Hey, I'm Brandon I'm 15 and a freshmen, and some things i can usually help you out with but if i cant i will definitely try
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Age: 14
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hey , um well i am not that old, i just turned a teenager, and well i think i fell in love, and he told me that He loved me too, and I think I gave my heart way too fast, we started going out two years ago, and I am not slutty at all I just got my first kiss a month ago in three days, and I only did that was because I thought we would be together forever And he told me that he wanted to be with me forever and I knew that I did too and I loved him more than anything in the world and we broke up about 3 weeks ago and I found out that he asked out one of my best friends ttwo days ago today, and I am crying right now and I don’t want to over react and hurt myself and I really need some advice and just so you know he was the one that I gave my first kiss to. PLEASE HELP. I need to get over this boy and get on with my life, and do you have aim? If so can u give me ur sn so we can talk more? Ok thanks
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cool it, your just a teenager, you really think someone will stay with you forever if they say that now?? especailly in the world we live in today. I mean yeah its happened but dont count on it. Don't think eiether that your the special one and out of the ordinary and it will happen to you, cause, it prolly won't. I could be wrong but wouldn't bet on it. I know im sounding kind of harsh, not trying to be. Forget about him. The only way is time+distance. Stay far away from him and don't talk to him or see him for a + long long time. Just live.
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the girls at my school are getting gayer and gayer everyday, gay in the way that they are acting different and weird not actually gay. Ever since we changed school from 8th grade to freshmen all the girls think there hotshit now and try to boss around all the guys like there nothing so ive started not to listen to them anymore and now im hated?? and all other guys agree with me also. Like girls think there using you know and just start flirting with you to make them feel good about themselves when they really dont want anything from you. I Dont get it. And how should i act towards them without being a total dick cause thats how i have to act to show them there not hotshit. (link)
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woah i think you guess are mislead sry for not explaining im a guy
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ok i no this sounds like evry other question on here but... i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me. he found out and e mailed me asking me if it was true i liked him. wat do i tell him? do i lie and say no or say yes??/
PLEEEEZE HELP SOON! QUIKLYY! (link)
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yes yes yes yes yes im a guy and if i ever emailed a girl asking them is it true that you like me than i deffinitly like them. I wouldn't bother with them if i didnt like them. SO SAY YESSSS. i hate when girls lie and say no so say yes trust me just do it
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Why do guys hate/not like when girls cry? For example, last night I was telling my best guy friend about something really upsetting, and he just kept saying, "Please don't cry, please don't cry." What makes guys always say that, like why does it upset tem when girls cry? (link)
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I'm a guy and i personally think it's cute when girls cry over little things like drama going on or somthing with there parents, but no matter what if a girl cries i like to comfort them in every way possible. It doesn't annoy me or make me mad to see girls cry. Hope I helped.
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My boyfriend (30yrs) and I (28yrs) met in Australia and I moved to Ireland to be with him, we have only been together (officially) for a year. I found out we were pregnant the other day and whilst I am scared and nervous about it I want to have the baby as I feel we are strong enough to get make it happen and abortion is not an option in my mind. My boyfriend said he will support me what ever I decide but I know he is freaked out by it. I have tried talking to him and I understand his fears. He is worried about finances and that our 1/2 renovated house is not child suitable but I think his biggest worry is that is life of going to clubs and festivals during the summer will be over for ever and he will be chained to the couch for ever. I have tried to tell him life will change but its not the end of his life and things will be different. I asked him if the option was there of an abortion would he want that and he said yes he would. This really hurts me as I dont believe in abortion and I am ready for a baby in some way I am actually excited and would have liked it to have been a planned pregnancy and a mutually wanted baby. Later he came back and said he doesn't want me to have an abortion but he is not sure about me having it. What am I meant to do have half a baby and half of an abortion?? What do I do? Do i give him time to get used to the idea? I dont want him to feel forced into this and him become resentful? Do I just go home to Australia and leave him to his party life? (which really aint that party hard anyway). We are a strong strong very happy and in love couple but I dont want to force this on him but then it was the two of us that got pregnant, why am I meant to feel like I am forcing this on him?? oh its all so confusing? can he go to any decent websites for advice on this stuff? I have checked ou a few sights about girlfirends getting pregnant but they are all for younger guys? (link)
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If you really feel you two can't handle it, put the baby up for adoption. You don't have to take car of it and you don't have to kill it eiether. Just another option. O and im jw private message me back on this, did you two use protection at all?
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Hey! 15/f
I am really confused about my relationship with this guy that i met really reacently.
I met him outside of target while i was sitting in the car while my mom was inside. After a while of glanceing at each other he came up and knocked on my window and after talking for a little while he asked for my number.
We have been text messageing each other for a little over a week now and he wants to come vist me at my house. Since i have only seen him in person once it will be really werid for me and i am realy nervous about it. He wants to come over tammarow and see me. We both like each other and he is really sweet, but since i havent had a boyfriend before ans i dont hang out with very many guys im extermly nervous.
Do you guys have any tips onwhat we could do?
What to wear?
and Just and thing in general would be great!
Thanks so much!!!
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what was the first thing he said to you after he knocked on your window?
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okay well i went out with this one guy for a couple of months but i ended up dumping him because i still had feeings for this other guy. And so i went out with this other guy and he dumped me. So now i realize what i had in the beginning and i really miss the first guy i was with. I know that i never should have dumped him and now i really want him back. I just dont know what to do because i cant just go up to him and be all like " oh hey i like you again." Like how am i supposed to tell if he likes me again or anything.. PLEASEEE HELPPP = [
thanks
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well im hoping the girl i like feels this way also. See im on the other side of this and my girlfriend did dump me for some other guy she had feelings for now im just hoping she has them bak for me, i never thought she could alter her feelings toward me again but after reading about what you wrote i think i might have a chance. Enough with my life i think you should just go up to the boy, and talk to him alot show that you like him but don't get to clingy right now, the girl i want to be with is showing mixed signals which is confusing the hell outta me so don't do that just act casual when you see him smile, when there are other guys around you give your attention to him, hes a guy, he'll get it. Hope i helped, now if you have any advice for me to try and get that girl i'd love to hear from you thanks.
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So me and this guy are planning on going to a haunted house next weeked, the thing is I get scared really really easily and i don't want to look stupid. Me and him aren't going out but I kind of dout he likes me but I like him. Also It'll be kind of cold, what should I wear to still look cute? And how can I look mature and not freak out?
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just out of curiousity, is this the huanted mill in clinton if you know what im talkin about youd understand if not youll think im an idiot??
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Hi.I am a 20 year old female.
about 11 months ago I ended a 2 year relationship with someone I really loved. I could not have asked for a better relationship. I was devastated when He broke up with me out of nowhere. I gave the breakup a few months to try to heal, but within 6 months of breaking up with the first boy, I relucktantly began dating another male who I thought was a short term fling. 5 months later we are still dating. He says he thinks he loves me and thinks about me all the time. I don't feel the same way. I've broken up with him 2 times because I am not really sure that he is the type of boyfriend I want. The first time only lasted 2 days because he made me feel so guilty for breaking up. The second time was 2 weeks ago and lasted for about a week. then he came back to me and said all the right things to get me to want to be with him. While We were broken up, I finally got to spend time with my amazing friend, whom I had a big crush on for about a year. I continue to spend time with him now even though we are just friends, I know he likes me and I like him back. Last night he told me that he loved me. I'm so confused and my head is spinning because I know that I could never be with the 3rd guy since I don't agree that he has cheated on almost all his gfs. I don't think I could trust him as much as I want to. My current bf is just sort of there, I still love my ex, and my friend is really confusing. Could you please give me some advice on how to sort this mess out? I would appreciate it.
thank you. (link)
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hey, I think you should just go for your ex. If you really love him why not?And I also have a question for you. When you said here "then he came back to me and said all the right things to get me to want to be with him." I'm just wondering what he said because i have an ex I'd like to get back together with also, and I love this girl and im doing everything I canto get her back so if you could give me some details on what he said to you I would really appreciate it. Thanks alot.
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okay so me and my ex broke up about a month ago and we still love each other we just broke up because he had to concintrate on school and football but he said well get back together when hes figured things out..and like i was always number 3 on his myspace and then i saw two days ago it changed..his friend who was a girl became before me..and i mean it kinda hurt because im thinking maybe his feelings changed or something.But he told me that hes been friends with her just as long as his best friend (whos a guy) and he said that shes his best friend too and like that they skate together and that hes been always with her(not in a love relationship kinda way)and that people always say that they are together and stuff but he said that if i dont believe him fine because no one else does.And i do believe him i guess..but i mean he switched me and her sometimes but only like twice..and i was number 3 for a long time soo now if hes been best friends with her for a long time then why all of a sudden change it so shes before me? why wasent it like that before you know? i feel silly feeling like this but the orders do mean something..so what do you guys think about this? do you think he likes her? (link)
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Alright well I really like this one girl and shes on my top 8. I have one of my best friends (thats a girl 1st) and the one i really like about 5th and there the only 2 girls on there. Now i just currently moved the one i like to 7th because im trying to see if she responds to it. If she does than i can know for sure if she likes me again. But you shouldn't worry about it's probably Just like what im doing. Hope I helped
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I am very sad!!
Last night my bf asked me if I think that I was ready for marriage ..I was surprise and happy of course .He just pop up with the question if I love him and if I want to marry him one day .
I said yes ...I was really happy.
After that we kept on talking about marriage and stuff than I told him that If I ought to marry him I want to keep my own lastname ....He got really mad and told me that he doesn't like my desicion.
The real reason why I wouldn't like his lastname is that his parents has the same last name and they really hate me and do really bad and nasty stuff to me .THEY HURT ME A LOT,
It's really hard for me to go around with the lastname of my biggest enemies
I love my bf ..we had been A LOT to be togheter ..his parents did the imposible things to seperate us ..They are really jealous about their son.
The second reason is that my dad has more than 5 childrens and he only gave me his lastname ..I'm proud to have this lastname and I really don't want to change it..
Can anyone understand me ?????
I don't want to hurt him but how to explain to him this strange feeling ?
I'm really sad .. (link)
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explain to him exactly what you just told us here.
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Okay well all us girls know how hard it is to get over a boy after he dumps us or just says he doesnt like us anymore, especially when it was super unexpected. so my questions are...
how do you get over them? besides getting another one. cause I can't get another one.
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Do you boys feel the same way? like if we ever did that to you? do you feel like crap for days on end? do you guys like obsess over it as we do?
Do you ever even miss us? or do you just move on right away cause you just thought we were attractive?
Thats people! (link)
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Im a guy and yes it's one of the worst things when a girl dumps you. You feel horrible, like dirt, and you feel like theyhave a better life going for them if they dont need you around anymore. And we dont just get over it, it takes lots and lots of time. Most guys dont go out with girls that they think are just attractive, theyll do stuff with them butnot go out with them. THeyll only go out with a girl if they are actually atracted to them mentally. hope i helped
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Okay, so I like this guy.
He's still sorta new to the school
I wanna go out with him but nothings progressing beneath the friendship level
I know that he likes me (I'm pretty sure) and I like him back
I don't have his sn, email, phone or anything.
I don't know how to ask for any of them w/o seeming like I'm trying to stalk him or the fact that I like him.
He's popular among the boys (Lacross team) but not much among the girls. I wanna go out with him but I don't know if I should or even how.
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Hey, nothing better than a 14/m to help you out here, i've got my own love problems also, but what you should do is not be cheesy or anything around him like act stupid or try and make jokes that are just not funny, for some reason it's a big turn off. But to get his number or anything just go up to him and talk for a little bit then be like hey do you have a screename, trust me he wont not give it to you, and just flirt with him alot, when you see him say Hi. But you could also play the hard to get, which i think the girl i likes doing to me right now and its driving me nuts, like if he im's you or somthing don't IM back fo rthe rest of the day, but the next time he im's you answer it and have a short convo and make sure you end it. thats about all the advice i have, hope it helped
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