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we get in fights but i love him
so i have been dating this guy named santiago for about a month now and he is an exchange student from mexico. This guy named zach and him were supposed to be doing the science project with me and my bff morgan but instead they were looking at half naked girls(in like skimpy bikinis)on the computer and i got mad at him and didnt talk to him for the rest of the day and then when he got off the bus he just walked right past me without even saying goodbye i almost cryed.Then on the last day of school he wasn't there so i never got to see him so the girl that he lives with that is one of my friends asked me if i was mad at him and i said well im not anymore can you tell him i say sorry and she said yes but i havent talked to him or heard anything from him yet so ya. He leaves in the second semester and i dont know if i should stay with him or ask him if we could just be friends?
what should i do?
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You can't have a relationship without fights. It is just a part of being in a relationship. If you strongly like and/or love him then I think you should stay in the relationship because in the end it will be worth it. But if you don't "really" like him 100% then maybe you should move on and see what its like to just be friends.
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I think you should ask him to just be friends, since he is leaving 2nd semester & he seem`s pretty mean, because if he really cared for you he wouldn`t of had walked past you with out saying anything, he could of atleast said "bye, i`ll see you tomorrow" or something like that. Or you can just talk to him and see how he reacts, & if it seems like he still has feelings twoards you, then you should give him a shot. But if I were you I wouldn`t want to get to close to him since he is leaving soon & you are going to miss him, terribly. But Good Luck && I hope Everything works out! =) ♥
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i know how you feel with the hurt that comes with being ignored by the one you care for (when he walked by you and didnt say anything) perhaps he did not know what to say or was afraid to say anything. guys usually bottle up their emotions instead of expressing them in a smart matter (like us women do :) but thats probably why he didnt say anything. maybe you should try calling him and talking things over saying "look we got in a fight but this is ridiculous we have to talk this over" if you guys were in a relationship you should be able to talk with no barrier in the way---if there is a barrier (and it seems like there is one now) perhaps you should end the relationship. it might be for the better since he is moving away anyway. just remeber everything happens for a good reason. be optimistic and have no worries!
<3 best of wishes to you.
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