So I was dating this guy ( we are both 13) and it was going wicked great. Then one day I got a call from one of his friends saying he wanted to break up. Later that night he sent me a instant message saying he was sorry and was hoping we could still be friends I said sure. He asked if I was mad at him and I told him yes. But I don’t know I really wasn’t, I was irritated because just that Friday he had told me he still liked me (something came up and I thought he liked another girl) I sent him one that Monday (that took place on Sunday) and said I was sorry for flipping and yea I hope we can be friends too, but he went on an away message and ignored it completely.. Since then he hasn’t said a word to me. I had said something to him (it was about school, we had to be partners) but he just shook his head. I’ve been really upset since, I’m normally not the kind of girl to cry, but this is the first time this has happened to me and I really can’t help it. I feel unwanted, and I like him so much. I want to go back out with him, but that would be kind of hard because he said he didn’t like me anymore (that’s why he had broken up with me) plus it would be awkward but, as of now I don’t care what its like. Now (I might be a little paranoid) be is flirting with one of his best friend’s girl friends and she is one of those people that would dump her boyfriend for him. She knows I still like him. I talk to her about it, she’s kind of a friend but not best friend. But that doesn’t give her any reason to do this to me, or her boyfriend. I just don’t know what to do. My friends have been understanding and let me talk about it whenever I want but after a while, I have a feeling there going to get tired of this. WHAT DO I DO??? I WANT HIM BACK SO BAD!!! Thank you guys in advance.
Ps. If any guys have any idea what to do I would really appreciate the advice. And the thing I want to know most is how to get him to like me again (I’ll do anything) not that I'm desperate, but I miss him so MUCH!!!
girl im 14 & goin threw the SAMEEEE thing ..
me & jacob broke up in december . ohh my it was HORRIbLE & i mean like BADD ! . i went crazy i missed him so so soo much . so i started 2 [ try]
& get him bac ` you kno like i was callin him everyday askin him did he still like me . messaginng him . commenting him . WATEVER just 2 talk 2 him . but i noticed the morei tryed the farther he seemed . it was because he knew that no matter who he dated he could always come bac 2 me . so then [ & THIS IS VERY HARD ] i hated it !
but i called him less . message & commented less
then finaly i just didnt talk 2 him at all & just
[ acted ] happy with my life . maybe you should try that to .... he wont take me bac hes happy with another girl & it kills me . but now hes starting to talk 2 me more
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I am jealous when my boyfriend goes to hang out with females I can tolerate but dont like. I dont know why or how to tell him that I am jealous without him getting angry with me. I need some advice quick because he will be over to my house in a few minutes and then he is leaving to go hang out with his "friends", who are initally girls. ;x
k ` first you needa kno if you can [ trust ] him because if you cant trust him OFCOURSE your gonna be jelous ` you just have 2 face the fact that yes there will be other girls in his life besides you . but you ALWYS gotta thing [ WHO HAS THE GUY]
YOU :)
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I'm dating this guy named Brandon. He's everything I ever needed in a boyfriend. He puts me before himself and we play these cute games that only we would understand. We sit under the stars late at night and look for shapes in the clouds. The only problem is that I don't feel sexually attracted to him at all. Yes, I know that sex isn't everything. When I have a boyfriend, I'm usually doing whatever I can to be with them, or to cuddle with them, but with Brandon, I push him away sometimes. If that makes sense?
One of mine and Brandon's friends (I'll call him Chris) told Brandon a few days ago that me and him don't seem like we could be more than friends. Chris is like a brother to me, so he knows me very well. That got Brandon thinking, and he almost decided to break up with me. In a way, I wouldn't have cared because I kinda feel that all we'll ever be is just friends. But another part of me doesn't want to lose him because he's the best boyfriend I'll probably ever have. He chose not to break up with me because he's liked me for a long time (at least 3 years) and he doesn't want to throw it all away.
If we ended up breaking up, I'd still consider him one of my best friends, and I know he'd do the same.
What should I do? Stay with him, or break up with him? If I break up with him, how should I do it?
well its funny because you seem to have mixed feelings about brandon . you wanna be with him because you really like him . but then again its kinda borin inna way ? what you should do is maybe yall needa take a break because lets face it . everyone needa a little fun in the relationship ya kno ? & if your not attractive to him like that then what are ya ? taken a break will decide if you really like him or if your better off friends . so if you were to break up with him tell him straight up how you feel , dont hold bac because liein will just make it worst
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i have a friend that i like and she knows i like her but things are getting a little weird should i stay friends with her?
so .. sounds like yall are gettin pretty close ... the best thing to do is to make sure that no matter what yall will always stay friends .. it all depends on how it ends
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okay so ive been bestfriends with this kid for about a year now.. but the problem is hes 11 and im 14. i went out with him before over the summer. and sometimes whenever he flirts with me or talks to me i start liking him again.. and he used to like me a little while ago but i dont think he does anymore but were like really good friends.. last time we broke up because he liked this other girl.. if he does ask me out i dont know if i should say yes to him and trust him this time or say no cause of the age difference? but when i like him i like him a lott! and i think its going to be happening soon and i need advice
please help mee!!!!!
hmmm .. iv been in this before , age really doesnt matter .. its just how much you like him .. think as if he was your age ..
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. About a year ago I found that he had a profile set up on yahoo personals. I had a suspicion that he was messing around because he was always on his computer. I found out too much, chat rooms, web cams, women online, porn sites and profiles on sexually explicit finders sites. I still can't trust him, he said he stopped. I don't know what to do.
ok .. well i mean yeaa its hard to trust sumone and then have them do stuff like that .. yeaa i understand why ur upset but i mean if you wanna continue to be with him and trust him let him kno that it bothered you and if he sed that he stopped that stuff then believe him because if he loves you like he says he does then he wouldnt lie to you but follow your heart .. it never lies to youuu
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15/f.
first off i'd like to say that im not like those girls that look for guys online that say they love them but only want one thing.. sex.
k so i have a major problem. theres this guy i love sooo much.. his names Robin. well Robin and i haven't met.. yet. he was gonna come down not to long ago but family stuff came up. but now.. a new guy named Marc has came into my life but i havent met him yet either.. but i met him through a friend.. and him and i are hanging out during the week. well Marc said that he could see himself with me in the future.. i said that exact same thing. but like i love Robin so much and i dont know what to do.
but heres the scoop:
ROBIN - i've known him(online and telephone) for over 3 years now. he loves me. i love him. we say we're gonna marry one anotehr lol. i dont want to break his heart... again.. by being with someone else.
MARC - ive know him for not even a month. he says im amazing and that he could see himself with me. but i dont want his heart broken either.
PLEASE HELP ME!
all you can rely on in this situation is to follow your heart & stay on the path that it tells you .. you may think its the wronge choice at 1st ` but your heart NEVER lies to you .. & yea its gonna be hard to turn down the other , but you cant go on forever makin everyone else happy .. you always put your self FIRST before anyone
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I'm 15/f and I've never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. I'm getting alomst to da point of desperation. Any advice? How do I get dudes to do that? Is it wierd that I've neva been kissed? Thxxxx
well you be your self and dont hold back . let them kno how you feel and dont be scared .. take it frum experience its ALOT easier for you to make the first move because 99% of the time the guy is sitting there wating for you to make the first move . ! dont worry we all have been in ur possition ! but things will get better and dont give up !!
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