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my problem is that i havent had too many steady boyfriends, but i don't really consider the guys at my school datable because it's a rather small school. i would like to have a boyfriend, but i think i have high standards to be met. i can't drive on my own yet either, which makes it even more difficult. how do i go about meeting a new guy, maybe even one from another schooll. thanx!
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Get your girls together, dress up, and go to the mall.. Go to the beach for a weekend or something, go to a bookstore, something.. Talk to your friends and see if they have any guy friends from different schools. Go to teen clubs and get guys' numbers.. Because once you get one, he has friends, who have friends, etc. You get it.
♥ Taylor
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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It depends on how he was making fun of you, was it like playing around or really mean? If it was playing around, do it right back! If it was mean, just move on because that's not right and you deserve better.
♥ Taylor
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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
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If he's telling you he likes your friend, ask your friend if she has feelings for him. If she does, stay away. But if she doesn't, I would tell him how you feel. He could just be saying that to test your reactions, you never know.
♥ Taylor
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im going to dump this guy today. i cant get him on the phone tho. he isnt online, so i dont know what to do. tonight i have a date with another guy but i dont like cheating so i wanted to dump the other guy first. please help! (link)
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Is there any way you can see him in person? Try to walk or drive to his house if it is close enough and tell him that way. Keep calling, and if he still doesnt answer, send him a text message telling him that you want to break up. Stay online, and put up an away message telling him to call you if he sees it. If all else fails, tell the person you are on a date with the situation, he will understand and maybe even help you out.
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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!! (link)
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There`s nothing wrong with you.. It`s totally normal to not have a boyfriend at ANY age. When you`re around guys, just be yourself and flirt with them a lot, and you never know, you could find someone who`s perfect.
♥ Taylor
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ok, well, i have a boyfiend. im gonna dump him next time i get to talk to him. i just dont like him anymore. now that im gonna be single, theres two different guys who like me and i could go with either. i dont know what to do! i like them both! anyone have tips on how to decide? (link)
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Spend some time with each of the guys, get to know them, and see which one you like to be around better. You can make a pro/con chart about each guy, lol, it always helps for me. In the end, just choose the guy who you feel more comfortable around and who you can be yourself around.
♥ Taylor
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im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?
THANX
-twiSted (link)
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Think about it.. Would you rather have a temporary relationship or a long term education ? This year is really important college-wise, and you need to stay on track and keep up with your school work, and that should be the first priority. But if you can handle both, go for it! ;)
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i'm 13.. and i'm a girl. this sounds really dumb but how do you make out? :( (link)
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Go to sex-project.com
It describes it all in detail. But don`t worry, it comes naturally. And no question is a dumb question. good luck
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So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.
I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.
I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?
Thanks so much. (link)
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Oh wow, I know how you feel.
Instead of thinking about him constantly, try noticing the other guys. There are guys that actually deserve your attention, guys that WiLL like you. Try going out to the mall or the beach with your friends, and talk to some guys. Flirt like mad, and you`ll get over this guy.
And since none of your friends know, try talking to them about it. They ARE your friends, and they are there for you when you need help and advice... Go to them. =)
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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger? (link)
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No, I don`t think it`s a very big deal. Nobody has said anything yet, so it`s not a problem at the moment.. But if they do, don`t pay any attention. If you really like this boy, it shouldn`t matter what age he is, or what anyone else says to you. good luck =)
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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You can write him sweet letters, instead of just talking on the phone.
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I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX
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No foods or anything will change this. But you could wear a padded bra/bathing suit to make you look bigger. These always help and will create the illusion that you're bigger.
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My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary next month. Any ideas on what to get for him? I want to get him something nice and special, but he doesn't wear jewelry and he already has a really nice watch. What should I do? (link)
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You could get him a CD, movie, shirt, gift card, or write a poem or song.
-Taylor
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Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it! (link)
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You could say what you just said - "I'm not sure what to write, but I just want to say I love you and I hope you have a safe trip," etc.
-Taylor
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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?
And what should be a good age difference? (link)
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There is no "best age." Everyone is ready at their own time, but usually around 20-30 I think?
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hi/ i am 16 years old girl and never had a bofriend, is that a bad thing, first there was a boy and he said that he like me, but the very week we met he move out of my school, so we became talking on the phone, and he said that i was his girlfriend, but we never wet on a date or kiss, that very week he ask me out to watch movie, but my dad didnt allowed me to go, i lied to him that i have to babysit my brother, he said ok another time we could go, but he never ask me out again and we were talking, but we never saw eachother. one night he told me that we should be friends that his ex want him back, from then he never called me, he just disappear, since then no boy has ask me out or something like that, i have never been kiss or do anything sexuall in my life, am just asking is that normal or am i gay or maybe i havnt find the right person. Please i need ur help
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This is totally normal.. Beleive it or not, tons of people your age have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend or anything. This doesn't mean that you are gay, just that you're waiting for the right person, and that's very admirable of you. You will find the right person in time.
-Taylor
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ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ? (link)
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Yeah, love is a very scary thing. It can be overwhelming at times, and my advice is to just slow down.. You have your entire life to fall in love, and you'll find someone that won't break your heart, and they will always be worth waiting for.
-Taylor
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