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well my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me a little over a week ago but he asked me back out as soon as possible. now we are doing really good and back to the way we were. he tells me he loves me and everything and doesn't want to break up with me again, but before he broke up with me he promised he wouldn't do it, but he did! i understand it was a mistake and he regrets it, but the point is...HE DID IT! well, every now and then i start feeling really sad and depressed and i don't think he loves me. and he has changed a little, but i don't know if it's just me or if he really did. i just don't feel the same anymore and i get REALLY sad and i love him so much. i don't want to loose him... why am i feeling like that when we are doing good, and what should i do? (link)
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im not sure vut i think he could be changing to see if he can be a better boyfriend (thats my best guess)i think you should talk to him and get closer with him show him that you love him so much and that you dont whant to loose him and see what he sayes.
i hope i helped
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I don't know why but I am scared of love, but I want it so bad. I am 19 and have still never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss because I want my first kiss to be special. I am considered an attractive girl and guys like me and I like them too but I won't let anything happen because I personally feel like I don't carry enough self-confidence which my friends get angry about. I think I worry about life in general and I'm scared that I'll just end up alone forever. What should I do? (link)
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listen if your atractive use it ok you should be confident cuz if ppl like you then you should like yourself and also i understan you not having a kiss but listen just get to know some1 and you will love him after awile and your first kiss will be special and well your just gonna half to get to know some1 and care for them and after awile you will get confident because you will know him and he will know you and you will know him and you will get closer and closer and then it will come natural.
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my girlfriends bday is coming up and im clueless on what to get her i already got her a bracelet a necklace and i dont know what to get now we have been going out 1 year and 2 months (link)
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hey man dont come right out and say "what do u whant" but go around with her and look at what she looks at and if she says something like "awwww thats cute" or something then go with that and get her something els to make her feel that you thought of something yourself.
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Hey okay ill get to da story... im going out with this kid i meet and this Dance and his friend is going out with mii cousin.. well the day after i had meet him he came over my house with his friend and my two cousins were over after awhile my one cousin left and we were all making out and my boyfriend and i started doing things together.. till it was time for them to leave... and then i guess my mom got mad and my dad did to he called my uncle and told him but c my cousin is allowed to stay with her boyfriend and its not fair and my mom told me i have to break up with mine im not going to but i dont know how i will be able to see him even tho theres a party next saturday he invited me to and i rilly want to go but im afired to ask mii parents PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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just go its your life not theirs and if you care about you b\f then be with him dont think about your parents it will just drive you crazy
well i hope i helped
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Well not to long ago, my boyfriend told me that he loved me. Now normally he only says it over the phone, so one day I told him I loved him, when we were face to face. Today, as he was getting on the bus to go out of town for wresteling, I called out his name and mouthed the words "I love you". All he did was stand on the stairs of the bus and stare at me, waved and left. I know that I probably shouldnt stress about it but what if he doesn't "feel the same way" anymore? (link)
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well eathe her dident understand you because some1 got in the way or he was shocked that you sayed it cuz when i whent out with my ex (that i still like(im srry you dident whant to hear that)
she sayed i love you to me and i was schocked (happy but schocked) so i dont quite know but im pritty sher that he loves you to so dont worrie about it and just be like you always are because that seems to be working
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So I like this boy Robert right? Well, how do I find out if he likes me, without me having to ask? He's a sophmore, and I'm a freshman, and he's on my dad's wrestling team, but he's injured, so I talk to him a lot. And I don't know..I just like him a whole lot, and I don't know what to look for to find out if he likes me?!?!
-Cupid's Challange (link)
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well if you whant to know if he likes you just get some1 to ask if he thinks you sweet, nice, cool, ect. and if he sayes yes he likes you or if he takes along time (im a guy and if we dont say no quick then we mean yes but we dont whant you to know) then ask him out
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I have this friend that I have been there with all the time. I wanted to ask him out but I don't think I've ever had a chance, been nothing but a friend and someone to free load hw off of... So, he asked one of my best friend out.. It was really wierd because, I was happy for him and her.. and everything, but I was angry and cursing myself for not taking a chance because I could just ask him after they broke up. She made some excuse that she was too busy to go out with him and he was completely crushed. So I left him alone with this, because well.. I'm his friend and I wouldn't want to just aggravate things further. Now there is some girl that is a cheerleader going after him.. She always has short flings with guys and is very capable of having a time to get a guy in her house and do things. I really don't think this is what he needs right now, and I don't want him to be even more depressed because then I will have to wait even longer for him to be ok for me to ask him out again.. *sigh* it's all so very complicated and I just hate this. I always forget what I want to say around him, feel nervous.. gah.. It's really funny because, he just doesn't see it.. like I never have a chance.. (link)
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im srry to say this but you should be agressive guys arnt complicated girls just make us seem that way just ask him out after like 3 days of cooling off and it should work
you have a good chance with him dont let him slip away
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Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on? (link)
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ASK HIM OUT!!!!!!!! if u like him and you think he likes you then ask him out
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Hi I'm Phx'sgurl sorry it sounds weird but I need help,there's a guy that I like but I have a boyfriend ,he's nice but I really have feelings for the other guy he's about my age.The other guy on the side has really been there for me and this guy can connect with me alot but I don't know what to do Please give me advice I could really use it and if you can tell me your column name so I could update you later to tell you how it went.My friends told me that the other guys really cute and he's nice but the other guy looks like he really likes me .-Phx'sgurl (link)
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well its your desision if you truely like him then well your gonna half to go and tell your boyfriend that you have feelings for some1 els and that you like him but you like some1 els
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okay theres this guy i like and he likes me.. this saturday night... we're supposed to do "something". i no what it is because we talked about it. Well... to get me out of the house.. he's gonna say that we're going out to eat then to the movies. I think we still might go to the movies. im not sure yet. But then all weekend we're hanging out. I just have to let him know what time i have to work.
Well this morning.. he asked me if i was seriously ready for it.. i told him i am. i just keeep getting nervous when we talk about it. Like yesterday... my older sister rode with us.. i knew he wanted to talk bout it becuase i saw the look on his face.. so i made her ride the bus today.. and we did talk bout it. Mostly the whole way to school. Should i go through with it? I mean we both want to but we're both scared too. Because he's 18 and im 15! and as u know he can get introuble for it. but i dont want him to get introuble. We both want to go through it.. i definately want to. I never did n e thing with a guy b4. i knew him for 9 years so its not like im gonna do it with a complete stranger....
please let me know....
Maybe... maybe not.... (link)
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well..... its your choice like he cant get in trouble unless you say something or if you get pregnate but if your sher fallow your hart and do what you think is wright
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ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
XxXxAbabiiXxXx (link)
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he always loved you but that happining to you really made him reolize that he could lose you at any moment and that will scare the hell out of a guy.
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this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored? (link)
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ask your friend to not have her b\f over and tell her that your always bord when he is
also ask if you guys can go somewair and do something so that if they do leave u will have something to do
well hope i helped
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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them? (link)
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i dont use it but i have had it used on me (i know what it means tho) it eather means
1# he has things he has to handle
2# his parents sayed he cant see you
3# he dosent know if hes ready to be with someone
4# its a nice way of breaking up with you
well thats all i know so i hope i helped
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I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿ (link)
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well its your choice but if i where you i would go with the first guy cuz he was with you first and you need to be with your first love unless thair is a good reason( having feelings for some outher guy isent right)
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my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??
-kristi (link)
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hey their is nouthing wrong with you liking her ex just follow your hart and if you think it is with ryan then be with him if not then dont its what you think and dont worrie if u truely care about him then thats all that matters
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do long distance relationships ever work if u see eachother lik every other month or so? bc i lik this guy and he likes me but he lives a state away were both dedicated but still...wat do u think? (link)
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if you care about each outher thats all that maters just stick with it and when ever you get old enough that you whant to move in with each outher do it but you half to be total commited because this is mager and if you truely care about eachouther than you will wate and be their for eachouther when the time comes ok
well i hope i helped
good luck and good bye
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