Member Since: December 4, 2006
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I don't know what category this would go in, so forgive me if it's in the wrong category.
Let's call my friend Jane.
And let's call her boyfriend John.
Okay, well, Jane and John, who were in 11th grade at the time, decided to have sex one day and Jane ended up pregnant. It just so happens, I liked John a lot, but I knew that Jane loved him with all her heart. Now Jane is talking about how hard it is being a mother of a 5-month-old and stuff. It's sort of making me jealous.
I'm just afraid that I'm going to go have sex with some guy I don't even like to have a baby and see what it's like.
So, my question is, Is there any way I can see how hard it is being a teen mother without actually having to go through the pregnancy? Like, not like one of those psycho baby doll things people do in middle school, but like, staying with someone who has a newborn baby or something to convince me I don't want a baby? Or should I just have a baby and get it over with?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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it just so happens i have a friend who was 15 when she had her baby. the baby is 4 months old so we are kinda in the same pool right now girl! my friend who is now a mother is my absolute best friend. her baby is in a way my baby too because i help her out alot. you should do thatfor your friend too. hang out with her alot and offer to feed and change the baby maybe even babysit and stuff. i know i got those baby blues too i thought i would look cute pregnant! but i realised that i want to be happily married wheni have my child with the one and only i will love. if you have a baby now you must realize you would be growing up extrmemly fast and losing your childhood. its not to just have sex with some guy your worth a million more than that. if you respect yourself others will highly respect you too.
best wishes darling
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all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle and not a helecopter (it can be both) but they his little friend joined in the fight and THEN the little bitch told me to shut up because I was annoying! it all started when the little booger wanted to play my brother's PS2, and I was watching tv, and these little twerps wouldnt stop making fun of me, and THEN my brother's little friend told said "Brittany told me your a dork" (he said it to me before, but when I asked Brittany, she said it wasnt true because she dosnt tell her brother ANYTHING) and im starting to think that everything everyone is saying is true.... I dont know why everyone is so mean..... I have dreams, but there crushed under the feet of my stupid brother, and CJ, and my sister Hollan, and EVERYONE! Hollan wont stop taking my stuff that little brat! Im a triplet, and my sisters have always been telling me "Thats why WE have boyfriends" and I havent gone out much, but my first bf was a fony... He asked his friend to ask my SISTER, Cher out..... but he accidently asked ME out instead, and I said YES! WHat was I thinking???? Well im really in a bad mood right now because today was also the day my dad made me do the dishes and he's not even getting the two little boys into trouble! its just me! Just because Im the older kid, dosnt mean that he shouldnt care about ME.
My family is soooooooo horibble... Me and my brother and sisters fight all the time, sometimes my mom even crys about it. But my sisters are bad people... They sneak out and stuff like that, and it makes me mad because they think their nold enough to have sex and all that (but I dont know if they have done it yet) but their the kind of people that think they get every boy they want... and the truth is.... they do... they get all the boys, and Im stuck inside.... Just today, I came outside and Hollan's all like "Go the fuck away! No one wants you here" and I just came out there to hang out with her friend Ali....
Everyone treats me like SHIT! I even bought my sister HOllan a $40 jacket at American Eagle Outfitters.... AND SHE'S STILL AN ASS!!!!!
(im not trying to brag) but Im a nice person! I dont like to be mean! I dont like to make people cry! But no matter how nice I am to people, they are always mean to me! THey call me names like dork, nerd, geek, and my sister even calles me a prude! It really makes me mad...
I remember I got in a huge fist fight with my sister Hollan on the front Lawn, and Monae and Ali and ANika were all watching and they didnt bother to do anything! I have been picked on my whole life and im too nice to do anything about it! I mean I usually dont fight back because I know I'll lose.... I always lose.....
I dont know what to think of myself now..... (link)
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hey you!! you seem alot like me. its nice to know someone i can relate to. listen to me---you need to learn to NEVER put YOURSELF down. you are your own hero and your own PERSON. you can talk to you about anything! think about it! your your own best friend and so that settles that. give yourself credit and praise yourself once in a while! maybe more! now as for the ugly part---i know how that is too. sometimes i look in my mirror and think damn i think i look pretty--but it seems whenever i look in another mirror everything changes to u-g-l-y. we both need to stop with that. if we think we are pretty thats all that matters! you look how you feel. and if you have 2 TWIN sisters and your outter beauty is the same well then you have nothin to worry about with outside appearence but outside apearence doesnt matter. its your mind and soul that do. think optimistically and say "no worries" ask yourself about lil problems if it will all matter when you die or when you go to colledge. usually it doesnt unless youve killed someone...anyways lol with the family--if your family is close enough to fight like you do thats kinda good in a way--you guys can epress yourselves but dont forget to say "i love you" with your family coz ya know fighting doesnt really matter dont sweat the small stuff. there is always someting good and something better to come. everything happens for a reason and NEVER LET ANYONE GET YOU DOWN ON YOUR DREAMS. TACKLE YOUR DREAMS AND MAKE THEM WORK. go step by step and say "forget you" to anyone who tries to stand in your way!. i hoped i helped you you seem like an awsum person and i can relate to everything you said. bob marley helped me get through some tough times :) . music is a great therapy.
"dont let the bastards get you down!"
:) thats a quote i heard once but it comes in handy!
best wishes girl
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so i have been dating this guy named santiago for about a month now and he is an exchange student from mexico. This guy named zach and him were supposed to be doing the science project with me and my bff morgan but instead they were looking at half naked girls(in like skimpy bikinis)on the computer and i got mad at him and didnt talk to him for the rest of the day and then when he got off the bus he just walked right past me without even saying goodbye i almost cryed.Then on the last day of school he wasn't there so i never got to see him so the girl that he lives with that is one of my friends asked me if i was mad at him and i said well im not anymore can you tell him i say sorry and she said yes but i havent talked to him or heard anything from him yet so ya. He leaves in the second semester and i dont know if i should stay with him or ask him if we could just be friends?
what should i do?
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i know how you feel with the hurt that comes with being ignored by the one you care for (when he walked by you and didnt say anything) perhaps he did not know what to say or was afraid to say anything. guys usually bottle up their emotions instead of expressing them in a smart matter (like us women do :) but thats probably why he didnt say anything. maybe you should try calling him and talking things over saying "look we got in a fight but this is ridiculous we have to talk this over" if you guys were in a relationship you should be able to talk with no barrier in the way---if there is a barrier (and it seems like there is one now) perhaps you should end the relationship. it might be for the better since he is moving away anyway. just remeber everything happens for a good reason. be optimistic and have no worries!
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ok well i have a gf i really really like and this christmas i want to get her something she will never forget money is not really an issue at least if were not talking hundreds of dollars.and well i really want to get her something that will be nothing like she has ever got. she has asked for a bunch of diff prefumes and lotions and stuff but yea ne ideas of what i could do ?
o and on christmas im gonna finnaly tell her that i lover her cuz im not one of those guys that says it the second day after we start going out i wait till i mean it but yea im gonna tell her on christmas im gonna wait for the right moment then wisper it into her ear(this is way of topic but i want to know what ppl think of that good idea or not) (link)
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AAWWWW that is amazing. I disagree with one other person's answer though. I think your idea is GREAT! you should tell her you love her any way you want to. The whispering is so romantic and meaningful. she will feel like the luckiest girl on earth! (she probably is with a boyfriend like you!) and i also think that blanket idea was great too (which was another perosns answer lol) also another great gift would be her favorite flower(s) and inside one of the flowers a ring of her birthstone or favorite color. it would be 2 great loving gifts and a very impressive presentation of the gift. good luck and happy holidays!
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I'm 15/f and I've never kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. I'm getting alomst to da point of desperation. Any advice? How do I get dudes to do that? Is it wierd that I've neva been kissed? Thxxxx (link)
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First off honey NO! its not strange at all that you've never been kissed! its precious and guyz like a girl who repsects herself. So please dont enter that point of desperation. just remeber... Putting out doesnt get you love! lol but you need to find a guy you can be compatible and cute with. maybe even just peck him on the cheek being cute and then it can turn into a full blown love passion kiss session! you never know! so just wait for that special guy...take it slow.. and always have a "back-up" crush to fall back on in case your crush now for some reason doesnt work.
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i'm in ninth grade and i started my period in 6th grade. i still haven't used a tampon yet. i know people that just started their period, like, a week ago and they are already using a tampon. i guess i'm kind of scared to put it in.. i tried a couple times, but didn't go through with it. should i just suck it up and do it? does it hurt? is there any chance that i, like, won't be able to put it up there? i'm just scaredddd. any advice? (link)
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well dear you should tell your mom! she should definetly help you with that. if you dont live with or mother or what have you ask another trusted female guardian or authoritive figure. ya know someone your close too. you should start with a small size and read the directions on the box VERY carefully. TSS or Toxic Shock Syndrom can be deadly. (its when you leave the tampon in too long.) its a natuaral womenly thing and tampons are much much MUCH easier and much less messy than pads. Good Luck darling!
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