Ok well My name is Kristen and i play softball. I love bands like Greenday, the used, oasis,
blink-182, Simple plan, Brand new, papa roach, the Killers........Etc..
I play ShortStop, 3rd base, pitcher,and outfield.
My reason i signed up for advicenators is because i want to help people and try to help save peoples life s and make them feel bettter. ask me anything and i will answer it (if its somthing like a joke then umm no i wont)
I hope i help make a diffrents in some ones life.
*KRIS*
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E-mail: ambrizkristen@yahoo.com
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Location: Texas
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Age: 13
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How do you start a conversation with a boy? Say if you were at a Arby's and it was just you and this boy you liked, how would you start a good conversation with him. Now keep in mind, he doesn't know I like him. That would be some other nice advice, how to tell him that I do like him!!! Thank You Very Much! (link)
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what ever you do dont talk about the weather!! ok!! And if you no some of his intrests ask about that idf he plays sports ask about that!! GET TO NO THE GUY!!
kRIS
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im 13 female,
i found out one of my friends REALLY likes me but i always have thought of us just as GREAT friends not really bf and gf but now im starting to JUST a little like him back but i kinda like this other guy and im getting REALLY confused wat do i do i mean i no if we go out and break up we most likely won't be as good of friends if friends but if i say no he will be really embarrassed to talk to me
im confused and don't no wat to do i REALLY need LOTS of help im not the best when it comes to this stuff pleaz help (link)
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Well, Make it straight with your friend that you want to be ask good as friends as yall were before yall went out when or if yalls relationship as gfand bf is over!! and if he cant say that then say well then i dont want to risk it!! if ya wanna risk it then go ahead!! and i no one thing if ya dont then stick to the other guy!! really this kind of advice is all i can give you !! i mean i cant really tell you what to do because i dont no these people and i dont no you !! but all i can say is try what i said and GOOD LUCK
Kris
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hey kris this is taylor i dont no how 2 choose b tween 2 guys i likme and i dont no how 2 ask 1 out considering i asked the other out but hasnt checked his mail yet 2 no that i did and so i dont no if i should keep him from reading it or telling him b cause of the other guy the other guy doesnt no i like him and havent done anything about trying to get him 2 like me and i guess i was just wandering how i choose and if he doesnt have like im how m i supposed 2 ask him out cause im shy and im is how i handle alot of things with my friends cause i no that once u send it u cant take it back !!!!plz help
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Ok Taylor i told you this before but just act your self!! Dont have other ppl ask b/c you never no that he wants to see if you can do stuff by yourself!! And what ever guy you like the most go for it!! well for the guy that you sent mail to i am sorry but you cant take that back!! and it think you should just try and stick to one boy!! and Taylor your 12 or 11 and i think that you should just have fun with out having to deal with these problems as long as you can because once these things actually start to count thats when you wish you didnt have to deal with these problems!! Believe me i would no!!
So good Luck and See yeah later!!
Kris
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im 13 female,
i found out one of my friends REALLY likes me but i always have thought of us just as GREAT friends not really bf and gf but now im starting to JUST a little like him back but i kinda like this other guy and im getting REALLY confused wat do i do i mean i no if we go out and break up we most likely won't be as good of friends if friends but if i say no he will be really embarrassed to talk to me
im confused and don't no wat to do i REALLY need LOTS of help im not the best when it comes to this stuff pleaz help (link)
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Ok well If you want to go out with your friend then do it!! but make it clear to him that if you say yes whatever happens you still want to be as good as friends as yall are now!! and if he says that he cant promisse you that then say you cant promiss him your heart.
Kris
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i really REALLY like this guy patrick in my 6th period that everyone says is kinda a nerd but i think he is really cute! i dont know why because i dont really know him but he found out a while ago and now its been really akward when im around him. i know he likes this other girl courtney but i really want him to just get to know me without seeming to weird. i think if he knew me better he would maybe start liking me (the girl he likes now is kinda flaky if you know what i mean, and im not trying to put her down or anything but she kinda is!) haha! but how can he get to know me better without me having to seem despret or weird?
p.s. (13/ female) (link)
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I think that you should just be his friend at the moment. then start to get some details and give some details. then you dont no he just might fall for you.
kris
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i was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend being mean to me all the time when a certain guy came to school, well he was so nice to me today and the day before ever since i talked to him he has been nice to me and actually tells me he loves me and holds my hand and kisses me in public.. he told my friend he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me.. does this mean he is chaging his ways (link)
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I think that yalls talk helped him realize what a jerk he was being !! so yes i think he is changing his ways
KRIS
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13-female
there is this guy who is REALLY popular that i like (im not very popular), but i NOOOOO i have no chance with him but i can't convience myself i don't like him cuz i do but y waist my time liking him when i have no chance but how do i STOP liking him
i am SO confused i need alot of help i ain't good with guys
CAN U HELP ME?????????
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Ok well never say you dont have a chance !! becasue you dont no that!! ok i think you need to get to no this guy
who care that he is popular then you can do whatever you want from there!!
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I need help. The other day i met my friend and her boyfreind. And her boyfriend has been trying to get me hooked up with his friend lets call him 'bob' for a while now well a week or so. Me n Bob went out last yr but i dunno it just didnt work out. Now i might be starting to have feelings for him again. N anyways when i met them the other day we went over there house. N my friends bf suggested we go upstairs (me and bob AND him and my friend, in different rooms of corse), so we did. Me and Bob made out, and some other stuff, not that far though, i wouldnt do that, especially cause we're not going out. I think Bob kinda likes me but hes a little hard to talk 2. He asked me to be friends with benefits (fwb) with him but i said i dunno n we just left it at that. I had fwb's before and their ok but right now id rather have a relationship but bob had long relationships before but i guess maybe doesnt want one right now. N i remember saying to him that night "Bob whats gunna happen is this like gunna be it or what" n he said that we cud be friends with benefits n i said theres no point cuz were not gunna go out n he said how do you know. So i think im gunna see him tomorrow and deffinatly over the weekend a few times. What should i do?
14/f `xo ms.confused (link)
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I think that you should try the fwbs and see what that leaves yall. and to see if you really like this guy and if you do then do what everyone says not to do ask him out or say u want to be more then fwb!!
Kris
(mis texas girl)
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13/f
there is this guy he is popular but im not and i really like him i don't want him knowing cuz his gf broke up with him which means he might still like her
i don't no what to do i like this guy but i think he still likes his x gf (link)
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well does he no you?? if he doesnt then get to no him or get him to no you or w/e and then tell him!! or if he nos you Flirt and give it all u got bu allow time to go by becuz u got to remeber that he got dumped!!
Kri
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this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
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well maybe instead of dumping them tell them that you need space and you time with out them every now and then!!
kris
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ok i have this boyfriend and his soo awesome! we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night! i've been "talking" with him since feb. but sometimes i feel like he doesn't care about me that much! and his always kind of mad at me..but i know his not cuz he got kicked outta his house 2weeks ago and he has to find a place to stay like everynight so it's not like i can talk to him...but he is pretty good about calling me and letten me know where he is staying at...that is if theres a phone around! but for some reason i'm so worried about him..i'm always woundering where is at and what his doing and who his with...he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th...so when i'm at school that is when i worry...he has the friend that i don't like to much but yet his cool i don't like my boyfriend hanging out with him because i don't trust my boyfriend with him my boyfriend knows that i don't i like him with him...because i feel like his going to cheat on me when he is with his friend! i just don't know what to do about out relationship...cuz i do like him alot ((like not love)) and he gave me a promise braclett promiseing that he would never hurt me!!
i'll rate! (link)
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well that promise braclet had to mean somthing if he went out of his way and bought it for you so all i can say is that everytime u think hes cheating on you look at that bracelet and that should make you fell better!!
kris
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what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship?? (link)
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ok well make it positive that yalls friend ship may be ruined and make him/her promisse it wont change when or if yall break up!!
kris
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ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do? (link)
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well sit down with him and have a talk on how you feel besides if he didnt like you he would have already dumped you for her!!
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ok i need help me n' my x broke up brutal and he likes my best friend but my best friend doesnt like him at all but the problem is i still like him the way we met is he liked another one of my best friend bout 2 months ago and my best friend didnt like him so me and him became alott closer and we went to go see white noise as instinct i grabbed his hand and things went from there...we liked eachother alot but things got rocky with my friends and his friends and he broke up with me once then we got back together and he broke up with me again everything i hear or see reminds me of him some of my friends say its my first love but i dont know i had to tell him i didnt like him anymore cuz i didnt want it to be akward between us he said he wasnt gonna give up on my best friend what should i do
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well tne i think you should forget him you dont need him!!! and plus he will have to give up some how!!
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My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how? (link)
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sit down with him and have a long talk!! tell him that you think that yall realationship is mising the love it use to have and tell him what you feel! maybe will start to like you or he will dump you and you gett another boyfriend that will treat you better.
Kris
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I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I really need the help with a few questions.
- I want to break up with my boyfriend. I was kinda desperate when I said I would go out with him. Tuesday will be a month and a week we've been together. And I know he really loves me. He's even snuck out of his house to be with me. I still wanna be his friend. But I'm afraid that if I dump him he won't wanna be my friend. And there are a few reasons that I want to dump him. Any ideas here?
- The guy that I like, really really likes me. He asked me out a while ago and I didn't like him then so I just said I dunno, and then I got a boyfriend. But now I really like him and my one friend was talking to him and they started talking about me. She asked him if he would ask me out if me and my current boyfriend broke up and he said he would. Then he said that I would never say yes, so he probably wouldn't. And I really wanna go out with him. And I'm dumping my boyfriend (hense the question up there ^) lol. What should I do???
- Please help me!!!! (link)
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ok well it looks like you got it under control !!! you dump that guy and go out with the other one thats good !! and tell that other guy how YOu feel!!
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I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone? (link)
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TELL HIM !!!!! It helps i was in that same place a while back and i tole him how i felt and he asked me out 2 days later!!
Kris
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Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP! (link)
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Maybe he likes you . Do you like him?? if you do go ahead and go for it!!!
Kris
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this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K) (link)
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What ever you are thats what you should tell him!! most guys like an honest girl!! and you should be honest with them becuz some guys just ask that to see if u r honest.
Kris
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hey so im going out with a really hot guy who is really nice and loves me a lot. he calls me like 50 timeseveryday, and i can trust him with anything. one problem... hes not the guy i truely like. usually, i would break up with him in hopes of going out with the other guy, but this time is different. you see, the guy i really truely like isnt that cute and hes never had a girlfriend before. me and him are really good friends, have most of our classes together, and play soccer at the same club. i know he probably wouldnt go out with me until highschool (im in 7th grade) but i feel guilty going out withy a guy i dont really like. what should i do? (link)
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well now you have to make the chocie but i think you should go for the one you like the most who cares that hes hot!! i liked a guy who wasnt hot !! its like ur using him becuz of what he looks like !! go for the one that u like the most!!
Kris
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