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Sex
Me=16
him-17
I'm completely in love with him and we always talk about growing old together. and the thing im looking most forward to someday is us living together and me getting to wake up to him. And having the most amazing Children!!
me and my boyfriend have attempted having sex 3 times.
the 1st time. we just got exited with the fact it was finally gonna happen and we put the condom on to soon, once he got hard we attempted it but couldnt get it to go on(he on top)
the 2nd & 3rd time. We waited for it to get hard but we still couldnt get it in again he was on top.
Everytime we attempt when we almost get there he goes off. It only takes him like 5 seconds. Is that normal? do people normally mess up and go off that fast? i thought the first time it would be amazing but technically we havent had sex its just a bunch of attempts. but i still had a scare 2weeks ago when my period was 3 weeks late but i dont understand why it could be. couldnt of been pregnancy.
so my questions are-
-would sex work better with me on top?
-is it supposed to go off that fast?
-do people normally mess up like this on their first time?
-since we are young and have had or attempted sex does this mean we dont know what love is? ive been told many times that thats what that means.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
- Would it work better?
It depends on the person. If you would like to give it a try if missionary isn't working, there is nothing wrong with experimenting.
- I have no clue what you mean by "go off"
If you mean he loses his erection before he puts it in you, then yes that's normal. And it's called nerves.
If you mean he ejaculates before he puts it in you. That's normal as wells. And it's due to exitement.
- First times are never perfect, and it usually takes a few times for it to work. You aren't alone.
- Only you know if you love someone, regardless of age. If you feel you love this boy, maybe you do. Or maybe a few years from now, you will consider to have been puppy love. You never know. When you love someone, you just know, and there is really know way to explain that in words.
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To answer the sex questions:
Maybe you can help him by kinda guiding it in there...yea. Or you can try going on top, but still try guiding him to the right place. And yes, people can mess up during their first time having sex, as neither of you has had practice.
But it seems to me that your boyfriend has a problem with premature ejaculation. I don't know too much about the whole premature thing though.
And don;t listen to other people telling you you don't know what love is and blah blah blah. I'm a senior now, and one of my friends has been going out with his girlfriend since 8th grade. Obviously they love each other. Only you know whether you truly love someone or not. You are old enough to know what love is.
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