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I'm happy to help. I really want to be a type of Therapist or someone who helps others when I'm older so this column thing really helps. I'm good with the drama and love/life of everyday things. I also love my life especially my Friends and Family. Ok some think i'm a bitch if you can't get over it well screw you. I absolutely hate people who can't spell correctly seriously if you can't spell normally just don't bother me. I think its stupid when people ask if they can get pregnant from holding hands i mean seriously get over yourself and learn something. I love to type alot and if you don't want to read it well you can just go away because it may waste your time. You might not like what i say but unlike my friends they like to see the the friendlier sides of people i like to see the truth and nothing but it. I reply with honesty and i do everything by which i think is right. Think I'm a brat I really don't care. I couldn't live without my besties I wouldn't be where I am without them. Photography is my favorite. Yes thats me in the picture. I hate drama but i'm great about giving advice about it. I have and will always live my life to the fullest. I am who I am and your opinion isen't needed. I don't like school that much or my town but couldn't last a day without the people here. Stealing my ideas is stupid because it shows you can't come up with anything. I hate people who bring others down only to lift themselves because it shows your self esteem is really low. I also hate two faced bitches i mean seriously if your two faced at least have one of them be pretty.
I love to help so ask away.
Loves: Photography, hotties, shoppping, txting, makeup, vintage, AIM, talking, skinny jeans, smiles, kindness, fashion, love, reading, eye shadow, guitar hero, sleeping, watching TV, music(my Ipod is my life), my cell phone and everything in between.
Hates: stupid people, whores, broken things, paris hilton, brittney spears, two faced, back stabbers, people who spend all their time watching TV, lazy people, people who show PDA just to show off, jerks, sluts, people who type sorta like this: WaTs uP hOmMiE, showoffs who can't do anything, overly tanned people, emos, and mostly 7up Soda.
Need Advice I'll Tell You the truth and nothing but it.
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okay, i asked a question about gifted and talented yesturday and said how adam kinda stood up for me. well like i donno what happened.
i asked him about G&A because like i said he\'s in it too, and he explained everything out to me. so i told him i was thinking about leaving the class because i didn\'t know anyone in it and he\'s like well you know me doesn\'t that count for something?? like all cute because he is=] and i was like well yeahh but and i explained everything i was thinking that i explained in my other question about him being made fun of for talking to me because my name isn\'t highly respected. and he kinda laughed and was like-- what do you think were doing right now? and i didn\'t know what to say i fealt kinda stupid.. and for reassurance he was like katie, i don\'t care what my \'popular friends' think I barely talk to them anyway. i was like awwww haha noo but so wanted to hug him. and like now everyones like ooo you guys are like best friends. but i donno.. none of this happened until that whole g&a class. wait noo.. before but not as hardcore. and i dont believe in labels but i explained this to my cousin over aim and she\'s like aww it sounds like adam likes you. but it\'s me so its like well he could be feeling sorry for me. and then in tech ed this kid mike was yelling at me because the table was packed just like every other one, and i was like wow mike calm down budd jeezz. and he like rawred and i was standing next to adam and we missed yesturdays class because of g&a and we were both lost in the project everyone started so we ended up teaming up just like copying people =]] and it was soo much funny i swear and i loved it. i love hanging out with him it\'s just the looks adam and i get.. but it doesnt faze adam im like ughhh. i know- i know self esteam but so hard to build.
and on the way home, i sat next to him. and randomly out\'ve no where he was like \"are you really going to kick g&a??\" so i was like \"maybe.. i\'ll probably think about it over the weekend and what not.\" well adam didn\'t take that answer...
he was like \"no. katie.. you\'ll do awesome in tha class why don\'t you continue it..\" i was like because no one wants me there. so he brought the whole mee thing upp =] and then was like \"promiss me you wont drop out.. i really want you there and think you can do it.\" i swear my face is beat red and im like I donno know.. im not sure but thankss and he\'s like first stop and he refused to get up. he didnt get up when the bus stopped and my bus driver was like adam??? but he kept looking at me in his cute little puppy eyes and was like please??? so what could i say? so i was like fine.. and his face lite up i was like awwww and like wanted to cry.
well i think im starting to like him. but i can\'t. okay how 1st grade does that sound.. but no i mean he\'s a genusus.. straight up smarty pantss! im smart but not hardcore future rocketsciencetest.
does it look like he likes me by how he acts around me?? and im not pretty and i know what you\'ll say you probably are.. blahh blahh. im not. im 14. 200 pounds so ima fatty and because im fat i have acanthosis negricans which is discoloration around the neck, armpits and knuckles. people are being all aww but its like look at me! i know i need to build self eestem but its so hard with like fungii growing out\'ve my neck.
btw i dont feel right swearing infront of adam because he doesnt grow up in that kinda household so how do i stop? it\'ll slip through and im like =0 sorry adam. and i know he doesnt care he\'s told me but it doesnt feel right and i wanna brake that habbit anyway. so any good things about that would be greatly appreciated.
thanks--sorrys its soo long!
i think you should if you like him that much everytime you want to swear replace it with the word fudge or everytime you want to swear think of adam. or you could replace the cusswords with some other words well thats what i would do.
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo
OK, my love life is far too complicated to handle. I seem to have had bad luck over and over again when it comes to men (I'm 18/f by the way).
So my first boyfriend (A) I got with about 2 and a half years ago, but we broke up 6 months ago. It was totally the right thing to do - things really weren't working out (i.e he definately wasn't the guy I thought he was). Anyway, I met a new guy (B), who I dated for a bit, but then suddenly he stopped things without any real reason.
Now I'm single, and I've found that my confidence in flirting and that is completely dashed. Like I'll make out with guys when drunk (don't judge me, I'm very confused!!) but I can never establish more with them than a few text messages. And the guys that HAVE wanted to get to know me better I've lost interest in as soon as I realised. Weird, huh?
Basically, I'm not over the guy I dated after my boyfriend. And what with A getting a new girlfriend, and me not so happy this new year, I figure a bit of advice may help :)
Thanks in advance!
I'll answer as easy as I can. I think your makinmg out with those guys because you feel that after you broke upi with him that you have to go around with other guys to make yourself feel better. It will get so much better this year just don't make yourself so available and try to not get drunk when meeting guys, try to meet guys that have values because if you first make out with them it just won't work out.
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo
Hey!
Ok, so i like this guy named dylan. Long story short, my friend kelly told him that i like him. I liked dylan 2 months ago,(then i stopped but now i like him again) and someone told him that i liked him then, and he didnt talk with me for a week.
We were just becoming really good friends and he was showing tons of signs that he likes me.
Now i dont know what to do.. Do i just ignore the fact that he knows i like him or..??
When kelly told him she said the reason i didnt want him to know was because i didnt want things to be different between us, and he said dont worry they wont.. What the heck did he mean by that?
And last question.. So he just got the iphone, and i knew he didnt have my nember, so when he came over to me and my friend christina in the hallway i asked if he had my number. He said no. I asked if he wanted it, he was like Uh... um.. sure?! But he walked away a couple seconds later.. i never gave it too him.. Does this mean he doesnt like me?? or.. did he just forget? After i said i would give it to him, christina said something funny, he laughed then walked away if that helps any.
Thanks soo much!
I would say he sounds like a normal middle schol boy who really doesn't know what he wants. And those things sound like he does like you and you should decide if you want to give him a chance because it looks like he likes you, and when he said don't worry they wont he means it won't change things between you that it will be ok but i should warn you if you go out and decide to break up things WON'T be the same.