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well my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me a little over a week ago but he asked me back out as soon as possible. now we are doing really good and back to the way we were. he tells me he loves me and everything and doesn't want to break up with me again, but before he broke up with me he promised he wouldn't do it, but he did! i understand it was a mistake and he regrets it, but the point is...HE DID IT! well, every now and then i start feeling really sad and depressed and i don't think he loves me. and he has changed a little, but i don't know if it's just me or if he really did. i just don't feel the same anymore and i get REALLY sad and i love him so much. i don't want to loose him... why am i feeling like that when we are doing good, and what should i do?
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im not sure vut i think he could be changing to see if he can be a better boyfriend (thats my best guess)i think you should talk to him and get closer with him show him that you love him so much and that you dont whant to loose him and see what he sayes.
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well you have to trust him enough to know that he wont do it again...but if he shows that he reli loves you and everything and everything is going great whats the worry? you should love the time you spend with him lifes to short to be unhappy
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This is a trust issue. He made a promise and didn't keep it. While you agreed to go back out with him, it is normal for you to have doubts. Only time will tell. Mutual trust is required in a loving relationship. But it takes time to gain each others trust even in the best of conditions. He violated your trust so it will take time for you to feel like you did before. Give it some time....and if all goes well, you will begin to relax. If he does it again though......it is not likely that the trust issue will ever be resolved again. Love is grand, but trust is most important. When you look at older couples, who have been together for a long time, believe me,they fall in and out of love with each other because day to day issues intefere, but they still trust each other to be there for each other always.
Michele
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ok firstable you need to take some time alone from him atleast one day and just put all your thoughts together...for ex. i was in his situation i broke up with my boyfriend twise but then he said on a third time if im gonna say i wanna break up with him he's not gonna look back and not even gonna sweat it...well give him a last chance and see what goes from there...
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