im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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i am 15/f and i am totally confused about this guy. He is a good friend of mine and i have liked him for a few months now. recently i feel like there might be something, we have always talked a lot and he helps me out and i have leaned my head on his shoulder quite a few times, and he gives me really nice goodbye hugs. the thing is that he is my age and isn't very experienced with girls, so i can imagine that he doesn't know what he is doing, neither do i really. sometimes he is around a lot and sits next to me and other times he doesn't. How would talking and leaning your head on his shoulder look to a guy if you were just friends with a guy? by not sitting next to me, is he seeing if i will move closer to him or what? i am just very confused as to what this guy is feeling, and would like an honest opinion on what he thinks and what i should do.
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get him to watch the notebook. it put it all in prospective for me:)
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okay.. so like this guy and i have been pretty much friends with benefits since like february.. i really like him and he says he really likes me..he jsut had surgery like 3 weeks ago and when he came back to school he kept saying he missed me so much and he just wanted to spend time with me.. well we went out and all then he was like i just wanted you to know i have been thinkin about you a lot and i really wanna date now.. so i said okay..then like later we were joking around and he said it was over..his reason was because he doesnt want to get in trouble because he thinks its illegal because hes 17 and im 14.. so is it illegal??? cuz i would kinda like to know.... i mean i dont even know if he actually likes me... please help!!!! (link)
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that is legal. there is nothing illegal with a 3 year difference. also (i've looked into it) even if you were 11 (which would be sick) and he were 17, as long as your parents approved of it, your allowed. i'll be dead honsest, when a guy changes his mind alot (like it seems here), he likes you, but not for the right reasons. normally, the only reason a 17 y/o guy would date sum1 thats 14, is to take advantage of her. sometiomes there is a love conection, but not here.
CHAD'S HONEST ADVICE- leave him. i got a girls name tattooed on me once, and we were on and off breaking up and going out. it's not worth the trouble. no matter how good the person looks, it's all about how they treat you. if they treat you with respect, try it. but it really dosnt sound like this guy wants a serrious relationship going on.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. Things are great but.. things feel the same all the time and i want to get that new, bubble feeling back. So.. i guess my question here is.. how do i keep things going? Keep them fun and happy? (link)
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my girlfriend and i try more spontanias stuff (i'll tell you now, sex in public is not all it's made out to be lol), like just doing what we feel like... i mean...depends on how old you are to...do you have a car (or acces to 1)? try just ttaking random drives. i dono...if your a sexual person, try going 2 a movie theatre, sitting in the back, and see what's the most you can do with out disturbing other people, lol!
if your not into that,try making music together... teaching, and learning from each other is a great experince when your in a relation ship...
my girlfriend and i are going on our first trip together...we're going 2 colorado and im gunna teach her to snowboard, and she's gunna teach me how to...well...anyways...just randomly do stuff...i hope i helped
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i just found sumthang on my boyfriends zanguh that was telling a gurl he knew that he loved her more that anything or anyone!!! im feeling really stupied for going out with him rite now and i dont no what to do and im not shure but it kinda sounds like hes cheating on me but im not shure so plz gimme advice i need it really badly!!!
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how did you find out about it? if it's from some 1 else, you might wanna talk to him about it. he'll deny it if he did, but then (if you know who it was) ask the girl. she might deny it as well. but if you hear it from more than one person, then just break up with him. it's not worth the trouble.
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
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just straight up tell him that it's getting a little bit too far or going a little too fast (which ever fits). when a guy hears this, you can almost expect a reaction, so you have to be prepared for it. he might flip out, he might cry...who knows? but ne ways, you need to tell him what you feel ASAP! the longer you hold of, the harder it's gunna be on the both of you.
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This is... kind of odd, I suppose.
Please only read this is you are female.. and know what you are talking about?
I'm 13. I've had my... yeah...
But I've never liked a guy. Ever. Been kissed. Wanted to kiss. Never had a crush or a boyfriend or anything.
I have no interest in girls, either. Nothing.
I'm not shy around boys or girls.
What's up with me? :/ (link)
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ok...i know you said dont read it if your a guy, but...being a guy...if you say that, that's gunna make a guy curious.
there's nothing wrong with you. my parent's r both doctors, and step-mother is an expert in development in teenagers. my girlfriend (before we were dating) had this going on in her life as well...most girls do. it's just that some devolope there "raging hormone's" for guy's earlier than others. give it some time. your best bet is to just focus on school, and soon enough a guy will come along, and you'll have the butterflies in your stomach.
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Hi,
Today a friend of mine invited a guy i sorta like over to her house. He always says he likes me. But he is sort of a sexual guy...he said hes had sex about 3 times...
ok so were watching a movie and he moved in for a kiss... i kissed him and it lasted for a while. But while he was kissing me he sorta went half way up my shirt and then he started kissing my neck...
i had no idea how to kiss him i kind of messed up and he moved away, and then came back.
ifelt really extremely unconfertible....
and now hes askin me to be his gf...and i dont know what to say because what if we do go out and he always wants to touch me? i dont want to break his heart because i like him...but i really do feel unconfertible when we kissed.
what should i do, should i go out with him?
-toubled 13 year old (link)
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your not gunna break this guy's heart. if he's had sex 3 times, and is already making moves on you before your "going out", that's all he wants. i garatee you, if you go out 2 the movies or somethin, and when he starts kissing you, tell him not to kiss yoiu cuz your not feeling like it...if he really wants you, he'll stop. if he just wants sex...he'll get mad...
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14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high (link)
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honestly, you shouldn't ask a question like that on here, or some ass like meeshee will come along and say stupid s***.
yea. if they right guy comes along, he's wont care. he might not be exactly what YOU are looking for, but a guy WILL like you. you have to be patient.
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So I’m engaged to be married in one year. I was raised Christian and although I don’t go to church or anything any more my I do still believe. My fiancé is an atheist. It’s really important to me (and to my family) to get married in the church but he says that would be ‘compromising his beliefs’ and doesn’t want to. I don’t care if we never step foot in a church again but my uncle is a priest and I can’t tell him that he can’t preside over my wedding! I’ve always known and respected that we don’t feel the same way about religion but I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy but I don’t know what to do about the wedding. Any advice? (link)
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it's odd that this was asked, as i was in church function about dating. and the biggest thing with christian dating (as you should live in the eyes of god), the worst possible situation you can be in, is dating an atheist. a non-christian is one thing, but it's even harder with atheist's. well... the only thing you can do is hope that he realizes the truth-your in this world. what is there to lose if you believe in god? if you dont believe, you go to hell, no matter whta, but as long as you believe, there is an alternative.
about the church thing- it's almost a matter between chosing between your uncle/family, and this guy. of coarse, you can't force it into him, but if he doesnt wind up changing, reality is; he'll change you into one, or you'll change him. it's a big chance. just put thought into it, and think ahead. make a list of good and bad things that you can do, and make a list of options (and their out come,) i hope this helped you at least a little bit.
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I am a seventeen year old female and I am in love. What is the problem with this, you may ask? I shall tell you. The man I love is 7.5 years my senior (he's 25) and he lives in another continent. He says that he loves me as well, but I'm not sure how to make this relationship work. Can a 17 year old and a 25 year old really make it? Especially with him being so far away... He says he may move here in December, however, but then what? My parents would never approve and I crave their approval like I crave oxygen. I am at a loss. I don't really know what I'm asking, quite frankly, and I won't be surprised if no one replies. I suppose I'm just looking for opinions. Thanks. (link)
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im not gunna give you the answer the other smart a$$'s gave. it moght not be what you wanna here, but it's true.
long distance is obviously harder. almost all of us have had them, and we know that you have to put extra effort into it. the thing about your parent's is really understandable.
exaple- i'm a 16 year old guy, and my girl friend doesn't live far away, but her dad won't let us see each other, cuz i snuck her out of the house. your probably thinking, "what does that have to do with my question?".
it doesnt matter if the person lives over sea's, or 2 block's away. parents are parents. they're just concerned about tour well being. but if your in love, they have to accept that, and the day your 18, they'll have to live with it. it might be hard, but you have to tell them how you really feel about this guy, and that you seek their aproval, and they need to give you a chance with it. that's really all i can say. i hope my advice helped, at least a little bit.
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my boyfriend of a few months says that whenever he tries to get 'close' to me... i back away, or .. idk, i just seem like i dont want to. Ill admit that i do that sometimes.. and i have no idea why.. hes so amazing and i dont want him to think i dont appreciate and like him because of my insecurities or whatever's wrong with me... i need advice on how to fix the way i do things... and not be so unafectionate.. thanks (link)
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it really all depends. if you refer to him "getting close" to you, you mean physicly, and you back away, that's not really a bad thing.
for exaple-im a 16 year old guy, and i'll say, i love being close to my girlfriend. but to be honest, before i was with her (all the people i used to date) they gave me what i wanted, easily. and that's unheathy, because it makes the guy want more and more, then he winds up not liking you anymore. my current girlfriend limited her self with me(physicly), and i figured out that i truely love her.
all in all, what your doing is a good thing. if he breaks up with you for this (you backing away), then he doesnt really like you. but, if you've been going out 4 a ferw months...start lightning up a lil bit. let him hold you. dont really start...well...giving in, unless you REALLY know that he loves you, and you love him. i hope you understand what im saying.
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okay, so im 13. and i weight a lot. i mean like a lot. but i dont look like it. i am kind of chubb-ish though. ive never had a boyfriend. and i dont really want one. i just want to find one that will treat me right from the start and one that truely likes me. i just dont feel like that will ever happen. & i also want guys to just see me as more than a friend. i dont know. i guess i just want guys to like me for who i am. & thats hard at my school. especially since its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts. please help me!! i need it! (link)
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ok, on the contrary to what some 1 else said, not ALL guy's are shallow. im not.
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if your giving someone head should you spit or swallow? if you do spit like how and where would you go? (link)
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depends, im a guy, and i really donnt care if my girlfriend spits, or swallows...she spits most of the time, cuz besides STD's (which i dont have) seman cant be too healthy for you...but i guess...coming from me, i dont care
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okay.. im only 12 and me and my boyfriend have been ating for 2 and a half years.. and like we kiss ALL THE TIME but WE dont french kiss .. and i like really wanna french kiss him but i just dont know if he wants to ...what should i do :( Thanks !!!
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just look serriously look into his eyes, and do what everyone else has told you to do. lightly start moving your tongue in his mouth.
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