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Its Awkward..(Sorry its Long)
Hey! 15/f
I am really confused about my relationship with this guy that i met really reacently.
I met him outside of target while i was sitting in the car while my mom was inside. After a while of glanceing at each other he came up and knocked on my window and after talking for a little while he asked for my number.
We have been text messageing each other for a little over a week now and he wants to come vist me at my house. Since i have only seen him in person once it will be really werid for me and i am realy nervous about it. He wants to come over tammarow and see me. We both like each other and he is really sweet, but since i havent had a boyfriend before ans i dont hang out with very many guys im extermly nervous.
Do you guys have any tips onwhat we could do?
What to wear?
and Just and thing in general would be great!
Thanks so much!!!
Tory
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what was the first thing he said to you after he knocked on your window?
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What to do:
I suggest watching a movie for awhile, it first of all distracts you two from having alot of conversation, so you don't have to think up something to say every second. For movie choice, I would probably either choose horror or comedy. Comedy is a good one because it creates alot of laughter between the two of you, and will create a more happy, comfortable enviroment and then later you two can talk of the movie and share jokes and everything. Horror is a good "flirting" type of movie. Whenever girls are scared, they usually'll grab the guys hand or jump and reach over to them because they need something to cling onto, and the guy doesn't mind AT ALL, lol. They milk it up and'll comfort them and put their arm around them and everything.
Also, depending on what else is in your house, you guys can just blast music and watch television for awhile afterwards and engage in conversation. Seeing as you two have only talked once, this is a good opportunity to ask alot of questions about eachother and get to know eachother better and find common interests, so I'm sure there's alot to talk about. But don't forget while talking to make alot of eye contact, sit close to him and just flirt to show him you're interested and everything.
As the person said below, maybe even go for a casual stroll around the neighborhood. This'll make everything nice and quite for conversation and still somewhat romantic since the stars may be out or the sun is setting ; whatever time he's over there. Plus, if it's cold you two can sit close and everything and talk.
As for what to wear, I wouldn't get OVERLY dressed up. Since you two aren't going out anywhere, I mean I'm sure he'd be impressed you took so much time into looking nice for him, but it might come off you went a little overboard to impress him. So maybe just wear one of your favorite cute outfits like a shirt or some jeans and a cute top and just do something cute with your hair and some simple makeup.
If you feel yourself becoming nervous, just talk some deep calm breaths and just be yourself, and everything's fine. You already know he likes you and everything since he asked for your number and wants to hang out!
I hope I helped.
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1)Don't be nervous, trust me it will show. Just be yourself. Act as if you were hanging with one of your friends (just cut out all of the girly stuff)
2)Wear something simple but cute. You don't want to dress to nice because then it will look like you were really really trying to impress him; and sometimes that can be a turn off. I suggest something like a skirt with leggings and a cute shirt or some jeans and a cute shirt.
3)If he is coming over your house you guys could either watch a movie or walk around your nieghborhood. If yall decide to walk around then that would be the perfect chance for yall to talk more and get to know each other better. If yall decide to watch a movie that would also be a good choice. It would be really romantic and you wouldn't be pressured to have a lot of conversation. The type of movie you pick to watch will also help set the mood. If you pick a horror movie, you could get close to him on the scary parts. If you pick a funny movie, it would definitely be enjoyable because yall will be laughing most of the time.
I hope I helped you, but if not feel free to write me back.
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Well to tell you the truth I was never a really outgoing person especially with guys. But you know what? The reason why he likes you is because he thinks you might be a down to earth girl who doesn't care what other people think. So wear something you think you look good in and act like yourself how you act around your friends. I'm pretty sure he'll like you for who you are and everything will go well. =D
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