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okay so im 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been dating for a month and i dont know what to get him for Christmas and how to give it to him to please help!
Find out what your boyfriend likes most! :) If its video games, find out the one game he really wants, or whatever else he has huge interests in. If you would like, meet up with him at the mall, or at second cup ( anywhere as long as it's a date ), then give it to him, and kiss him. :) If he doesn't seem to like it much, exchange it for something else.
P.S. Wishing you best of luck, Merry X-Mas :)
~gamergirlxoxo
I really so freakin in love with him I just needa' put a kiss on him!!!! :｜
ahaha i have been through the exact same thing
1) if he is your boyfriend, start off with a peck of the cheek or look deeply into his eyes and lean in until he gets the point and kisses you
2) first make sure he is okay with the process of you both kissing yet
3) if not, give him some time, and tempt him a little, if yes, then lean in and just kiss him, he will kiss back i guarantee
4) if he is just a crush and not your boyfriend, then first find out if he likes you
5) try to get him to like you and tempt him if he doesnt like you back, if he does, try to be a little closer with him and remember, be sweet
6) if you think its time, slowly lean in and peck him on the lips, he will get the clue and will kiss you back
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S Wishing you the best of Luck!
IM 17, male, a senior in HS
my girlfriend who is younger just broke it off with me, since she said she was losing feelings for me. but i realy know that she is just scared, like really scared, and she is getting pressure from me and from her mom. Her mom doesnt want her to date. I dont know what to do and now i am literally heartbroken...... I dont want to get over her. I just want her back.
How do i Win her back?
1) talk to her and tell her what you think she is feeling and about the pressure she is under
2) tell her how much you love her and compliment her
3) say how much you want her to be with you
4) give her some time to think
5) patch it all back up together when she is ready
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S wishing you the best of luck
this guy and i have broken up and gotten back together so many times i lost count but im the one who keeps breaking up with him. . . he loves me and i thought i loved him but i like him more when we aren't going out and then when we get back together little by little i stop liking him we cant even last a week do u think i should break up with him for good or just wait a while longer to c if i change my mind
1) wait a couple days and then see if u have feelings for him and only think of the positive happy things of your relationship with him
2) later on, if you are unsure, talk to him and tell him how you like him more when you guys are friends
3) talk to him about how you're falling out of love and only into a friend stage, then tell him if you want, that maybe you might change your mind, but you need some time to think
4) I hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Good Luck!
P.S If it doesnt all work out the way you expected, remember this, there are many guys out there and just maybe, you will find your perfect match :)
This ALWAYS happens to me. I get so into someone that they are all i can think about. This one guy i recently hooked up with, hasn't been answering my calls or texts so i put him off the burner for a while waiting for him to come to me, but it hasn't happened. I can't stop thinking about him, but i'm starting to think it was just a one time thing for him and he's not into it for the long run. So what should i do? Please help
1) awee! well what you could do is talk to him sometimes in reality, so that way he will reply
2) if he doesnt want to get hooked up again then slightly let him go, and soon you will be over him
3) everytime you start thinking about him, quickly change your mind onto something else, like tv channels, they dont all show the same show at the same time, right?
4) act natural or cool around him and act like it never happened, and if he talks to you, talk to him like nothing had happened, it will make him suspicious
5) if he is not coming to get you, you could let him go once and for all, or confront him and ask him why he is avoiding you
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
wishing you the best of luck
Hi! You answered my question earlier and it really helped! I just wanted to add a couple of things.. The girl I was talking about had a relationship first semester with a guy, but he "hit it and quit it" and she was super depressed.. and I was the next serious guy in her life. So I feel that she also might be upset about this. When she broke it off with me she kept giving me reasons that seemed fake and kept saying that her feelings changed.. but I think she is still upset about this, and I want to prove to her that I'm not a douche like every other guy. I want her to see that I'm different and hooking up with a bunch of people (which is what she is doing now) won't help her. I actually care about her. And I think her being mean to me was a way of hiding her feelings for me. Like she wanted to make me angry with her so I would forget about her.. but I think she likes me. The things I said to her were really mean and immature but I apologized.. so I don't know if she still thinks badly of me because of it. Thanks so much for your help!
1) hmm lets see, you should confront her and tell her how amazing you think she is, but if you are the shy type, try to send her a note, or act like it
2) ask her if shes okay about the 'things' she has been through that broke her heart, because right now, she might reallly need someone's shoulder to cry on
3) comfort her and tell her shes way to good for him and brighten her up and make her laugh more often, girls like guys who do that
4) tell her you never meant those words that you said to her, and they were just a reaction to whatever was happening that made you say it
5) tell her she looks nice or you like what shes wearing
6) talk to her and bring up the subject of you having a girlfriend, especially one that even thanked you for not just dumping them or a friend for not just ditching them after all they have been through, she may lighten up to you
7) if you think she likes you, then give her nice and dont pull back instead of all the anger she wants you to react within, or just play along and be cool, it may drive her insane, but possibly, she iwll come running to you
8) lastly, ask her if she is feeling bad about anything, and use this line or something like this: well if you need anyone to talk to, i got your back
or something like that, just to help her get through he problems, and be a sweet friend first, dont just jump into her love life yet, let her get her problems straight then ease your way in
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
I wish you best of luck!
I am a freshman in college and there's this amazing girl that lives down the hall. She is gorgeous and funny and so many guys text her and want her. At the beginning of the semester, we started becoming friends and we liked each other and hooked up at a party (drunkenly). We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and from there, we started hooking up and it turned into something special. we slept in the same bed for weeks (but did not have sex). I really liked her and asked her out. She said no, but didn't really give a reason. A few weeks later she ended up telling me that she lost interest in me and didn't like me anymore. I was super depressed for a few days and she ended up talking to me about it. She said that she doesn't want a boyfriend and her feelings changed. After that, she was really mean and cold to me and embarrassed me in front of all our friends and there was a lot of tension. We started arguing a lot and it was almost like she didn't even want to be my friend. She would roll her eyes every time I entered the room, etc. I got really mad at her and bitched her out calling her mean names (drunkenly). There was a lot of tension, but then we made up. She all of the sudden started being nice again and it was just like it used to be. Now we have become friends again and I feel the same dynamic from when we were "together". I really want to date her, but I don't know if she likes me again. I think she still thinks I think she is a bitch and that I lost interest, but I really think she's the sweetest girl I know and I want to date her. I am not some sort of pig. I have never had sex, and I only hook up with girls that I like a lot. I want to know what I should do. (Tell her how I feel, or let her come to me). Everyday when I get a text message, I hope it's her asking me to hang out and watch TV like we used to.
1) awwee!!! that is so adorable, but 1, try to invite her to go to places but start off with a group of friends first and play by her hobbies
2) be natural and cool, dont give her too much credit or she will start thinking that she is to good for you :P
3) act like just a friend and start to sweeten up sometimes
4) if you feel like shes starting to crave for you, dont give in, let her, it usually drives girls insane when then like a guy and he is too good for them
5) she might try to make you jealous but dont fall for it, be happy for her, and let her beg for you
6) once you guys get really close, make the first move (up to you) and whatever else happens from then on
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Heres my problem, I'm just a guy, who is really social and can talk to chicks without a problem. The thing every girl I like seems to be getting hooked up. I don't to be only known as the funny guy. How do I get a girl to know I like her without being desperate and obvious?
1) lmfao im a girl and lets just say i knew a guy like that who liked me, and things went well
anyways, what you could do is, try to get to know the girl you like better and make her feel good about herself
2) if she gets hooked up, stick around, chances are, she will slowly get closer to you and grow a crush on you
3)girls like it when guys seem to talk to them well without going all insane-flirt type, (well every girl is different) but try to send her some signs that you like her and spend much more time with her
4) relationships and crushes take time to blossom sometimes :D be patient and it will eventually come your way
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
If you feel like you get sent out of the picture, fight for her, be sweet, caring and funny and do many things that may grab her attention
Plus, compliment a lot, girls love compliments
hope this helps
So about two weeks (sat. apr2) ago me and this guy went to my school together where we really hit it off. He kissed me a couple times and it was just amazing.
During the next week he said how he could really see us together sometime soon, so I was pretty happy. (:
So then the next weekend (sat. apr 9) we went out on a date again. We both had a really great time and he said how we should definitely go out again. So I took that as a good sign. Then I didnt hear from at all until thursday, the 14. And even then our convo. didn't last long! I haven't heard from him since and I'm just really confused about what's going on. It is spring break, so I'm pretty sure he's on vacation so that would make sense, but still!
He acted extremely interested in me, we both had a great time together at both dates, and now what! I'm so confused. What do you think?
1) honestly, trust me i have been through the EXACT same thing, though he was my bf and i ended up dumping him and now we're like bro and sis anyways, what i think you should consider is: give him a chance, he is really interested to you but you should just wait for him to gather up everything
2)if hes on vacation, who knows if he goes on the computer there often? he probably cant in some way but dont be confused, once hes back he will relive what you two had before spring break
3) just stay happy :) cuz everything will work out fine, and if you cant see to reach him or contact him, send him a message on email or facebook, or call him and ask a couple friends where he is
4) dont forget, he will repatch everything back up when hes back
hope this helps
gamergirlxoxo
Hi, this is the first time I am writing on your page.. i just need someone to talk to about this. So, there is this kid alex hes 15 and im 16 and he and one of my best friends just broke up (she broke up with him) it was a TERRIBLE break up because he still liked her but all she kept saying to him was " move on, i dont like you anymore. do whatever you want." Well, me and him have been friends for a while and he texted me.. we started talking and things got a little cute.. and then adorable.. and then sexy. (no sexting or picture.. ) he told me that he liked me before he liked his ex and said he wanted to hook up (make out ) with me.. and i told him i wasnt sure because one he dated one of my best friends and 2.. i think hes just using me.. even though he told me he wasnt.. Exact words " i would never use anyone, especially you... i like you." I really dont know what to do.. i dont just wanna be a secret hook up.. and i dont want to hurt my friend.. please help me
1) talk to your friend about this and ask if she would be okay with it
2) its kinda obvious he might be using you, to get to make your friend jealous since you guys r best friends
3) he might still have feelings for her and hasnt gotten over it, dont jump in like you're a second pick
everyone is a first choice and does not like being the \'what if\' one, such as: what if she broke up with him, oh he just picks you up like a penny on the ground, not cool
4) give him some time, and dont react so much, because a real guy doesnt wanna just hook up with someone they like, they would wanna let the relationship carry on a little
5) do what your heart tells you, and honestly if i were you, it would be a no no, because a best friend is like a sister or brother
6) hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
ok so i like this guy and we r friends and hang out with eachother alot.we talk on the phone alot to.one time we met up during class and we kissed.then 2 days later we did something after school in the cafeteria and we made out a few times afterwards.he says he wants to do it again, but i dont think he wants to kiss ME. i think he just wants to kiss somebody.ive told him but he says he WANTS to kiss me. wat should i say to him without telling him tht i like him as much as i do?
1) make sure he isnt just using you because he cant find anyone else who would just kiss him
2) try asking him how he feels about you, and if he likes you or not
3) if he replies with a no or not really, then its time to leave the guy i suppose
4) if he likes you, tell him what you feel about him
5) lastly, make sure your decisions are careful and nothing to regret once its over or once he does not want to be involved in these situations anymore.
Good luck
~gamergirlxoxo