hey .. well i really like to give advice to people and evidentally i'm really good at it. all of my friends always come to me for advice about ANYTHING - boys, sports, family, friends, etc. i really hope that if you have any questions for me that i help you out with your life because i've been through a lot .. the good times & the bad times. right now life is pretty well for me because i have a really good supportive boyfriend and friends, family is not really there for me but i can still deal with everything life is handing me right now. well hope you feel comfortable asking me any questions and i will answer as honestly and try to be as helpful as possible! Love Ya
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I'm going to sleepaway camp in about a week and I really want to maybe get a boyfriend there because when you go to camp you practically start over and can be whoever you want to be without the pressures of school. I've never had a boyfriend and I was wondering how I should flirt at the socials/dances. Also, how do you let boys know you exist and you WANT a relationship? Some just want to be friends.
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omg .. hun i LOVE to flirt!! it's like something i do everyday but i don't even try to - it comes naturally. anyways, what you could do is just start talking to some of the hotter guys at the camp or you could just find a guy that looks like he's the type you would like , than just try get a little closer and show him that you are interested in him and want to get to "know" him better ;). be outgoing and kinda loud because i am and it gets peoples attention showing them you want to be seen. dress to impress! good luck and i hope i helped you out.
hugsz nd kissesz _ xo0x
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Ok, so I really like this guy and he said he liked me, but he barely talks to me, wich his friend says is just because he's shy, but still annoys me and makes me think it might be a scam (it's happened to me before). But there's this other guy who I used to like who also said he liked me too, and he asked me out but cancelled to go out with someone else that night, wich really hurt. And he said he really liked me, but cancelled due to insecurity and thinking I'm too cool for him (wich is absolutely ridiculous) and now I don't know what to do... try ro make it work with the 1st guy, try to make it work with the second gut, or give up completely? (link)
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omgosh .. that is confusing but i say you try to work it out with the first guy and get him to open up just a little bit. if the other guy blew you off for another girl he must not like you too much. but if the first guy keeps ignoring you after you try to make it work i kinda just say give it up .. guys are really stupid at times and think girls are just fun to mess around with. so if that happens just try to find another guy that you really like and flirt with him a lot! flirting always helps =) i hope i helped you out a little and good luck with your guys.
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Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do? (link)
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hun .. if that rumor is true DUMP HIM! i mean, i understand that if you REALLY like him you wouldn't want to do that but your virginity and reputation is way more important than a guy. i'm not really gonna say you're "too young" to do that because i know people who have had sex younger than you. but it's all your choice if it comes down to you and him in a room alone and he starts to make a move. if that does happen just try to change the subject or tell him straight out that you don't want to. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and good luck!
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My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
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hun .. i went through the exact same thing with my ex boyfriend. he got sooo jealous when i'd just talk to another guy and flip out. once he even threatend to kill a guy and he broke his jaw. this situation could get that serious between you and your boyfriend and if it does i say just dump him then because you never know what could happen. but if you truly love him just talk to him about it and see what his side of the story is. you never know, you could be flirting and not even know it. then your boyfriend has every reason to get mad. good luck
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How can someone say they love you they are sorry for hurting you and yet tell you they are leaveing you all in the same sentence. I am 42 years old female. Some friends of ours at the time told me he was sleeping with our friends wife. he denies everything and says they are liying.. but he continues to work for them everyday.. he has gotten where he acts as if he don't care about anything anymore.. (link)
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maybe he's just very insecure about himself .. i don't know if i'm gonna be able to help you because i'm only 13 but if i could i would really try hun .. good luck finding some answers
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well this kinda of goes along with the first question i asked..anyways im really super shy and my bf is like nothing close to it and he like always wants me to be doing stuff with him especially kissing but like i think thats most of my problem im so shy and im like afraid of being a bad kisser ..how can i be more out there and just go for it..HELP me please..any advice will give ideas anyways
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i went through the EXACT same thing you are going through right now with my boyfriend. but i finally just sat down and talked with him about me being insecure about kissing him or anything else. luckily my boyfriend understood what i was saying and said he'd take it a step at a time .. first just little kisses here and there like on the cheek. then finally moved to just kissing on the lips ; making out; etc. he helped me really get through the shy stage i was going through and now me and him are INSEPERABLE! sit down with your boyfriend and talk with him like i did with mine .. if he's a really good boyfriend i'm pretty sure he'd understand what you are going through and don't worry about being a bad kisser .. kiss him and then later ask what he thought of it or if he had fun or whatever comes to your head to make it seem like you're not wondering if you are or not but really trying to find the answer. Good Luck ((i hope i helped you))
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i know this is really dumb, but i REALLY need advice. okay well recently on myspace i got a message from this guy who was really hot and he thought i was hot, so we exchanged AIM screen names and were talking like all the time. then eventually we started calling each other and now i talk to him online & on the phone every single day. i'm starting to develop feelings for him and i don't want to. there is no chance or future for us, he lives across the country from me! i don't want to stop talking to him though because he is really sweet and funny. is there something wrong with me for liking him? is there any way i can continue talking to him without liking him like THAT ?? please help im going crazy (link)
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i don't think there is anything wrong with you liking a guy you met on the internet. but if you really want to stop liking him in a sexual // relationship way you probly need to stop talking to him .. it would be the only way until you find another guy. i've gone through the same thing but the guy i had feelings for lived only a state away. we still had no chance in hell that we would ever get to see each other or date in any way but i stopped talking to him for a little bit and finally got over him in that way. i found another guy that i am dating right now and i'm soo happy that i'm over the one over the internet because if i wasn't i'd probly be having second thoughts about my boyfriend right now and it wouldn't be good. the guy you talk to might ruin your love life if you keep it up.
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