Aw, that sounds like how I got together with my boyfriend.
I can give you some suggestions that I did.
For one, I flat out told him how much I care about him and how sweet he is. Then at the park I stole one of his shoes so he'd chase me and tackle me and then we'd lay down and cuddle. Afterwards, I told him that I only stole his shoe because I knew it'd get us closer. He bought me a rose so a few days later I picked him a bouquet and gave him flowers. I also made him a CD with songs that I thought well described how I felt about him. And I picked two stars and told him they were my favorite because they were close together just like he and I.

Those are just some things I did. However, chances are if this guy is as wonderful as you say he is, which I'm sure he is, then he's not worried about you doing the giving. He's happy just to see you smile and make you happy and make your day better. That's a gift enough to him. I know my boyfriend was just happy that I wanted to be friends with him, let alone be more than that. My main suggestion would just be to tell him how you feel about him and maybe try cute little things that'll get his attention but aren't too over the top.

I hope I helped a little.

If you like him, then it wouldn't be weird to ask him. If you get the vibe that he likes you, even if it's just as a friend, then you definitely should ask him. You shouldn't doubt your own quality and doubt yourself when it comes to guys. That just makes it harder to find a guy and knocks at your self-esteem.
Just start talking to him about homecoming the next time you have a chance to talk to him and then ask him to go with you.

Hope I helped.

Wow. First off, get your friends out of your love life business. It's okay if they're there for advice, but not if they're getting involved in how you plan carrying out this relationship.
As for the boy, you should call him. Ask him why he chose not to call you after he said he would. My ex would frequently promise to call and then never would. That's not fair to you, it just causes stress and leaves you feeling pathetic as you wait by the phone. So, call him and find out what's up. Find out how he feels about you and why he hasn't called you. As much as you like him, figure out if he's going to be worth the emotional energy and toll on you.

If you're too shy to talk about yourself at first, ask him questions about his life. Not too personal, but general things. Such as, if he's on a sports team, ask him about it. This will show him that your interested in getting to know him. Then, if he says something, just try to relate it to an experience or interest of your own. Soon, it'll become easier to carry conversations.

Hope I helped. (:

You definitely should NOT give him another chance. You've given him two chances and he's betrayed your trust and hurt you twice.
What it comes down to is whether you're comfortable being just friends and can overcome any romantic feelings towards him for your sake. And secondly, whether he's willing to accept that you won't let him use you or hurt you anymore.
If he's not willing to just be friends with you and can't understand that you can't start a relationship with him again because he hurt you and betrayed your trust, then you need to break off from him. You can be friendly and say hi, but ultimately, ignore him and don't waste your time trying to befriend a guy who just doesn't get it.
Trust me, I just recently went through the same thing, until I found my current boyfriend. Things'll work out.

Hope I helped.

Your boyfriend is being overly protective and jealous. I can relate to the jealousy because my boyfriend is also a jealous person. Jealousy is a form of caring for someone and can be cute.
However, when it comes to the point where he's toying with your heart and making you feel bad for having friends or even communicating with other people; it's gone too far. All he's doing is abusing you emotionally and that's not right. If he truly loved you, he would be able to trust you enough to talk to a boy in your class without lashing out on you for it.
You need to tell him that you're flattered that he's so 'into' you, but that he's smothering you and if he can't trust you and treat you like he does trust and respect you, then you can't be with him.
I'm sorry to say, if after you talk to him things don't change, it's time to move on and get him out of your life.

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Say something like
"You're very nice and sweet to me and I enjoyed the few days we've been together. But, I really don't think I'm ready for this kind of relationship. Maybe if I had gotten to know you better before we started dating, things would be different. Unfortunately, I'm just not feeling right in this relationship. I'm sorry, you really are great. I just can't continue in this relationship."

Honestly, it sounds to me like he was never interested you that much to begin with. You shouldn't change for him; you need to find ways to distract yourself from the hurt you feel. And ultimately, you need to figure a way to get over him. Spend more time with your friends, pick up a hobby, something along those lines will distract you and help you to feel better about yourself and the situation. He's not worth your pain, time, or energy.
I know that probably isn't want you wanted to hear, but it's time you move on; changing for a guy never works out well. You'll lose yourself and be worse off than if you don't have him.

Hope I helped.

They probably both like you or have some sort of feelings for you, which is why they haven't told each other about you.
But, you have to remember, that's there decision and their prerogative. If you like one more than the other, then go for it. There's a good chance it'll work for you.
When it comes to telling the other, you'll simply have to be straight forward about it. Bring it up casually and then tell her. If they're good enough friends it won't tear them apart.

In my honest opinion, she has every right to know. You broke her trust and the vows you made when you got married to begin with. You owe it to her and yourself to come clean with everything. If you two really love each other, you'll probably be able to pull through this. She should know, she deserves to know. What she'll do with the information once you tell her is her prerogative, but in the long run it'll be better on the both of you to have the whole, blunt, and awful truth out in the open.

Hope I helped.

Well, as important as this half year anniversary may be to you, if he already made an agreement to go to the concert with his friend before he told you he'd spend the day with you, then tell him to go to the concert.
However, if he made the promise to you first and is now invited to the concert, then tell him that you want him to spend the day with you.

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