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Ok. my bf and i have been together for over a year. and well, now that we've gotten so close he's started to let his manners and thoughtfulness slide. example: the other day i was asking him to take me out for dinner to celebrate how long we've been together, and he just blew me off and told me i wasnt that important and we could just eat sandwiches at home. and i have an inclination that he might be cheating. i was looking at his text messages the other day, and some girl ( im not going to say her name) has been texting him talking about her sexual desires with him. and when i confronted him about it he slapped me and told me i was a nosy bitch. ugh i know i should dump him and move on, but i really and truly care for him. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had that i've actually loved.
what should i do? (link)
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if he got that upset about you going through his phone, then chances are there's something going on.
I understand it's hard to just walk away from a year long relationship like that, where you really care about him, but it's time to do what's right for you. I can assure you, from what you've said, that he is not the right guy for you..you deserve so much better than that. and you never know, you could break it off and him realize after a little while how stupid he was and he could become a better person because of it.
but right now, you need to get away from him..right now it may just be a slap, but if you let it slide, the abuse will only get worse.
Be strong,stand your ground, and good luck!
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Well, I know that rebounding is no good, but I made the mistake of rushing into something :/. Yesterday I found out my ex boyfriend was out with this girl that he used to like (and who i know he likes now) and just hearing this made me break down. I knew I had to talk to someone, so I ended up talking to this guy who I have always had a thing for. On the phone I told him what I found out and how I felt sad and he kind of cheered me up. Then out of nowhere I told him that even though I'm not over my ex, I kind of like him! Ahh so today at school I was hanging out with my ex and my friend. My friend has a class with the guy I like so I asked her if he said anything...but my ex was confused and when I told him he seemed to change his mood. :/ I didn't think I was hurting his feelings because he flat out told me to move on because he doesn't see me as anything but a friend. My question is, was it a bad idea to tell him? Should I never bring up guys in front of him??
P.S. The guy who I like told me that he likes someone at the moment, so it didn't work out.
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He probably got a little jealous 'cause he didn't think you were going to move on so quick.
But you shouldn't feel bad at all for telling him! He went out with a girl, so you can talk to any guy you want!
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i have a "thing" if thats what you want to call it with this guy, we've known each other for like 5 years now. i'm 19f.
i'm a huge flirt .. but i need new things to do because i always feel like i do dumb things. lets say a guy taps your butt gently, what would you do? i panic and smile and say "doooont ;)" but i mean come on.. that may give him the wrong impression i dont like it, right?
i can't really think of anything right now but usually if he will playfully touch me i'll panic and laugh a little and be like "stop:)!"
but i'm done with that childish stuff.. what can i do back to him?? (link)
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When he does stuff like tapping your butt and stuff like that, just playfully say "hey, I can get rough too!" and then tap his back.
or like "I'm not gonna lie..I kinda liked that ;]"
lol, just have fun with it :]
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Okay, I've been hanging out with one of my new friends Corey, and I like him ALOT. & He knows too. But I'm not sure if he likes me back. He dated one of my best friends, ( and she's okay that I like him ) and she chills with us all the time. She dated him for a very short period of time, but he didn't tell her he liked her or anything. A friend just hooked em up? I don't know if I should get her to help us? Or should I just ask him hows he feel? Or what? I'm really confused. Thanks in advanced(: (link)
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If he already knows that you like him, and he hasn't made it obvious that he likes you back, by flirting and/or actually telling you, then he might be avoiding the situation because he doesn't feel the same way.
So keep that in mind so you don't get your hopes up too much and just ask him!
keep your friend out of it and just bring it up casually to him one day while ya'll are hanging out.
Good luck, hope I helped.
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errm this may be a weird question [:
but i really wanna turn on this guy who sits next to me in one class.
what are some gestures that turns guys on?
like i dont mean stuff to say but things i can do, not to him but like ways to sit etc.
haha thankies(: (link)
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one thing you'll learn is that just about anything can turn a guy on, even if you're not trying to. lol
but, flirting in a sexual way, biting your lip, touching his leg, bending over in front of him,etc.,etc.,etc.
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Hello everybody! Does anyone have any ideas of places you can hang out for free? It would be nice if they were fun places. :) What about ideas for free things to do when we go out?
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you could have a picnic in the park!
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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I agree with the person before me.
Plus, usually it's all good when you spend all your time together for the first several months, but then it starts becoming a burden on both people, and you don't want that! so let her have fun with her friends, and you go spend time with yours!
It will make for a much simpler and healthier relationship..I
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we've been on and off for a while now. almost a year. and 7 times out of 10, we're on. right now, we're on, but just not official. i guess neither of us just wanna be under the pressure of having a social nametag saying "girlfriend/boyfriend" over our heads. well, he doesnt. i wouldnt care. anyways.
lately it seems like i'm the backup plan. neither of us can drive yet, and we're both 17. hes getting his license in about a month. and so all we really do is i go over to his house and we hang out in his room or hangout outside. the sex is nonexistent, since we're never alone, but we do what we can. so i can see how having his guyfriends come pick him up and going to providence would appeal more to him, especially if hes bored. but its getting to where i only see him twice a week, or less. we used to see eachother at least 3 or 4 times a week. but now i'm going to public school and hes homeschooled and so i cant see him during the weekdays, and hes always out with his friends on the weekends. i want him to get it through his head that he would have all week to hang out with his other friends, and that id like to see him on the weekends,...but i dont want to seem possessive, since we're not official. like, as far as everyone else knows, even our closest friends, we're still single.
how do i talk to him? what do i say? WHEN would i say it, since i dont know when the next time is i'm going to see him? (link)
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Just tell him how you feel, but try not to get on his case about, just say it in the "I miss you and would really like to spend more time together" kind of way.
If he feels the same about you, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's still kind of pushing you to the side after he gets his license, though, I would rethink whether he's the right guy or not..
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im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. We have been dating for a little over one and a half years and honestly our relationship is really special. I know im in love with him, this isnt some little high school thing and we both could seriously see ourselves getting married in the future, but we havent seriously talked about it, just a few thoughts we had. So, about a month before the one year anniversary, he asked my mom what my ring size was. She didnt tell me, but when i saw her take my ring out of my room, bc she didnt know the size, i asked her and then she told me chris askd for it. so i thought he was going to give me a promise ring, you know? so hes had my ring since then, and i forgot about it for a little while until i was looking through the pictures and saw me wearing the ring. I really dont want to bring it up, but i was just asking on what you think of the matter. Why would he ask for my ring size if hes not planning on giving me a ring? and if he did get me the ring, why hasnt he given it to me? do you think hes having second thoughts or something? I know hes not using me, im planning on waiting until marriage for sex, nad we talked about it and hes fine with that. He is definitely not cheating on me, and we see each other almost every night and i see him in school every day. I just dont know what to think about this. I couldnt get it out of my head for like 2 months and now its in my head again. please, tell me what you think, girls and guys opinions. thankyouu :) (link)
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If I had my guess, I'd say that he is getting you a ring but he wants it to be a total surprise, so who knows, he could give it to you for christmas, or he might be planning on proposing when you turn 18.
either way, I don't think he forgot or changed his mind, he's just thinking in advance:]
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okay, i keep this short and sweet. He wanted to talk, whilst talking i got mad and walked away, thereby 'ending the relationship'. That night he emailed me apologizing. i said i couldn't decide. i waited too long to say anything and he took it as an apology unnaccepted. His friends say he likes someone else now, but he says he still loves me. Is it too late for me to tell him i want him back? Should i wait for him to start talking to me first, or should i shoot him off an email right this second?
XXXOOO
Lonley_girl
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If you want to be with him, then what are you waiting for?? He obviously wants to be with you and still cares about you, so go for it! He's probably too scared to say anything to you because you might reject him. So you need to tell him how you feel before it's too late! Good luck!!
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So, last night I was at a party without my boyfriend. My boyfriend was home sick, actually, and he said I should totally go to the party anyway without him. Well, I ended up giving this really hott guy a blowjob. My friend was totally telling me that my boyfriend was going to dump me because I was giving another guy head. Is giving someone else a blow job cheating? I haven't told my boyfriend because now I'm afraid he's going to get mad and break up with me. I don't want him to dump me. So, what is the definition of cheating in a relationship? Did I cheat? Should I tell him? (link)
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yes, you cheated. and yes, you need to tell him.
Just put yourself in his shoes..how would you feel about it if he ate some girl out at a party and never told you..or if you found out from some other person at the party?
The most mature and honorable thing you can do is tell him straight up and deal with whatever consequences that brings.
Good Luck!
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ok i always talk about how i want kids right now.. and im 17 female and my bf is going to be 18. he told me at least wait til im 18 so our parents cant tell us anything cause they already tell us stuff and were both still virgins! so they just act stupid! well anyways i have a baby brother that is going to be 4 in december..everytime he is around when my boyfriend is wich is like every single time! my boyfriend gives him like 98% of his time and attention wile i only get like 2%. it super sucks and ive already tried talking to him abotu it. and he says well hes a kid he needs attention too!
well when my baby brother is with me and were by ourselves hes all nice and loving and cute! then once he gets with me and my boyfriend of almost 11 months then hes all mean to me and stays in his arms the entire time! and he bees mean to me so i be mean back then my bf starts telling me crap. well he never fails to mention.. "and u want kids? you cant even handle your own baby brother" and i say well its cause hes my brother! its suposed to be like that. any other kid i can. he doesnt believe me. but when i try to be nice and sweet to my baby brother to show him my baby brother keeps acting up with me. so its super hard. what can i do to prove to him i can handle kids. i want them id be a good mom, and i want to live my life with him and our future kids?! someone please help me. (link)
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I have been where you are about really wanting a baby, even though your young, and I cannot stress enough how important it is to wait. If it happens on accident, then that's one thing and you can get through it and be a good parent. But don't purposely bring a child into a world where you don't even have an education to get a good job for them, it's not fair to them, or you.Go live your life and have fun and be a teenager and figure out who you want to be, then have a family and I promise you it will be worth the wait.
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