mean he's nice and everything just really really perverted...please people my age answer this! I don't want mom's opinions sorry and all!

Well, from the looks of things, yes, he just wants to use you. If you are afraid to go out with him, then dont. About guys being perverted at 15, im sorry to say, but most of them are, in fact all of them are. Sometimes nice guys can be decieving, if you want my advice, i wouldnt go out with him, he seems like a bad person to go out with. My reason is because he will force you to do something you will not want to do.

Good Luck,
Racquel

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