Hello, its me again, i wrote you earlier about me liking a girl and how i saw her at work and stuff, and i am guessing you don't no who this is.... because the girl i like a little is you! and to give you a hint on who this is i will see you again at the skating rink for the all night because i don't have to work friday... i really can't wait to see you... maybe you can skate with me for real on one of your breaks! and maybe you can call me and talk to me before friday.
I think I know who this is, thats cool your comeing Friday night, I dont get off tho until like 1 30 in the morning. But I have a boyfriend now. Im not gonna be mean to you or anything tho, Im still your friend.
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well on friday night i went to the movie with my best friend and we saw a scary movie, and well i was like leaning up against him and i would always hide my face in his hood whenever i got scared, and well his mom picked us up afterwards, just me and him, but we went with like 10 other people, like 5 girls, 5 guys, but they were going out and we werent, only 2 other people werent, so i walked inside and my dad was like, so which one was your date? and he was like hastling me all night. and then i went over to my best friends house on saturday and he told me that his mom was doing the same thing, and then she took us to the movies again that night, but this time it was just me and him, and she was like, "you know i think you guys should consider it because your really cute together" and personally i think so too because we both have brown hair and he's a tiny bit taller than me, and well i didnt say anything, but anyway we saw another scary movie, and i dont know how it happened but we ended up kissing? and my brother was there and he saw it and he got us a ride with his date's parents so while we were in the car his date was like, aw guys come on i swear you two are so cute together. well we didnt think anything of it. but yesterday i went bowling with my brother and we had to take our baby cousin so our other cousin who's our age went too, and my best friend called me and he asked me if i could hang out and i told him what i was doing, but my brother was like, "no you should go hang out with your boyfriend" and my best friend heard it, so he asked me out today, and in school we were hugging and we got in trouble?? but anyway i'm REALLY afraid we're gonna break up, i mean, he tells me he cares about me and he loves me and his mom has always liked me, but i dont know im really scared our friendship wont last. do you have any tips how i can get over this??
sorry its so long.
I know you feel weird dating your bestfriend, but think about he prolly knows you really well, you two can have fun together, and he likes you for you. Guys dont get any better than that. I know you prolly feel weird being his girlfriend, instead of just his friend, but that will pass if you give it time, cause you'll accept the fact that yall are more than friends. Sometimes you gotta give things time before you can know for sure it will work.But no matter what happens you two will prolly be friends even if yall do end up breaking up, but it might be awkward at first if yall break up.
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Ok. I'm interested in this guy that goes to my school he's really cute and he thinks I'm pretty but I am so shy. What do I do? Another girl is interested in him and I'm afraid if I don't do something I'll miss my chance. I really want to talk to him but I don't know what to say especially since I've only said a few words to him on a few occasions. Please help me!
If he thinks your pretty and you like him, get over your shyness, I would much rather feel dumb tryin to talk to him then... never talking to him, just try it, I know your shy and your scared but sometimes you gotta take a chance. Go for it what do you really have to lose ? Plus if you dont hurry up and try to get to know him that other girl is liable to move in on him, just try. Hope it works out for you.
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Im having a bit of trouble with a guy i like a and i know FOR A FACT that he likes me. but i think that he just has trouble with commitment because of his last relationship. So what advice can you give me to help!!
If you think he has trouble being commited because of his past relationship, more than likely the last girl he dated has hurt him. Give him time to just realize somethings arent meant to be, he'll figure out that the person hes really suppose to be with is right in front of him. Show him he can trust you and that you arent like other girls, you wont hurt him.And if hes still worried about commitment just explain to him that you two dont have to get serious right away, because those things take time.
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I met this really cool guy at a party a couple of weeks ago and we had like everything in common. He seemed a little bit interested in me that night, but it was hard to tell. He got my screen name from my friend and he IMed me and said he wanted to do something that weekend. Plans didn't really seem to work out 2 weeks in a row. He definatly seemed interested like a week ago and he kept trying to see me. I kept telling myself not to get too hooked on the guy because I just met him and I need to get to know what he's like. Plus I didn't want to get hurt if things didn't work out. So my friends asked if he liked me and he said he wasn't sure because he doesn't really know me, but that I'm an amazing girl. So naturally being a girl, I plan out this whole relationship in my head not being able to control myself. The past week we haven't talked much and when we have he didn't seem to still be interested at all. He didn't say anything about maybe doing something this weekend, which he normally would've done at this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for falling for him because now I'm feeling really sad about the whole thing. I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and I've been searching for someone, but I didn't like anyone until I found him. Do you think he still likes me and I'm just reading too into it? And am I crazy for being so obsessive? Like maybe he's just busy this weekend or something... I don't know, but I'm confused and I just want to get over it!
You like him, face it, it'll take a lil while for you get over it. But it will pass. Sorry you havent had a relationship in over two years. But there will be one that comes along that is just right for you. Keep waiting,because something good will come along. And as far as this guy you like right now, just ask him if he wants to get to know you, to where the two of you could be more than friends...whats it gonna hurt ?
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ok.. me and my boyfriend of 10 mths broke up.. its almost been a month.. and im still totally in love with him.. ive told him.. and he knows.. i think he might like me again too.. so i was wondering.. if the next time we hug as "friends" should i kiss him on the cheek? or do i show him any type of emotion towards me wantin him back, or should i just act like friends with him?
*Madinga*
I think you should just be friends with him, he'll let you know if he wants to try again. But if you get tired of waiting for him to say something, just ask you might miss out on something if you dont. Goodluck.
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I want your advice on this ..
i love my boyfriend soo much, and i know we argue and have our lil differences, but we always seem to work it out yah know. but anyways he is violent sometimes and we get pretty worked up, he seys some fucked up stuff to me and tells me hes gunna beat me ass and shyt like that. i know what ur thinkin, im an idiot for stayin wit him for this long, but its really hard to leave him. ive broken up with him like 5 times already and weve only been datin for around 6 months. everytime i dump him he always weasels his lil way back in and seys shyt like he loves me soo much he cant live without me and he would die for me. and eventually i start believin that were gunna do better this time and hell treat me better. but it never seems to get any better. i wanna know what u think i should do, stick it out and try to talk with him, or leave him for good?
thanks alot
Well Im the kinda girl who would stomp a guy into the floor if he hit me or anything violent. I know you love him, but you have to realize that deep down he really doesnt love you because if he did he wouldnt lay a finger on you! You should never let him touch you in a violent way, and I know that you break up with him and you go back out with him because he says he'll change and you want to believe so much that he really will change. But when it comes down to it a guy like him will never change unless he gets help. Break up with him, and leave him alone, you are so much better than him on so many levels, and you deserve someone who will treat you right. So leave him for good!
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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?
I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!
Anyone experienced this?
Help me to stop please!
Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??
Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*-
p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!
Thanks!! :)
Its normal, dont panic, if you really love your boyfriend dont let this likein someone else bother you. It happens after you've been dating someone for a long time, but you get a crush on someone else just because sometimes you wonder what it is like to be with someone else, but just stick with him you'll get over likeing someone else, because i know you said you wont break up with him but if you were you'd realize how much you miss his ways, Stay with the one you love, because like comes and goes, love is forever...
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?
Oppurtunities arent lost, their taken, if she is really pretty you better hurry someone else will decided their interested in her and might get to her before you do. Just dont be scared, rejection is part of life, and it happens to everyone, try it,you never know what will happen.Goodluck.
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ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do?
You like him as more than a friend for sure, but your so use to acting as a bestfriend/sister type to him, you dont know how to act towards him as a girlfriend. Which is something you'll have to get over and just learn that things change a little when you go from being friends to boyfriend/girlfriend, but more than likely you really like him just like how he likes you. Go for it what do you have to lose ? But if you start get weird feelings or something just remember its because yall just been friends in the past, trust me sooner or later you'll get over that, you prolly have a good relationship waiting for you.
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?
Well just give him a call, but dont call after 9 at night that way incase his moms in a bad mood she wont get mad at you or him for calling late.
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My friend Ray introdcued me to his best friend Jason. In the beginning Jason and I got along fine, everyone thought he was interested in me. But soon Jason started asking me about other boys.. whether I liked them or not. It wasnt really any of his business so I would just respond to him without really answering his question. Now all of a sudden lately Jason has been extreamly rude to me. A friend of mine seems to think Jason has the hots for me and is upset Im talking about other boys. I think he's just plain rude. Other opinions would be nice. I rate.
Yeah I think your right, this guy Jason at first wanted to be friends or whatever, then he started to realize he kind of likes you. When he started to try to hint to you that he likes you, by being interested in wether you liked any guys or whatever, more than likely he was tryin to see if you had a boyfriend. And not responding to him to where it gives him an answer but still talking about guys, made him jealous because he likes you. Dont worry hes being rude but its also called being immature, thats how guys are when their scared to tell the girl they like her. If your interested in him confront him and tell him that your interested in getting to know him as more than a friend. But personally I wouldnt talk to him as more than a friend because hes being jerky about the whole situation of you talking bout other guys now, I could only imagine how he would be if you were his girlfriend. Boys are retarded ...
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How can you tell who a major flirt likes? Does he show them more attention or less? Because I have a friend that is a major flirt and he's been following me around in the mornings before school, he's also suddenly starting to eat lunch with me, and always wants to be my partner in Drama. Why the sudden change is another question?
With someone who is a big flirt, usually their relationships arent real good, or last very long with someone, because for the simple fact they flirt too much, to tell the difference between likeing somebody, and just being friendly. If this guy flirts that way, more than likely hes not real good to date. But if you think he pays you more attetion that the other girls he flirts with maybe you should try it with him, But just know that more than likely he treats a lot of girls like he is treating you seperately. More than likely hes just haveing fun and hes not lookin for someone to date, just to have fun and play around with, sorry boys are stupid like that, shoot even girls are stupid like that.
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hey well here is the problem.. sorry might be long! ok well the guy i am goin out with i like him alot! and i mean i kno i love him.. i hve never felt this way about ne guy ever!.. we hve been goin out for a while now. but the problem is like at school or somewhere wher there are 'certain' people or something i jus act diff around him..and at school he says i act like i dont like him but when we are alone everything is perfect.. i mean i kno im not embarrassed of him! he is not the kind of guy u would be embarrassed of! i love him soo much but we hve been gettin into alot of fights about this and i dont kno what to do i tell him all the time i wil try to act different but i never do.. i dont want to loose him over something like this!! if you hve any help at all please answer or leave ur sn and i will IM you! thanks soo much!!
Hey, this is something that happens a lot, it just means probably that you dont know how to act in front of your friends with him, your scared your gonna be too touchy or not enough. But you should realize that you should be no different with him at school than you are in private away from people. Talk to him about this..And if this aint the problem, more than likely the love you feel for him, isnt as in being IN love with him, you just care about him as a friend and arent comfortable enough around him as his girlfriend to make things work. If you wanna IM to ask me anything or talk about it go ahead.. my s/n is carreraquads
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Ok, where to start? I'm a freshman in high-school, and I totally hate high-school. I mean, its not THAT bad, but I'd prefer middle school, anyday. Last year, (in 8th grade) I had it all. Great friends, boyfriends, pretty decent grades, and everybody liked me pretty much. I was Ms. Perfect, and I was supposedly SUPER-HOT, or so everybody said. Now, I feel like crap. I'm always trying to be someone I'm not. My best friend moved away, far and we barely ever keep it contact. My other best friend, well we don't even ever hang out because I ditched her for my current best friend, and so now she had better friends, and I'm just a nobody. And my new best friend, well we've only been friends for about a year, not entirely, but the fights we get into, its unbelievable. I haven't fought like I gought with her, with my other friends for two years. I mean, she's a good friend, but gets pissed easily, I mean we're two different people, I've talked to her about it before, but ehh. I don't know what to do. Now, guys. Yeah, people still like me, but not as much. There's lots more prettier girls! And life, my social life is horrible, my parents don't let me do shit. Guys, I've had two big crushes that both liked me but things got screwed up because I was too shy. I know how people say, that if you're popular and stuff in middle school, in high school you won't be, and vice-versa. I don't know what to do about ALL of this. Please help with everyhting, get my life back o track anfd better., Thanks os much!
Alright..first in middle school, you werent Ms. Perfect its just middle school is a lot smaller compared to highschool. And in middle school, people dont really care who you are your just you. But in highschool,there are many different types of people, and you dont fit into the category of all those people. You just have to learn to make friends be a lot of the ones you had in middle school are going to change and wont even act like they know you prolly. But just accept the fact things are different. As for your friends I dont know what to tell you, sorry that your bestfriend moved away. And as for the fighting with your one friend, yall probably arent so different from each other, yall are both really just alike deep down. But hey things will get better, because you will make new friends, so what if your not the popular fancy cheerleader or whoever, just be you and people will see that you are comfortable bein yourself, and people will like that in you.Goodluck!
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i have been broken up with my boyfriend since september and we have both pretty much moved on .. i feel like im not ready to start another serious relationship.. i have always liked this kid matt & he is perfect for me but i dont think he knows how i feel .. but there is this kid dave that has always liked me and he treats me like a goddess but for some reason i cant ever like him enough to go out with him... what should i do? be single and go with the flow.. or try to committ to dave?
Well, the guy who likes you Dave, the chances of him hurting you are real slim because you know he really likes you and has really like you for a while.But chances are you just dont see him that way if you have never liked him enough to go out with him , so just stay friends with him and dont try to make yourself like him. But that Matt guy let him know you like him,see where that goes. Just dont get serious another guy for a long time, that way you wont get hurt.
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Hey, its me again and i read your advice and i listened to it and i understand that you really can't love at our age, but i thought about it and i really do like you, and maybe we can start a relationship since i no who you went out with and i think maybe i could top all of those assholes! But please respond asap!
I dont know what to tell you I dont really want a boyfriend right now, but that dont mean we cant keep talking, and what do you mean you thought about it and you really do like me ??... how do you know? what makes you so sure ?
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Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)
Friends with benefits, is fun sometimes as long as you dont get hurt, but if you really like the person you will prolly just get hurt and you should just stay "friends only"
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kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help
I RATE HIGH!!
I wouldnt tell him that you love him, just because of the way he is handling the whole situation of yall be friends, he would only use that against you. Evidentally his girlfriend knows that he use to like you as more than a friend,and she is scared that he will like you if he hangs out w/you...Just talk to him about it and if the rumors keep goin that he says he hates you more than likely hes just sayin that because he dont want his girlfriend to think hes interested in you. If he cant tell his girlfriend that he wants to be friends with you and her respect that and he wont be friends with you move on to someone else, there are better friends than that.
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(16 female) The problem is I have this boyfriend, whom I care about a lot but I dont really love him like he loves me. He thinks everything in our relationship is perfect but its not. We really have problems. Well, its more of i have problems with our relationship that i really need to work through. Recently, I realized that i don't want be with him any longer, but i don't know how to break up with him. I don't want to hurt him or break his heart but either way i do it i will. I just need someone to tell me a way to break up with him without me breaking his heart too badly and him never speaking to me again. And if there is a way to do this, please give me the courage to go through with it. I am soooo scared it makes no sense. I am terrified of hurting him. Pleeeeseee Heeeeelp
Relax, there are going to be plenty of relationships for both you and him. Theres no easy way to tell a person that really likes you that you dont feel the same. But it has to be done, because you cant just drag him around with you pretended to like him when you really dont. Talk with him in person face to face alone. And tell him that you know he how much he likes you and that you just dont feel the same. Theres no way to sugar coat the fact that you just dont like him that way, its okay dont feel guilty, it happens everyday. People have to learn to accept heartbreak, he might not like you anymore , or want to speak to you afterwards, but one day he will get over it and realize that there was something else waiting for him. Dont be scared sometimes theres no other way to do things without hurting peoples feelings.
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