I am 16 years old and a guy
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Ohkay , so its this boy name Zachary , andd I think I like him well i know i do . hes in my first perios class and mee and him talk but not alot he sits right infront of me . But the thing is I dont know how to tell him and Im scared he wont even like me and would reject me . CONFUSED , Help ?
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If you guys don't talk that much, don't come right out and tell him you like him. Start talking to him a little more first, maybe even outside of your 1st period class. By talking to him more, you'll be able to pick up signals on whether or not he would be interested in you.
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This is somewhat long..I'm a girl, 16. I've never been in a relationship.
I met this guy he's a year younger than me and goes to my school. He is totally nice, respectful, and fun. He is somewhat of a nerd..in some people's eyes..He's a bit overweight and has glasses. About a month ago we told each other we liked each other on the phone. Immediately after he hanged up, I got sick and threw up. I don't know why, but I just felt disgusting and that I shouldn't have told him. The next day we decided to meet and discuss it together in the park. He asked to kiss me and I don't know why I did, but I said yes. We only kissed twice on the lips for like half a second, it was nothing crazy. We just sat there for a while, his arm around me blah blah.. Later that night I called him and I told him that when he kissed me..I felt nothing. I broke his heart and he cried. Three weeks later we made up and made a truce. We talked on the phone again, but just as really good friends.
Last night, I told him I still get weird feelings around him..he said he did as well. He told me he wanted to kiss me one last time..I agreed. I told him tho that I my feelings for him are on and off. I would get over him soon. But he was being so nice and so romantic. I felt so bad. I told him today that I don't feel like that anymore and that I was wrong to say I still liked him.
I know I'm a major jerk. I like him sometimes, but then when I try to picture us together, I never see it. He's a great friend I would never want to lose, but I can't stop these occasional feelings. Please help. Thanks in advance (link)
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Ok heres the scoop...your feelings towards him are on and off, because chances are you really do like him, but in the back of your mind worry how other people would think of you if you were with him. By the way you wrote it, you can probably get someone better looking than him, so you wan't to hold yourself at a higher physical standard of guys.
If that is the problem, don't worry about what other people think. I'm a senior in high school now, and i have done that a few times and regret them all. Just don't keep switching on the kid, i feel bad for him just reading that lol
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Me=16
him-17
I'm completely in love with him and we always talk about growing old together. and the thing im looking most forward to someday is us living together and me getting to wake up to him. And having the most amazing Children!!
me and my boyfriend have attempted having sex 3 times.
the 1st time. we just got exited with the fact it was finally gonna happen and we put the condom on to soon, once he got hard we attempted it but couldnt get it to go on(he on top)
the 2nd & 3rd time. We waited for it to get hard but we still couldnt get it in again he was on top.
Everytime we attempt when we almost get there he goes off. It only takes him like 5 seconds. Is that normal? do people normally mess up and go off that fast? i thought the first time it would be amazing but technically we havent had sex its just a bunch of attempts. but i still had a scare 2weeks ago when my period was 3 weeks late but i dont understand why it could be. couldnt of been pregnancy.
so my questions are-
-would sex work better with me on top?
-is it supposed to go off that fast?
-do people normally mess up like this on their first time?
-since we are young and have had or attempted sex does this mean we dont know what love is? ive been told many times that thats what that means. (link)
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To answer the sex questions:
Maybe you can help him by kinda guiding it in there...yea. Or you can try going on top, but still try guiding him to the right place. And yes, people can mess up during their first time having sex, as neither of you has had practice.
But it seems to me that your boyfriend has a problem with premature ejaculation. I don't know too much about the whole premature thing though.
And don;t listen to other people telling you you don't know what love is and blah blah blah. I'm a senior now, and one of my friends has been going out with his girlfriend since 8th grade. Obviously they love each other. Only you know whether you truly love someone or not. You are old enough to know what love is.
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16/f
Alright, so me and this guy have been dating since the summer. I couldn't ask for a sweeter guy than him. When i am with him i get the best feeling and i just love spending time with him. Well my problem is this, one day at lunch one of my really good friends came over to my table. so we start talking and things and she told me that my man wants to do more things that just makeout. He has done things before with previous girlfriends. And im really not sure if i should or not. I mean yeah, i want to. But then the other part of me doesnt. Im just so confussed and i really don't know what to do. So if you could PLEASE help me i would really appericate it!! Thanks in advance. (: (link)
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Do what you feel you are ready to do. If you really like the guy why not take things to the next level?
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Sexy [from a guys point of view], acceptable in society if they are bisexual, acceptable in society if they are straight, and/or just plain wrong? (link)
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Deffinately sexy...whether the girls are staight or not. Turns me on at least.
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What type of things to guys like in girls?
turn offs and ons? i know everyones answer will be different. kay thanks. :] (im not sure if this is the right category. so sorry.) (link)
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Turn Ons:
Being down to earth
being smart
having a sense of humor
being pretty
being outgoing
turn offs:
being shallow
pretending to be dumb
being stuck up
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ok so me and my best friend are verey close and like im falling for her boy friend....and i think hes falling for me...me and him talk so much more than they do it not even funny....what shall i do (link)
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Well...all I can tell you is boys/girls come and go, but your best friend should always be there. Now, I have been in the same situation, but never ruin a friendship with your best friend over her boyfriend. Keep talking to the boy, don't drop your friendship with him, but give it time. maybe one day they will break up and you can have a shot.
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should i break up with my bf? he is always looking at other girls and commenting on how hot they are. what would you do if you were me??
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That is no reason to break up with someone, let be serious. Just let him know how you feel about that, but I honestly do not think you should break up with a guy for looking at girls. Like you never looked at a hot guy who passed you? Guys will be guys, and he probably feels comfortable enough with the relationship so much that he will just flat out be himself. You have been going out over a year, so I feel thats no big deal.
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Hey ima 13/f and i have a boyfriend and i love him he has the best intention's for me ( most of the time) and he is so sweet but i have one prob. ima white girl and i have a very very close guy friend and he is black and him and my boyfriend do NOT get along at all!! and my and guy frind are so close like we habg out all the time how cani get him and my boyfriend to get along?? and the reason they dont get along is because my boyfriend thinks black kids/adults are gunna hurt me so can you please help??
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Don't assume he might be controlling later on because he has somewhat racist views. Now, you can't make any body get along, but set it straight that they do not have to be friends, but just be respectful of you, and each other. Do not stop talking to your best guy friend, you will absolutely regret it. Talk to your boyfriend, I'm sure you guys can work it out
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so..i dont think i like my boyfriend anymore but he always says that he loves me and he would die if we werent together..ect...so should i break up with him? i've been hanging out with his friend a lot and we have kind of a conection but i cant like him because then my boyfriend would get really mad..what should i do? (link)
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I would say put some more thought into it, and if your feelings stay the same, your going to have to end the relationship. You will just grow unhappy and miserable. But for his sake, do NOT go for his friend, that ill only cause problems.
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I'm in 8th grade and i really like this boy and i think he likes me too but the problem is that he is my best friends ex. I seem to always fall for my best friends crushes and i don't no why i think it's because we only have 30 guys in my grade but i don't no what to do my best friends and i all have the same tastes so what do i do" Because i would hate to be the brat that steals everyones boyfriends (link)
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You fall for the same guys as your best friend because you guys most likely have similar personalities. It has happened to me and my friends before, because we are similar in ways and that makes us attracted to the same girls. nothing youcan really do, besides talk things out with your friends before going after their ex.
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ok so there's this guy. 5'7 brown hair bright brown eyes. the whole shabang. he has a gf. but im still madly in love with him. me and him are lyk peanut butter && jelly. we're really good friends. he knows i really like him. i talked to him for 3 hours straight last night. we flirt with each other -a lot- . do u think this might me he likes me but has a gf so doesn't wanna show it or tell anyone? if not, what does it mean? PLEASE HELP ME! what should i do?
14/f
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There is a good chance he likes you too, but yes, he has a gf, and he wont exactly tell anyone besides his close circle of friends. keep your relationship with him, and if him and his gf ever break up, then who knows what can happen.
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So im a 15/f. I havent had my first kiss yet! Not to sound cocky like at all, but Im cute! I know afew people who like me, and I'm sure wouldnt mind hooking up. So my question is, should I keep waiting for that special person/time for my first kiss? Or should I just hook up with someone and get it over with. I mean no offence but im so kiss horny! lol I want to hook up with someone so bad, but I also dont want to ruin something potentially special you know? Is your first kiss really that big of a deal? THANKS!! (link)
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For the sake of the guys who like you... HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE!!!!
Lol, jk...but you have to just think about it. personally i like just living up my life and doing whatever, so in my opinion i'd say hook up with someone. But i am a guy, so i have a completely different perspective.
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im a female and im 14 yrs old. i have a best friend and she's in LOVE with her ex. he's moved on and started liking other girls. he started liking me, and he knows that im best friend's with his ex. my bff, at first, was ok with me being all flirty with him. But later on, she started to get upset. i don't know what to do because i still want to be all flirty with her ex, but at the same time i dont want to hurt my friend's feelings. what should i do to keep everyone happy including me? (link)
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Ha this is a situation that ive been in, and still sort of am. One of my best friends has a girlfriend who is very flirty with me and they break up on and off, but are still pretty much together, and i got into a huge fight with him over her.
I'll tell you one thing though, friends are more important than a boyfriend/girlfriend. In the end, you friends will always be there, and it is never worth losing a friend over a guy/girl. A little flirting isnt bad if it is just your personality, but try not to do it in front of your friend if you want, and DO NOT ever make a move on him, or let him on you.
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There's this guy I've known for a few years. We had a math class together & became real good friends. I ended up liking him but he had a girlfriend. Well, he graduated and I haven't seen him until now & the feelings are coming back. He doesn't have a girlfriend this time.
Anyways, I went with him and his sister (a close friend of mine) to the lake this past weekend. His sister told me on the way there he said he didn't like me, but the way he was acting that night was totally different. He kept grabbing my hand and holding it, looking at me and smiling.. we watched a movie in his sister's car and he was holding me the whole time, & also when we went to sleep. There were other things I probably don't remember..
So question 1: do you think he was lying? I don't think he was, because his attention was on me the whole time. But his sister and the other people with us said different. I just want to know if he's playing mind games.
Not ONLY that, my best friend, who used to go out with him, wants to have sex with him again. I told her no, but all she would say was "I will, watch me. If I'm not with anyone I will." She has done this to me SO many times. But then again, it hasn't just been him. She's been trying to get back with all her ex's lately. She's tried to get one's phone number, and the other she hangs out at his house a lot & told me she liked him again. That didn't last for long though.
Question 2: Should I even worry about her? I just don't want her around him if that's all she's going to do. She has done me this way with so many other guys I've liked & I'm tired of it. I'm not gonna let it happen to me again.
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First things first, some friend if she goes after all the guys you like, even when you ask her not to. That set aside...I think he deffinately likes you, and he was lying to his sister. If he wanted to hold you hand and be close with you the whole night, he likes you. At least thats how i would show i like a girl.
And for Q#2, try not to get into situations where she would be around him. And maybe bemore stern with your friend, and tell her stragith up that you will be very mad at her if she does.
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okay, there's this guy i like in school, but i don't know what to do. I catch him looking my way a lot, but that's about it. He's friends with everygirls in my class, except four girls, including me. I don't know what to do. I really like him, and we kinda hit it off last year. But thenn we had summer vacay, and we didn't really talk.actually, there was no talking at all. now everythings weird, and we never talk. even when we were the only ones in a group together for an hour a whole week, or a group of three with the new kid, who dosen't speak english very well, we neer spoke. Help me, pleeeeeeeeeease! how can i start a conversation with this guy? help! guys, i would really like your help on who to go about this! thx, kitzy. (link)
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I have been in the same situation...try just starting a conversation about whatever classes you were in together last year. Be like "hey, do you remember ______ class last year" just as a start. I'm sure everything will fall into place.
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Hey i'm 16/F .so i like this guy.. and im pretty sure that he likes me back. I want to tell him that i like him because i hate having like stupid crushes and not being able to hook up with the people you like or go out with them. But i was wondering since he is kind of shy, what is a good way i could tell him that i like him. I dont want to just say "I like you" because to me that would be a little ackward. What is an attractive or like funny way to tell him i like him?
Thaaanks=) (link)
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Good idea coming to a guy with this, i'm 16 m too. I am in your same exact situation...and i know...it sucks. As a guy, to show that you like him, be just flirty towards him. If you are flirty towards every guy it will not mean as much though. If you pay more attention to him than any other guy who is around at the same time...he will start to feel that you like him. Try to get into like love lif discussions with him, either in person or on the computer. Ask him who he likes, and if he doesn't want to tell you he might actually like you.
Basically what i'm saying is that if you do not want to come right out and tell him "i like you"( i would'nt either), your going to just have to hint at it through flirting with him. Even have a friend talk to him, or talk to one of his fiends. Have them say something like "so i think (your name) likes you" just to see his reaction. Let me know how it goes, and if you need more advice on anything don't hesitate to ask me.
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okay question
do guys actually look at a girls clothes?
what do they like or look at? i know its broad and that every guy is different but im talking about in general.
do they look at eyes?
do they like smart girls, pretty girls, stupid girls, flirty girls.
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In general, I have to say guys are all different, haha. That was kinda obnoxious of me. Anyway, I would say guys do look at clothes, but not like the brand, but the general style. Personally, I look at eyes, and im sure alot of other guys do too, because a girl with beatiful eyes can pretty much capture a guy. As for the last part, I have to say all guys are different. I'm sorry, but I can't speak for the general population of guys. I can't stand girls who act incredibly stupid. I do not find it cute or hot or anything, but then again you will find guys who do like that.
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15/f
what qualties do guys look for in a girl like honestly? (link)
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All guys are different. Not all are shallow pigs, remember that. Looks do matter, but are not most important. I do not need the hottest girl out there. For a relationship, personally I would like a girl who can make me laugh, who is laid back, intelligent, and not too nice. But thats just me. Everyone is different.
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I'm 14/f and i used to like a guy in my english class (16/m) since the first day of school. the crush ended around the beginning of march, but now him and his friends think i like him, and now he likes me and won't stop trying to talk to me and saying hi. it's so annoying and embarassing
how can i get him to stop? (link)
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Well, first there is nothing wrong with him saying hi or just talking. You have to like something about him if you had a crush on him, so there is nothing involved in beginning a friendship. Maybe you will start liking him again. But if him talking to you really bothers you, try talking to his friends and tell them that you are not interested in him.
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