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I think hes just using me.. even though he told me he wasnt.
Hi, this is the first time I am writing on your page.. i just need someone to talk to about this. So, there is this kid alex hes 15 and im 16 and he and one of my best friends just broke up (she broke up with him) it was a TERRIBLE break up because he still liked her but all she kept saying to him was " move on, i dont like you anymore. do whatever you want." Well, me and him have been friends for a while and he texted me.. we started talking and things got a little cute.. and then adorable.. and then sexy. (no sexting or picture.. ) he told me that he liked me before he liked his ex and said he wanted to hook up (make out ) with me.. and i told him i wasnt sure because one he dated one of my best friends and 2.. i think hes just using me.. even though he told me he wasnt.. Exact words " i would never use anyone, especially you... i like you." I really dont know what to do.. i dont just wanna be a secret hook up.. and i dont want to hurt my friend.. please help me <3
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1) talk to your friend about this and ask if she would be okay with it
2) its kinda obvious he might be using you, to get to make your friend jealous since you guys r best friends
3) he might still have feelings for her and hasnt gotten over it, dont jump in like you're a second pick
everyone is a first choice and does not like being the 'what if' one, such as: what if she broke up with him, oh he just picks you up like a penny on the ground, not cool
4) give him some time, and dont react so much, because a real guy doesnt wanna just hook up with someone they like, they would wanna let the relationship carry on a little
5) do what your heart tells you, and honestly if i were you, it would be a no no, because a best friend is like a sister or brother
6) hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
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