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I dated this guy for a year we met at collage we were really close and all. About a month ago he dumped me and he said he couldnt go out with me as me being mixed raced confuses things too much for him. And when it comes to relationships he wants to stick to his own race and date white girls. I dont know why as he dated me and we never even spoke about race should I confront him? As i love him loads. thanx sophie (link)
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well if hes stupid enought to leave you over something like this..well im sorry to say but why were you dating him.
I get the feeling theres more behind this, this cant be the real reason. Try to discuss that with him, why it was never an issue and suddenly he wants to change up on you. If he persists with this response, I guess the only thing you can do is respect his wishes...hopefully he will come back to sences. hope this helped at all, take care & hope things work out for the best =]
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People say revenge is never the answer, and you might be one of them, but I don't care. So don't scold me or try to reason with me just answer my question and get over it. I want revenge on him. There is this boy ((we'll call him Dave)) and he broke my heart. I know we are young and I am not going to try and say we are in love but I think its stupid that people say you can't get your heart broken even though they know they felt this exact pain at your age. Anyway, if Dave thinks he can just mess around with my emotions, tell me he likes but that he's "not interested in dating" but still expect me to treat him like a boyfriend, he's wrong. If he thinks he can lead me on when he gets bored but then ignore me whenever he feels like it, he's wrong. Its not like he flirts with other girl's (I'm really the only girl he ever talks to) and he's not a player AT ALL I think he just gets a laugh out of messing with me and it makes me so mad! I still like him SO MUCH (i know i know!! But i cant control who i like!!) but I just want to get back at him. It hurts me... A lot and I know its absolutely horrible, but I want to hurt him too. I don't care if he is "confused with his feelings about me" or any other bull crap he gives, he can't mess with me like that!! Jelousy could do something but I need MORE ideas. So please, skip the criticism and sense, and just help me. How can I get revenge?? (link)
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Im sorry to tell you but you clearly said he gets a laugh at the things you do..meaning that you cant actually hurt him because he doesnt care enough about you. Trying to be revengeful will only hurt YOU in the longrun because you keep stressing the situation. Dont get me wrong i know exactly how you feel, ive been in this possition many times before..but dont waste your time it makes you seem immature & on top of that it makes him feel good your still care about what he does. I advise you to cut off all contact with him and try to ignore the fact you know him. If its meant to be he'll realize he does want you as a girlfriend, if he doesnt then he never appreciated what you did for him. Pleasee dont go after the revenge thing it doesnt work..you only waste your time, dont comit the same mistake i made when i was about your age.
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kayy i like this guy but he has a girlfriend and i dont want peoople answering this like dont tell him because he has a girl friend becuase si have to tell him.....how do i tell him i like him?
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you have to be realistic. Once you do tell him do you expect to dump her and run into your arms? ..Unless you guys really have a connection and your sure hes into you dont do it. It will only hurt you in the end because he will know you like him, but you guys wont be able to move on because of the fact he has a girlfriend...well i mean unless your the type of girl who doesnt care to be the other woman.
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I met a guy at the beginning of the summer and we've been spending a lot of time together... almost every day. I'm a virgin but I'm ready to have sex (save the sex speeches please, im 17 and i can make my own decisions) and I really want to with him.... i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. The other night we were getting pretty close... and he said "its up to you". After hearing him say this and knowing that it could really happen made me think... and kind of nervous. He's leaving in less than a month and he goes to school thousands of miles away. There's a chance I may never see him again... and if i did it wouldn't be for, like, a year. It makes me sad to think he's leaving and we can't be anything more than we are... and I'm wondering if sex would just make me even more emotional about it. Can I hear your thoughts and/or stories? Thanks! (link)
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personally i think you shouldnt. He could meet someone new while hes overe there and you would have just gave up your virginity to someone who isnt going to be with you. It will make him gone so much more worse. I think you should wait some time, maybe he'll come back you never know. Idk i just feel if your going to give yourself up to someone you should atleast have the security that they will be with you afterward. But then again its all up to you. hope you the best of luck on what you decide. =]
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I'm 18. Should I go out with a 26 year old guy? (link)
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your 18. most of the time people think its wrong to go out with older people because they might think its peer presure. I think you are able to make decisions for yourself, if you like him go for it.
hope i helped. =]
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I have known my ex boyfriend since we were 13 years old (I'm now 22). We dated for 5 years off and on and we were very much in love. We broke up due to the fact that we have always lived very far from each other. Throughout college we kept in touch. I recently just graduated and he came to my graduation (his cousin graduated from the same college as me so he was there really for him). After seeing me at graduation he started to come back in my life more and more. He has been calling me and speaking to me everyday. He just got out of a serious relationship so he would mainly be calling me for advice on his recent ex girlfriend. I am currently in a serious relationship and although I am extermely happy I still have feelings for my ex. He claims he still has feelings for me too but he keeps going back and forth on whether or not to get back with his ex or not. I feel lost and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend. I recently told my ex that I couldn't talk to him about his ex anymore because I knew I wouldn't be able to give him advice when I feel like my own feelings for him would get in the way. He said he wouldn't bother me about it anymore. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him altogether? I have already told him how I feel but I feel like it hasn't accomplished anything. My current boyfriend and I are very close and I try to be as honest with him as possible. Lately I know I have been distant with him and that I run the risk of losing my current relationship for someone who might not even want to be in a relationship with me.
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From what i know it seems you havent been able to forget about your ex. I suggest you let him know exactly how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same for you. If the answer is yes you should tell him what does he plan to do about it. If you feel like you two will get anywhere i think you should tell your boyfriend in on what is going on seems like you too have an open relationship and its better to let him in now on what you are feeling that wait more time and hurt him more.
-hope i helped. =]
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like im a black girl but i tend to like a lot of white people too.. usually guys with longish brown hair and blue eyes. is that weird? like i dunno.. I like black guys too but a lot of them are dicks, especially here in america. people say its okay to like.. like or date people of different colors.. but idk.. like what my parents would think of that since i've never talked to them about it.. and theres never been like biracial people in our family since they were born in africa and all their relatives lived there as well. we're the new generation that gets to live in the u.s. um.. so any thoughts? its not really a question or maybe it is but im kinda unsure.. like cause im not limited to only liking black guys and i like other guys too, especially since theres a lot more white guys at my school than black. and well other races too (link)
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Theres nothing wrong with that. If your family doesnt agree their my be sort of like a racist problem..idk. But thats how you like guys, so dont let anyone try to change you. Besides were all humans. =]
-hope i helped =]
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this guy Cameron is one of my friends and I thought he liked me because 1 .the talked to me more than all the other girls and 2.my school went to a hockey game and I was looking for a place to sit and he saw me looking around and he was like waving at me
okay then I was sitting a seat away from him and he came and sat next to me
so I was talking to my friend Nichelle on the other side of me and I was like I'm gonna "fall asleep" and "accidently" have my head fall on him shoulder ... and I told her to look at him when I was " asleep" and see his reaction ...
so he was smiling
then later I was like buuuur I'm freeeeezing and he gave me his coat ...
then when we were walking home I was havin a smoke and he was like eww you smoke blah blah thats gross .
anyways then when he went on his own way ,
and I said to my friend Josh I might asm him out and then hes like ...
and then I decided not to ask him out yet
and everyones like DONT go out with her blah blah blah and I was like I wasn't going to ask him out
and they were like ya right blahhhh blahhhh
so do you think he likes me ?
because I want to ask him out now ...
but I don't know if he likes me !
rawr =\
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i think he liks you the only problem is i noticed he doesnt like smokers much lol..but just dont do it around him and stuff. Or if you like himthat much maybe even quit =]. well thats on you but yeah see how things go from their he seems intrested so i highly think he'll ask you out.
- hope i helped =]
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My boyfriend of 9 months i think has changed. I dont know if it's b/c we had sex 2 months ago or b/c of football but heu sed to treat me soooo good. we used to be the best couples out there. then things started getting rough. He got caguht for chewing and he swore on our relatioship and PROMISED me he wouldnt ever do it again and he did. So he got grounded for 2 weeks and the next day i flirted with someone he hates b/c hes the most popluar guy in the school and i was mad at my boyfriend. but the next day people told him i cheated on him which i didnt i made a point not to b/c i love my boyfriend but it took him a while but he trusted me. Now im asking him what makes me trust him now that he isnt going to lie to me when he chews again and everytime i say that he turns it back on me and how i flirted. I DIDNT CHEAT ON HIM THOUGH. And he hung up without saying i love you he just screamed and hung up and i cant talk to him until tomorrow now. he never goes to bed mad at me which is why i think hes changing. what should i do from here. anything i say to him he yells and turns it back on me. this is a serious problem b/c im the one left crying all the time please help me. (link)
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well he's hurt since he heard it from other people he doesnt know what really happened. To me it sounds like he's stressed. Let him sleep mad he'll spend the night thinking on what he's doing and what needs to be done. When you try to talk time him approach him calmly and let himknow what happened. Since yo didnt cheat on him, he has nothing to be upset about.
- hope i helped =]
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So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random girl I couldnt tell you her name to save my life asked HOW LONG we've been going out..! Then today DJ didffrent annoying kid asked if we were.. Well I dont see why Adams not going "Gross kid! No I am not going out with this Hella Fat cow!" But all 3 times he hasnt said anything.. i've had to correct them. The Steven goes around telling Adam that he's all I ever talk about which soo isn't true!
Adam said something to me I forget, about "us."kinda and I was like ahh not now Adam later.. just joking around and he was like yayyy now i have something to look forward to and It was funny and I laughed and stuff and I guess I have a laugh AND a giggle. Ive heard this from my Best Budd in the whole world Becky. Well I dont control it. because I dont know I even had a **gigle...
Well, Beckys made a huge deal out've reading and me and Adam flirting. I say its not.. even tho it kinda is.. I mean Im not the number one girl Adam could have! He's funny, Smells delish!!! no joke, and i donno everything about hims awsome. He has more options besides ME. I stayed back, im the Godzilla of the grade.. because im fat and im just al around not pretty. But people tell me other wise.. but ughh tuff subject.
Then today Adam at lunch was playing footsies.. and i was laughing and stuff when JJ tried making fun of him and started with my other foot COMPLETELY AKWARD btw when Adam stepped on his foot with FULL FORCE like as hard as possible!! Well all I can say is JJ wont do that again =) But the weird things is afterwards, Adam didn't stop. He continued holding me knee.. and playing with my foot. And in reading, he rubs knee\leg and we talked about how waffles are better then pancakes, lipgloss is better then lipstick (haha funny funny!) and if i looked better with or without glasses and he said eitherway..=) And I dont know what it's called but he keeps stepping on my hel when im walking and it kills SOOO much lol and Friday he hurt me and he was like Oh my god im sooo sorry and hasnt done it since.
Well, I didnt want to admit i liked him because he couldve been flirting with me on a bet or date, Ive seen those movie! or to just fuck with me. And I dont wanna make a big deal outa this if he doesnt. I dont wanna look like an idiot.
Well I kinda wrote this is my profile.
So Maybe I Do Talk To Much.
Expecially
About Him.
I might as well go to the tallest mountain..
And Scream It To The World.
"I Can't Lie."
After me and becky Had a talk about how I suck at lieing...
What do I do??
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aww i just love how you described ya flirting it sounds so cute.=]
well from the looks of it he likes you ALOT. I suggest you tell him how you feel,you never know what you could be missing out on.
-hope i helped. =]
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14/f the guy is 16/m.
ok theres this guy who i liked last year & he liked me too. i told him, but he never responded either way.
well i still have a crush on him and i really want to talk to him on MSN because i feel like i really missed something that might have been special..like my first kiss! but i feel like if i pursue him ill be percieved as "clingy". and i feel like i might start something that i wont be able to finish. but i still have feelings for him.
so should i pursue my feelings or just let them die and wonder what couldve happened? (link)
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just pursue your feelings if you dont try u'll always have that "damn i wonder what would have happened if..." in the back of your mind. He probably still likes you is just afraid you moved on.
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ok so i told him how i felt but he got all shy and said ummmmm ok so i was like ok just wanted u to no and left.. hes a mad shy guy so what do i do (link)
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well all you can do right now is wait. you told him and were honest if he doesnt feel the same well he wont do anything about it. if he does he'll defenitly let you know. Give him time to get his emotions together. If ya two are meant to be together it will happen.
- hope i helped.
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what are some kinky things to say to a guy?
anything. (link)
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"You wanna explore my inside?"
"i want to lick you all over"
..well just be creative.
-hope i helped.
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ok so id seen this guy around school and we kind of knew each other just through other people. so i sent him a request on facebook. but rite wen he added me, he sent me a message that just said, wassup. so i messaged him back, and basically our conversation lasted for 2 days, because we both got on and off in between. we werent really talking about anything special, but it was definitely flirting and i was starting to like him. we exchanged numbers and then we started texting A LOT. and at school after our conversation, he would give me hugs and like to always get hugged up with me, but i dont know why. and this was at the beginning of the week and now he doesn't do much. then on facebook he just changed his status to, "will u be mine" and i havent really seen him talking to anyone else so im thinking its me. basically i just want to know what he's feeling about me rite now, but id really want to ask him, bcuz hes the kind of person who would try to avoid me after asking a question like that. what should i do? (link)
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ask him. it seems as he tried to get distant to not make it very obvious, just incase he would get rejected. Just ask him if you havent seen him with anyone else im pretty sure he was refering to you.
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I'm in my 20s. She said she was 20 and is actually 18 and a senior in high school.
Those are the very basic facts.
Now, I'm the kind of person who lying is a big deal to me. Trust overall is a big deal. And people who violate that... lets just say that I may not bring it up, but I will remember this.
I like her. I like spending time with her. But I dont know if I should heed the giant warning sign that is finding out she's still a high school chick (and lying about it) and walk now.
Shes not the only woman I'm seeing at the moment. And no, she doesnt know that.
Risk getting deeper or run away now? What do you think? (link)
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ok she might have lied about her age, but you arent being very honest yourself by seeing other people while seeing her. You dont know the reasons she had to lie about it. I think you should just get past it. I understand you find lying a big deal but im sure she finds cheating a big deal also. Whats best is just to forget about it.
Hope i helped. = ]
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Theres this guy, we'll call him Joe. I've known him for about 3 years and we're not really "close" but we can pretty much talk about anything and enjoy seeing each other. Were both flirty towards each other but we go to different schools now so its not easy to spend time together. I think we both see each other as an potential boyfriend girlfriend, but haven't talked about it at all.
He's conservative and wouldn't be outright "promusicous" I guess you could say. He's had a girlfriend before, but there relationship was pretty conservative as well.
What I'm saying is, how can I get him to make a move? I have a formal coming up, and I'd really like him to go with me, but I dont think he has any idea I like him! What can I do to subtly let him know I'm interested without being too forward and let him know its okay to make a move? (link)
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ask him what does he look for in a girlfriend, just mention the topic. If he's intrested he'll mention qualities you have if so say something like what about me? ..so he will get the idea.
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just let him know how you feel. He may be feeling exactly what you are feeling, you'll never know till you tell him. if he doesnt feel the same its his lost.
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see now a year ago i told him how i felt and he got all quite and shy and was like uhhhhhh okay and was really quite so i was like okay just wanted you to know okay bye and i left so i dont think he likes me too much lol i think he feels he has to because our families are soo close that he needs to be my friend ya no what i mean so i dont know im just confused right now thanks for your help for the first question please if you could help me again that would be soo great thanks again in advance :) (link)
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wow you just described a situation im in. i like you told the person i liked how i felt nd he sarted acting all shy and stuff and it was like i hadnt said anything. Nothing between us changed. So i decided oh if hes not intrested then forget him. I think you should just forget about him, i kno it sounds hard because you clearly stated you love him but if you see him less and avoid him you will eventually forget him. If hes hasnt done anything to show he likes you after a year he not suddenly going to decide to know. If he was really intrested he would have said something like oh i feel that same way. So yeah i highly suggest you try to set your eyes on someone else.
hope i helped = ]
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I have been single for 10 months because my past relationship was with a guy I truely loved but he wasnt willing to devote himself to atleast calling me once a day to talk to me.
I have found this guy that I really like and He recently told me he liked me to. hes really nice, and not like most of the other guys i know. He is rude, he doesnt party much and hes not like most of the guys ive dated. I really like him but for some reason I get really shy around him (which isnt normal). The only thing Im afraid of is that Im going to push him away Like i do with alot of guys and i dont want to do that.
I think i push guys away when the treat me well but i dont understand why.
my question is. How do I try to losten up around him so that he knows i like him and so maybe we could move further and start dating. And how do I not push him away when this starts to happen?
Please help! (link)
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i get what you mean, and your right acting shy will only make him insecure and wonder if you like him, so the best way to show him you like him is flirt with him do things you havent done before. like play with his hair, etc.
hope i helped = )
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)
thanks (link)
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i'll see if i can help = )
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Okay,
i think this guy lets call him Leeroy really likes me! AND I LIKE HIM ALOT!! People ar elike oh he likes you so believe them maybe in omeone else's point of view maybe not. Anyone want to help me?
Well he stares at me alot and our eyes meet. Whenever someone asks oh do you like ashley he blushes like a cherry and he has never sed no but he says i don't know. I use to say goodbye and hug him but then i got shy all of sudden when i found out i liked him so i stopped. Everyday he always kind of waits and sees if i'm going to but he doesn't make it obviouse. Like his friend is by my locker so he goes their and talks to his friend but staring at me. Like he's waiting .. Does he like me? (link)
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yes he likes you and your just makeing him doubt if you like him back by changeing the way u used to hug him before. Just do it again show him you care = ]
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