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Neva Been Kissd


Question Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 6:03 pm

I'm 15/f and I've never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. I'm getting alomst to da point of desperation. Any advice? How do I get dudes to do that? Is it wierd that I've neva been kissed? Thxxxx

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MummuM answered Friday December 8 2006, 12:19 pm:
Lots of people your age haven't had their first first kiss or first boyfriend yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first kiss or first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 13 and some even only have their first kiss or boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss or had your first real boyfriend, yet. You're only 15, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends and kisses, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy and you'll get your first kiss. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.

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Daimeera answered Friday December 8 2006, 11:53 am:
If it's any comfort, I'm 20, I've never been kissed, and I've never even been asked out on a proper date.

There's no rush to be with someone. You want to experience your first kiss with someone you really care about, because it's the only time you'll be able to HAVE a first kiss. You want it to be special, or at least I would.

I know at times it feels like everyone else is ahead of you, and that you're missing out on something, but ultimately, it's just a kiss. It doesn't change who you are. It doesn't make you any more or less mature. It's just lips on lips for a moment or two.

So, as frustrating as it may seem, just remember that it will happen when it's the right time, and try and relax and be yourself! The more desperate you look, the more you'll scare away the guys who won't take advantage of you. ;0)

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cheerbabyyy answered Thursday December 7 2006, 11:10 pm:
well you be your self and dont hold back . let them kno how you feel and dont be scared .. take it frum experience its ALOT easier for you to make the first move because 99% of the time the guy is sitting there wating for you to make the first move . ! dont worry we all have been in ur possition ! but things will get better and dont give up !!
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JaneSays138 answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:33 pm:
First off honey NO! its not strange at all that you've never been kissed! its precious and guyz like a girl who repsects herself. So please dont enter that point of desperation. just remeber... Putting out doesnt get you love! lol but you need to find a guy you can be compatible and cute with. maybe even just peck him on the cheek being cute and then it can turn into a full blown love passion kiss session! you never know! so just wait for that special guy...take it slow.. and always have a "back-up" crush to fall back on in case your crush now for some reason doesnt work.

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ilOV3YOU14 answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:32 pm:
its perfectly fine if you've never had a boyfriend or never kissed but if you really want to find a guy that you know is good for you and just tlak to him maybe the 3 time you guys talk flirt a little thats how most girls get their guy is by flirting but you can't be annoying if you need help on flirting read maga. or ask your friends

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