The name is Kayla.
I'm 17.
I'm in college at Augusta State University.
I love coffee and chocolate.
I drink a glass of orange juice every morning.
I love the outdoors and the arts. Painting is probably my favorite thing to do in my spare time.
I have 6 siblings.
I'm spending the rest of my summer in California.
I travel probably more than the average person my age.
I love giving advice so if you'd love to take some .. just ask. I won't be mean, rude, or obnoxious. =] Pinky promise.
I've been through a lot. So. Try me. More than likely, I can help you. =]
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Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: May 9, 2007
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15 f (might be long jsut please bare with me, i will rate!)
ok so i broke up with my bf because i felt we didnt have communication anymore or trust. we were together for 9 months. i still really love him. i asked him for a break but he didnt want it. so now hes always online adn i have the urge to talk to him always, so i aimed him today and he was alwys liek being eman to me. so i told him why are you awlays mean to me like i did something horrible o you. and he said "omfg, the funny thing is that you ask me that! wtf, you know what you did" so he blocked me right after that. i know what i did and i feel horrible for brakign up with him but he had no trust. i still love him though. and i dont know what to do. i know hell unblock me, what should i do? any advice? comments? about us? anything? thanks (link)
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Take that break you asked for for a couple of days. Let him breath &think about what he's missing out on. Then when he unblocks you just tell him that you still love him and miss him but you can't be in a relationship with someone that doesn't have equal trust in the relationship. Unless you did something wrong, he really shouldn't have a reason not to trust you. Try hanging out with him without dating him and let him know what he's missing out on.
Hope I helped. =]
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theres this boy, and him and i like eachother, but were not going out yet, becuase well he thinks young relationships are dumb, but he wants to do all the things boyfriends and girlfriends do.
should i?
or shouldn`t i, becuase were not dating.
and its basically taking advantage. idk. (link)
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Honestly. I don't think you should because in the end you will be the one who is hurt. If he doesn't want a relationship then he obviously isn't as into you as you are to him. Sorry, but if all he wants are the additions you have in a relationship, then don't allow for it until he agrees on having a relationship. Otherwise, just move on. There's plenty of great guys out there!
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What are some major turn ons for guys? Are there any special things i should do/try while kissing? or aaanthing? I want to blow my boyfriend awayy. (link)
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Run your fingers through his hair. Touch his face. Rub your fingers on my stomach and back and sometimes his leg depending on his position. A lot of guys like that.
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I actually have sat down with him and tried to talk to him but he never talks properly and never looks me in the eye. We end up argeuing a bit after but we would say hi to eachother afterwards. I dont knwo what to do! I hardly see him and when we do talk its like a waste of time. Help please! (link)
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Can you fill me back in on which problem you're having so I can remember. I'm sorry. I've answered a lot, but just write a couple sentences for me so I can find the question you asked and read over it. Thanks so much. I'll answer this question right after, k?
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I went away on a week long school trip. When we were there, i had a fling with a guy even though i have a boyfriend. I had a crush on this guy for a few months, like a year ago. But now i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me, and i love him too, but since i had a fling with this guy on my trip, i can't stop thinking about him. I'm torn between both guys, 'cause i know the fling guy would want a realationship, he's liked me for 2 years. I really have feelings for both of them, i've been thinking about this for the last 3 weeks, and i decided to stay with my boyfriend, but then when i go to school and see the other guy, i get the butterflies in my stomach, and i can't stop thinking about the way his lips felt on mine. i see myself having a future with my current boyfriend, but i can't help but wonder what it would be like with this new guy. I can't have both!!!!!I don't know!!!!!!!!Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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Oh man I kind've know where you're coming from. I felt the same way towards a guy when I was with my boyfriend a while back, but I never hooked up with the other guy. My advice is: Stick with your boyfriend not only because ya'll are in love, but you know that he would never do anything to hurt you and you shouldn't be having to choose between both guys because of the guys is 8 months too late when I'm sure he had other opportunities to let him know. Plus, if you hook up with that other guy again, you will just be stuck in a hole with no way to get out because you'll gain more feelings for him. I don't know. If you are this confused then maybe you shouldn't be with your boyfriend because it shows that he really isn't for you when your attention is also on another guy, but it's up to you to decide your fate and who you should be with.
I hope I've helped!! Good luck!!
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I have been in a relationship with my partner for just about four years. I recently moved to another city to study, while he stays in my old town until the end of the year.
I moved away because I felt that I needed some space and our relationship hasn't been meaning as much to me as it used to for some time now.
Recently I met someone very special who I have pretty much fallen head over heels for. They feel the same way and I'd really like to be with that person - and I really am not the kind of person to be impulsive or fall for people easily. I really mean it when I say there is a special connection between us.
So I need to break up with my boyfriend - I don't want to carry on our relationship, even if things don't go anywhere with the other person, because the fact that I am feeling the way I do means it's not fair on either of us for our relationship to continue. But how do I do it? I am so scared, because I know he still loves me very very much and I don't want to hurt him, I think he's a great guy and he has been my friend since we were kids, but I'm just not in love with him any more. This is a really difficult situation so I'd really appreciate some advice. Thanks :) (link)
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Wow! Ya'll have been together for a long time which leaves me to say that you owe it to him to sit down face to face and let him know how you feel. Ask him if he can meet up with you one day and sit down and talk and everything you said about your feelings being different and it not being fair for the two of you, you need to tell him. You'll know what to say when you see him as I'm sure you know that you can't plan anything ahead because you won't end up saying those exact words and if you do you'll be able to tell that you planned it. But, you need to let him know everything that feel inside of your heart and let him know that you still care for him and will still be there for him, but your feelings have changed and it just isn't fair for either of you to be in a relationship when only one person is still way into the relationship. Who knows. He may feel the same way about you and just doesn't know how to tell you or is too scared of what it will be like without you. Good luck!! I hope I helped!!
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I like my guy best friend. Flatout. He has liked me for 3 years and i kept rejecting him. Now when i like him, hes not responding. Its really confusing, but im not sure whether he likes me or not. About a week ago, he asked me to have sex with him. I obviously said no, and asked him after if he liked anyone. He simply replied no. I was really shocked because i thought just maybe he would see ME! Anyway, hes always looking and me and poking me and talks to me when he has the chance. Which is hardly ever! But really im not sure whether he likes me or not! He has liked me for sooo long and its weird how hes acting towards me. He wouldnt look at me in the eye anymore but i still get a sense that he likes me. How do i know?! (link)
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I just sort've answered a question about this, but um, I'll try to help. My best friend liked me for 3 years also and finally ended up telling me when I was with my boyfriend at the time and when my boyfriend and I broke up I tried things with him, but only for about a week when I realized that I just didn't see him in the same way as he saw me. So, as you say your best friend is acting differently and he's acting the same way my friend did when I kind've rejected him. You just need to sit down and talk to him about it and see what he says. He may just feel like he's been rejected one too many times and that he needs to move on because he feels like you won't ever like him that way. Therefore, you need to talk to him and let him in on how you feel otherwise you may regret it and you will never know how he feels about you now if you don't.
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i loved her, she broke up with her boyfriend. I knew she liked me. I did'nt ask her out or anything, because she would probally have said no. she really liked me too. she even told me she did, she just "didnt act on her thoughts" she didnt know why. now, i missed my oppurtunity and she is startin again with another guy. we both stil ahve feelings for eachother. she is leaving soon too. i already missed my first chance i guess, and now maybe i missed the 2nd too, is it to late?!?! HOW TO I WIN HER BACK, even though she never let me the first time :( (link)
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Oh man. I was in this exact situation, but my best friend was the guy in your position. Um. I dated a guy for seven months. My best friend had liked me for 3 years on and off and about a year and a half in total .. well so he said. Anyways. You def. need to tell her. You know. I didn't even realize he did like me as more than a friend and I always had a thing for him, but in the end it didn't work out for us because I just didn't want to lose him as a best friend. But, you need to tell her. She deserves to know and nothing between you two will change unless you let her know. I mean. My guy didn't tell me for 3 years and that killed him .. you shouldn't have to go through that. Just let her know and see what happens and since you already know she likes you, what can hurt? You'll feel better in the end, I promise.
I hope this helped. =] Good luck.
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okay so theres this guy that i like alot.
&&i want to go out with him so badd !
but besidess that i think i'm in love with him.
how do you know when your in love?
thanks
--Ashley (link)
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Love is when you can't go a day without seeing them. Love is missing them even when they are right next to you, but missing them because you know you'll have to leave him for the night. Love is when you're in your own world with him and nothing else matters. It is purely when he completes you and you learn all the small things about him like when a guy uses ketchup on something strange and you know he likes a lot of it and you can go ahead and order it for him. Things like that are love. It takes time and energy, but it's worth it.
It seems you just really like him, but try hanging out with him, talking to him on the phone, and hinting to him that you like him. If ya'll are meant to be in love, then it will happen, trust me.
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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Heck yes you should!! Listen, obviously she's interested since she gave you her number so if you don't call her at least once then she'll think you blew her off. You should def. give her a call and soon since it's Wednesday and she gave it to you Saturday. She may think you don't want to talk to her .. so def. give it a go.
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my boyfriend wants to have sex.
im cool with it, except for the fact that i have bad tan lines from my bikini.
i LOVE to lay out by the pool and therefore have tan lines. going to a tanning bed is out of the question.
what should i do? im self conscience about my tan lines. (link)
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Honestly, if he wants to have sex with you, he doesn't care about tan lines, he cares about you. Don't let your tan lines get in the way because he sees you a lot and I'm sure he knows you have tan lines and it doesn't bother him. Leave the light off if you are that self-conscience, but honestly, I don't think he'll mind. Good luck girl!
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my friend liked me, so my other freinds helped him ask me out. this is my first real boyfriend. i said yes. he was really, really, really happy. this happened today. i dont want to m/o with him, just like be friends still basically just like idk. he like lovessss me. its fine talking to him online, i feel akward talking to him in person. i dont know what to do. omfg help. (link)
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Hehe, this is cute. Alright, well why did you say yes if you don't really like him that way? He may just be young and just acting like he is completely in love with you, you know? When really he just really likes you. Try not to feel awkward and hang out with him .. after all he is your boyfriend. Give it at least another week. If it is still awkward then break up with him. I hope this helps. Good luck!!
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Okay there's this kid, let's call him Henry.
I can't stop thinking about Henry. But my best friend is like in love with him. He doesn't talk to my best friend and my best friend doesn't talk to him. She just "worships" him from afar but tells everyone that she likes him, when she herself does not talk to him. Me on the other hand I talk to him all the time in school. In lunch I always feel like he stares my way when he walks past the table with his friends. Henry likes this freshman. She is using him as like a safety, avoiding him when he tries to ask her out and falling back on him when she is lonely. What I want to know is why do I think about him when he doesn't even like me? I don't want to like him. I want to like someone whose available and who likes me back. Please help me I don't know what to do and my life sucks as it is. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well, first off who you like is who you like, there is no picking and choosing. It's understandable to like him esp. if he is a friend, but maybe you should try hanging out with him outside of school. Obviously it isn't going to work out with the girl he likes and if you really do like him, try to sneak yourself into his life even more than you already are. Hang out with him, talk to him on the phone, find some way to keep that other girl off his mind and put yourself in that place instead. Also, give yourself some time. You're still young and you have a lot of life to live, just don't freak and eventually guys will come. More than likely a guy likes you that just hasn't told you yet. =]
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Ok, so I am 15, nearly 16. So this week I am going to my (boy)friends house for the first time ever. We arent technically going out, but we are basically boyfriend and girlfriend. I am really nervous about meeting his parents, I dont want them to think I am weird, or a slut, or anything. We wont be spending any time with his parents, but I am still scared. Should I talk to them when I see them, or just like, say hello and run off. Also, I am a little nervous about what we can do at his house. I dont want there to be any awkward moments, cause I wont know what to do. Any suggestions? Please help with this, I am really scared of making a bad impression.
Thanks guys.
x
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Honestly. Be yourself. When you arrive there, introduce yourself to his parents and say hey and ask how they are doing. When you're there, that's his job to figure out something to do unless ya'll want to go somewhere or something, but just go with the flow, everything will turn out right. &make sure you don't wear a really low-cut shirt or his parents may not get as great of a first impression as they should. =] Have fun!! Good luck!!
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