Hi! i'm Jodie and i just want to help all you peeps out there who are having problems! If i can help i will. I'M RATED HIGH!!
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well there is this guy and well he is really hott and nice. i like him and i think he knows but, how do i know if he is interested? hes really sweet and i have like alot of feelings for him. im not gorgeous but im not ugly. we have the same friends and another problem is like all the other girls in school like him too. (link)
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i have two things to say:
-You have gd taste
-Go 4 it
if evryother girl is goin 4 it u might as well give it a try. first get your mates to do some hint making and ask him if he likes you. rememba he aint gonna be completely honest with them so any slightly good answer will do. then you can either get a m8 to ask him out for you or you could be brave and have a go yourself!!
Hope i've helped
-x-JoDiE-x-
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ok i like this guy, i mean really like this guy. hes sweet and cute and is always super super nice to me. the point is, hes gotta gf! i really like him and im sorta friends with his girlfriend. but im really really jealous of her! do you think he sorta likes me if he always talks to me and gave me his number?thanks (link)
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well your probably better off letting their relationship end before you start flirting or anything because messing up relationships can give you a bad name! when they've split wait a few days so your sure theres still nuthin between them because all you need is them doing stuff behind your back.
has he put anything on text messages like 'luv u'cus thats usually a sign. u cd get one of ur mates or his mates 2 find out if he likes you or not!
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sry its long - i need lots of help! my b/f broke up wit me in Sep. and we would still flirt but he would totally lead me on - i got hurt and he didnt leave me any messages like "feel better" he just said "whats wrong with you" i didnt really appreciate it =( then tonite i got to go out and he was there and he didnt talk to me once! then online he acted like nothin happened! he was flrtin with me and instead of the usual "love you" he just said "later" he leads me on and all i wanna do is get over him but he is in my classes and i would get jealous if a girl was even just talking . what should i do??!?!? (link)
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Even if he is interested in you he isn't showing it! i think you shud forget about him, it will be his loss!! no man is worth the pain hes putting you through and the only thing you will get from this relationship if you got together is hurt and tears. move on to anuvva lad, make your ex jealous and be as happy as you were before!!!
Gd look and message me!!
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i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do? (link)
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there isn't really much you can do about it! your friends wouldn't lie to you so there obviously right. have a girls night in, make a few phone calls and you'll hav a boyfriend by the end of the month! good look!!!
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Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".
♥ (link)
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GUYS R THE BIGGEST MYSYTERYS IN THE WORLD! there isn't really that many things they do to show they like girls except tell there m8s and make moves on them. its usually up 2 us girls to get it out of them!
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me and this guy had a really really fun time one night (not sex) we just cuddled and kissed the whole night. I really like him alot, but im not sure if he likes me too. yeah we cuddled but he's kind of a user so i couldn't tell. ANYWAYS! that was 4 days ago, and he hasnt called me yet. would it be extrally gay if i text him while i was at school just to have a regualar convorsation an be like "whats up? im bored at school an decided to text u." would that be gay, weird, or just normal? i've never texted him an im to nervouse to call him. would it be cheesy if i did? tell me your honest opinion, please! (link)
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that would b a quite gd thing to do but you also need 2 get a m8 to go undercover and find out if he likes you. that way he'll b honest and you wont get embarrassed! Gd luk!
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There's this guy that I have a little crush on. He's nice and all and fairly good looking but the problem is he's about an inch and a half shorter than me. I stand quite a good chance with him but I keep worrying about the height thing because I used to go out with someone shorter than me and it was annoying. Should I just forget the height issue and go out with him or leave it? It's not even a major crush, just a small one and I could get over it if I wanted to. (link)
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The question is: DO YOU WANT TO GET OVER IT?
if i was you i'd give him a try but you really need to follow your heart in these situations. just think... he'll grow! if you love him a few months of bending down to kiss him wont really matter! Gd luk nd rememba 2 tell me if u get him and whetha it works out!
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Hey guys, our Sadie Hawkin's dance is coming up, and I want a creative way to ask my guy. We're dating, and I don't really have to ask him, I just kinda want to. Lol. Some ideas have been:
Balloons
Puzzle
Cake (but that won't work because I can't bake...)
Um...I think that's all my friends have thought of. If you guys think one of these ideas is great, tell me, and lemme know if you have any other ideas! Thanks =) (link)
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get a pizza and write da question out in smarties or m+m'z. (From princess diaries!)
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15 (link)
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u need a big reality check. the most important thing to do is stick by your gf and tell your parents. they may be annoyed but then they'll chill and they'll want to help you. GD LUK. bet you'll b a gr8 daddy!
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**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**
There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin' (link)
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Well go to the cinema, flirt a bit and see if he makes a move on you. take it slow because boys dont like being rushed. i'd understand if you were like really good mates bt it seems like ur just bus pals. GD luk and tell me how you get on!!!
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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something.. (link)
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Dont cry because no ones worth your tears. Whats mor important a guy you'll b into 4 a few months or friends you have and will know 4 years!? Ask your friends if it would be better if you seperated from him. Its probab;y jealousy thats making them like this but they probably dont know how selfish their being to you. i bet if you told them they would stop it and be happy with you but make sure you do what you want. they probably aint really that gd of m8z if they cant let it settle and be happy 4 u. GD LUK BABE!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp
-- me (link)
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Go 4 it babe!!!
Just ask him tomorrow or bring it up in convosation. us girls are great at throwing hints! jus make sure you use a condom (lolz, i probz sound like ur mother). All guys want sex, ur man wont be much different. it makes up 99% of their brain power!
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Ok well I like a guy who doesnt like me dont know how to get his attention, im 14 and i dunno I want him to like me... i try to look the other way(try to like other guys) But for somereason i still like him(liked him since like 7th grade and now im a freshmen... we talk on the phone sometimes (as friends) I know who he likes...(makes me kinda sad... so i cant ask him out!)Friends with the girl he likes... which is also hard... hard looking at her knowing she has everything i want... she used to like him not anymore...wish I could be everything she is... even tho I dont know why...I try to keep my self from crying... but sometimes it doesnt work...(its hard knowing we can only be friends) dont talk that much at school (i guess hes shy! and i am too) he knows I like him which also sucks(ooh so do his friends... i think he told them all)... it makes it harder to talk to him sometimes... when i do talk to him i try not to think about him knowing i like him...I think hes the cutest person ever... i dunno i just need advice I dont want to cry over him... but i dont just want me friends with him... and I dont wanna get over him... yea confusing... well help if u can...
~!~LiveStrong~!~ (link)
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Tell him that you want to tell him something but if he doesnt feel the same way that it doesnt matter! (even if it will(u dont wanna pressure him!)) He'll try 2 be nice about it but you'll know whether he wants to be more than good friends. If you dont want to take the risk then just find another fit lad to be mad about. Friends are more important enywayz! GD luk babe!
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hey um im in 7th grade and i have never made out before, the guy that im going out with thinks i have, but i haven't, and hes tried to make his move a couple of times, i've been going behind my parents back, im not aloud to have a boyfriend let alone frech kiss a guy. My parentes are strict, they wont even let him call me, but he does anyway, lol im scared that i'll like screw up and he would think im a bad kisser. I would have no idea what to do, help me out (link)
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Just relax and let his tongue guide you into heavenly bliss while you slide your tongue down the back of his throat. and he slowly coresses your breasts! And remember to just relax!
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ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
his ex gf is still in love with him and wont leave us alone. he feels guilty for leaving her for another girl and she wont stop trying with him. help ! (link)
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Hi. Dnt worry bout him. hes nt worth it. jus let her hav him cus she ovisly needs him more! move on!!!
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