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make a move


Question Posted Sunday November 11 2007, 12:10 am

Theres this guy, we'll call him Joe. I've known him for about 3 years and we're not really "close" but we can pretty much talk about anything and enjoy seeing each other. Were both flirty towards each other but we go to different schools now so its not easy to spend time together. I think we both see each other as an potential boyfriend girlfriend, but haven't talked about it at all.
He's conservative and wouldn't be outright "promusicous" I guess you could say. He's had a girlfriend before, but there relationship was pretty conservative as well.
What I'm saying is, how can I get him to make a move? I have a formal coming up, and I'd really like him to go with me, but I dont think he has any idea I like him! What can I do to subtly let him know I'm interested without being too forward and let him know its okay to make a move?


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Romance92 answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 10:10 pm:
i say just talk to him and tell him how you feel because most guys like the girl to open up to him and tell him stuff and they like how a ladie will show her independance sometimes they dont but most of the time they do so go for it and you know yall will probaly be together.

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dOMiNiChUlA answered Sunday November 11 2007, 6:20 pm:
ask him what does he look for in a girlfriend, just mention the topic. If he's intrested he'll mention qualities you have if so say something like what about me? ..so he will get the idea.

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just let him know how you feel. He may be feeling exactly what you are feeling, you'll never know till you tell him. if he doesnt feel the same its his lost.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Sunday November 11 2007, 3:59 pm:
Walk up to him.

Grab his head, kiss him.

Tell him that theres more where that came from if he invites you to the dance.

Ive seen this used before. It requires alot of balls to pull off, but it so far has a 100% success rate.

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RealAdvice101 answered Sunday November 11 2007, 1:38 pm:
Well, since this "Joe" character is <big> clueless


well make this easy on him.

you can

1.Get a friend to hint him out
2.Man up and ask him
3.Tell him you like him in a letter/email
4.Sit......and wait............for the rest of your life.

(I'd advise 1-3 lol)

Hope it all goes right.

Ask me for advice ANY time.

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