ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
~please help!~
I think you should dump your boyfriend. If he doesn`t talk to you then whats the point of having him in your life? (but which one do you like more?) But if it was ME in this then i would dump the boyfriend.
good luck!!
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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?
I would not go out with him if i never met him or saw him b4. You dont know who this guy is? if you dont i would not go out with him.
good luck!!
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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again?
Start to flirt with him. Compliment him on stuff. Maybe his hair, his shirt, his colone. something like that. and when he flirts back just keep flirting with him.
good luck!!
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hey..
I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!
Start flirting with him. Ask him how his day is going. Compliement him on something. Maybe like "hey nice shirt, i really like it" or "your hair looks really awsome today" something like that. Make him know that u like him.
good luck!!!
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when ever i talk to a boy, i always talk to them as a friend. when ever i try to flirt i cant. how can i flirt more. what should i say?
Just say "nice shirt, i really like it" or "your hair looks awsome today" something likt that. dont be shy, it can all work out for the best. You might just be talking to boys as friends b/c thats how you feel comfortable talking with them. But if you want to go out with the guy you like and he likes you and if he doesn`t ask you out yet, then i think you should ask him out. I know it sounds hard, but once you do it you`ll be glad you did.
good luck!!
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The summer before my freshman year in college I began dating one of my best friends. This was my first relationship with a woman, and to my knowledge at the time, it was her first as well. We dated for 11 months. I was scared, confused, vulnerable.. She went to school two hours away and we saw each other once a month. It seemed as much as I put her first in my life, I was always a side show to her life. The breakup was awful.
She is now dating my ex-best friend, and they recently moved to Florida to live together. We talk very occassionally, and the conversation consists of her telling me I've changed so much, whereas my other friends tell me I've grown up but not for the worse. She asks if I would date her again if things fell through with the new girlfriend.
How can I let go.. she is no good for me and only brings me down. She is manipulative and is a burden in my life but I am too attached, we have been 'friends' for 7 years. Help...
If you feel you dont need her in your life you dont have to take her back. If she wants to get back with you and you dont want her back just say "no im sry i cant"or "no im not avalible" something like that. If she is just brining you down, you might not be able to study for school (if your the kind of person who gets upset easily). Just tell her you dont want to your you cant.
good luck!!
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Ok, My boyfriend and I got in a fight that got misunderstood and now my Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore... I feel awful!! What should I tell him??? He knows it was misunderstanding but he doesn't belive me!! PLZ HELP SOON!!!
Talk to him. Tell him what really happend. Tell him you really want to stay together with him (if thats what you want to do) Just tell him thw whole truth what really happend. Im sure he will understand.
good luck!
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this guy who likes me and i like him well we haven't gotten into a relationship just yet! but he has been acting weird his attitude is depressing! he use to be all crazy and stuff and now he says he's stressed out1 i wanna do something! what can i do?! any suggestions?
Just say "if there is something you want to talk about you can tell me, i am here. i will listen to you." "you have been acting weired lately and i really want to find out whast wrong with you. Please talk to me, just tell me" something like thats. Just tell him how you feel and it will be all good.
good luck!
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this guy who likes me (Kyle) and i like him well we haven't gotten into a relationship just yet! but there is a rumor that me and another guy (Mark) are going out! and when i see Kyle looking at me when i'm flirting with Mark! and that gets him upset. what do i do? and what if mark does ask me out?! what do i tell kyle?
Well it really depends on who you like more. If you like Kyle more then you can still talk to Mark just dont make it seem like u like him like that. But if you like Mark then just dont make Kyle think you like him like that. But if you are looking for something to tell Kyle if Mark does ask you out (which you dont 'have' to say yes if u donr like him) just say "oh im sorry i cant, maybe next time" or something like that..
good luck!...sry its soo long!
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Some years ago, I really liked this guy . The thing is that now I want to get over him . It was always a game of getting him jealous or making me jealous, and that's so pitiful and childish . I fell into that game cause I have liked, maybe loved, this guy for at least two years . I want to get over him and I am at the door step of doing that . So back to present reality . He has a girl, who he treats bad and all, and I have no one . He follows other girls , pays no attention to the girl he's with, and acts like he has a stick up the @## and it's so annoying me . No one deserves to be treated that way . I can't help but worry if things would've been different or would do the same to me . Guys help me out. What do you think, and why do some guys do this ? He continues the jealousy and looking game and I can't stand it . I want to move on , but somethings keeping me here at the doorstep . I want to be free but I can't fully do it . Why? Oh, please help me . I'll rate truthfully .
I think you should just tell him how he is acting and how you feel about it. Explain to him that its not ok to treat people badly. And if you want him to stop the games just say something like this :"look, i dont want to play these silly childish games anymore, and stop treating people mean and showing off, its just not cool" something like that. And dont be shy to tell him either.
good luck!!
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my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??
-kristi
I think you should go for it. If she cheated on him she must not like him like that. And she said it was ok so i think you should.
sry its so short!
good luck!!
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My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad)
maybe you could give him a picture of you and he can give you a picture of him. I know its not the same like seeing in alot in person but it does help. Maybe you could talk to him on AIM, and you will see him soon.
good luck!!
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my boyfriend got me this really nice watch for christmas and im supposed to be giving him his tommorow but i have no idea what to get him!!! helpp..
what kind of stuff is he into?
maybe you could make him a cd with love/christmas songs, a skatbored, football, a cd he wants, clothes.
you can tell what to get him by his personality.
good luck!!
Happy Holidays!
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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!
Well, if you still want to be with him and he is treating you bad, you can just break up with him but still stay friends. I dont think it is right to go out with a guy who treats you badly. But you can still stay frinds with him like talk to him on the pfone or on AIM or something like that.
good luck!!
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My boyfriend and me have been dating for a month. I was a virgin when we met he was surprised that I was. This weekend there was a party at my friend’s house and I invited him to come with me. We both got wasted and stoned. All night he was asking me to have sex and I kept saying no. I didn’t want to loose my virginity well I was drunk and stoned. I wanted to do it when I was ready as well. When I was in my friend room alone he came in and locked the door behind him again he asked me to have sex I was so drunk at that point I was about to pass out and so I said yes. So now I feel really bad is this a good thing?
Well it really depends. Did you really love this guy enough? I dont know how old you are but maybe it was too early. But whatever feels right, must be right.
good luck!!
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Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!
ask him how his day is going. Or if your in school ask him if you can borrow a pen or something. ask him what sports he likes to play or what kind of things he likes to do. Dont be shy bc he might like you just as you might like him. but to find that out you got to tell him how you feel about him. So i think you should tell him how you feel. (after a few days after you get 2 know him)
good luck!!
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hey i'm goin out with this boy named Orlando and we've been goin out for about 2 months and 2 weeks and i liked him alot for those 2 months but now im not sure if i do anymore...whenever we hang out its like we're friends, not more than that. I've had my friend Chris try to like tell him that i want to hold his hand and stuff and it still doesnt help. i'd get embarassed if i tried to talk to him so i'm not gonna try and talk to him. I kinda want to dump him because if we dont act like we're goin out and we just act like we're friends then i dont see a point in goin out...but i dont know how to tell him. i dont want every one to run up to me after i do it and say "omg you dumped him? why?" and "i cant believe you dumped him!!" and all that stuff...i'd feel totally bad. What should i do? dump him? and if i do dump him how should i say it?
I think you should dump him. If you dont like him you should not go out with him if you dont like him anymore. Some things you can say to break up with him are:
"this is not working out between us, i hope we can be friends" or "i dont think we should go out anymore, hopefully we can be friends" stuff like that.
good luck!!
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I met this guy over the summer from Germany and he is super awesome. I used to like him but now he's like a really really cute brother to me. He's my best friend. My other best friend likes him now and I am getting jealous. Does this mean I still like him or I am just jealous to be jealous.
If you like this guy i think you should tell him that you like him. If your friend likes him too just talk to your friend about it. Im sure she will understand. Its ok to be jealous once and a while. but not all the time! so if you like this guy i think you should tell him.
good luck!!
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okay... i really like this one guy... but whenever i talk to him .. i dont know what to talk about!! i need good things to talk about!!! anything!!...helppp!
ask him what he did today. ask him what sports he likes to play. ask him what his favorite thing to do is. stuff like that. Who know...maybe you 2 will have something in commen.
good luck!!
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well i like this guy...and i guess he sorta likes me... like a little bit... i want him to like me enough to go out with me...how do i do that? how do i tell him i like him? how do i get him to like me moore!! i need hellpp!!
I think you should first get to know him a little bit. ask some of his guy friends what he likes to do (or something like that) then start to flirt with a little bit. Then maybe 4 days later tell him how you feel. just tell him that you like him. Never be afraid to speak up 4 yourself.
good luck!!
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