Holla, My name is Heather
I am 15 and in 9th grade and i go to school at Ferndale High School. I love to talk on the phone and comp, hang out with friends and of course give advice. I am a cheerleader, takes dance at school, volleyball player. I am single and looking right now. If u wanna know some thing u can im me on aim or msn or yahoo or email me.
E-mail: troubleinventor@hotmail.com
Location: j-town
Occupation: student at Ferndale Area Jr/Sr high school
Age: 15
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Member Since: October 20, 2004
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i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do? (link)
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i would do is just keep talkin to him to make sure that he knows that u are still instreasted in him but just tell him that friends would be better for now
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my names Sue n Im 16... me n a friend John were planning on having sex... n everything for a while now... well I think we are acctually going to do it soon... but I dont know if I should shave there or not.... should I?
I know this probably sounds so bad but im just trying to get anothers girl opinion instead of telling my mom! thnks (link)
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well it depends on if u want to or not thats ur choice i mean it really doesn't matter but if u do it well than ok of u don't than ok thats ur tp u hun
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What do I do to get a guy to like me and want to ask me out, or be noticed in a innocent way? Also what are some signs of whether a not a guy likes you? (link)
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just flirt around with him u can never be sure if the guy likes u or not but keep talkin to him and try to go up to him and say hi..
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iight umm my bf is 15 and i'm 13 and we've been going out for say bout...a month or so,maybe a lil longer.okay and i really dont get to c him often but when we do c each other we make the best of it! and well like each time we c each other we kinda get more involed{ya no grabin and touchin,more kissin,and biting} okay i'm still a virgin and well hes not,but besides that i mean when we could have the chance to have sex,i dont no if i'll be....good or bad or somethin and i mean i no he really shouldnt care if i'm good at it or not but it'll be my first and i no some of the things that'll happen like:u'll bleed,and it'll hurt,and stuff but how much will u bleed? and actually how bad will it hurt!? and also do u think that i should have sex with him the next time we can have the chance?
and if u respond i will rate 5! (link)
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well i really can't tell u if it hurts or not cause i am still a virgin too and i am like u in a way i want to lose but i am also freaked about it and what i say to my self is that if my heart feels the time is right then go for it and there is no rush to go have sex wait till u are more grown up doin oral i mean i do that and nuttin happens bad but stayina virgin is something i planned to do but don'tlet him perssure u into stuff u don't feel comfortable im so we can talk more about it i think u could help me.. troublewithcandi aim
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I understand and agree with what your saying but this chick keeps constantly bugging me tell me how she is dating him and how he tells her that he aint with me and stuff like that.. i know that he doesnt say things like that he dont act like that.. but the thing is she is really getting on my nerves and i wish she would just leave me alone sometimes. (link)
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well next time she comes up to u and says that be like u wanna cookie and walk away don't give in and let her no that she is gettin to u and when u see ur b/f hang all over him and kiss him hold his hand so then she sees that u guys are goin out
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I'm 14, almost 15, and I'm a girl. I really like this guy and I thought he liked me too. He hasn't asked me out yet, but I know at one point he liked me because he told me..."I like you a lot but I don't want to go out right now." I've been waiting on him for I think almost a month now, and he's gotten me alone twice, both times he was kind of hinting for a kiss, but I thought I might have imagined it so I decided not to...twice, I kinda just said goodbye or see ya later and walked away. Now I think he's hurt by me doing that, and he hasn't asked me out, but I want to know what to do...he's confusing me. And along with that it was my ex-boyfriend who kinda hooked us up. He's the kinda guy who grinds with all the girls at our homecoming...do you think he's waiting unitl after that? do you think i hurt him by being afraid to kiss him? does he even like me anymore? what should i do?
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if the guy is mad b.c u didn't kiss than maybe u need a new guy he needs to understand that not ever girl is ready when the guy is and if u are waiting for him for over a month hun it is about time u find some new its not like i am pickin on him it is just that maybe he don't like u and he can't tell u in a way that u won't get hurt so just move on some one eles is out there for ya
Also if he liked u he would of already asked u out
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okay well theres this one boy who i really like. hes not that good looking lol but hes really nice and funny and i like him a LOT! well anyways he says he likes me too (i dont know if i believe him cuz hes said that to gurls before but he didnt really like them i guess) and in the halls he always touches me and says hi and stuff.. well he has a gf. they have been going out for like months. they recently "did it" even tho shes 13 and hes like 15. well i like him a LOT and cant stop. well what im asking is do u think he likes me if he says hi and we talk online a lot and he flirts with me.. im confused about this. :-\ (link)
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well thats a tough one i mean alot of guys can do that and really like u or just do that b.c they wanna "do it" but in ur case if he has a girl than whatch out cause u don't wanna be havin problems with his girlfriend i say stay away but u can talk to him but don't let the stuff he tells u he just might be sweet talkin u cause if he liked u he wouldn't be havina girlfriend just becareful
good luck
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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well do u think that maybe that yeah they do like u and wanna go out with u but friends are more imporant than havin a girlfriend who ur friend went out with or maybe he still likes u and thay know that if they go out with u than he would get mad and he ain't stopin u u just forget about him and find someone who doesn't hang out with him and that means that it wasn't love maybe u thought that but it isn't there are alot of boyz out there and one u will fall in love it just hasn't happen yet...
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One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend. (link)
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well u can just let him there is nuttin u could do but i mean u don't have feelings for him do u maybe it was only a one time deal u never know but i would ask him why he is doin that and talk things threw b.c u wound't want u and ur b/f realtionship to be messed up so i would talk it over with him..
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris hes a sophmore and im a frshman.. and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hi or sumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-\thankss (link)
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well just go up to him (chris) and be like hi and usually guys would be like hey whats up and if he doesn't say anything be like u don't know me but i am and tell him ur name and than start a convo that way and i wouldn't just jump in and be like i like u just start off slow and when u get to know him than tell him later on and i don't think anything would hurt if u went up to him and asked if he wants to hang out but u gotta introduce ur self first before u go right up to him and ask him to hang out he might be shy or weird cause he don't know who u are well email me back to let me how it went
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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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to tell u the truth i have been in one of these situations and what i did was let it play out i talked to the girl online and saved the convo and when he came over my house the next day he read it and i knew on his face that he was liening to me so we talked about it and i relize that yeah i did love him but if we are cheatin on each other then it wasn't meant to be.
hopefully u and ur b/f will try to work things out email me to let me know whats goin on
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OK here's my story...
I just started high school and I became friends with this really sweet guy. And I like him and I think he likes me too. Well yesterday he told me that him and his gf broke up. And every single day he always hangs out with me at lunch!! And we stand really close hehe. Well he gave this girl a hug the other day n all but I dont know if hes goin out with her - but Ill know hes not if he hangs out with me tomorrow! He always stares/flirts with me! I love him to death! Should I make a move or something?? Don't tell me to ask him if he likes me cause I can't do that!And do you think he might like me too? Please help! Thanks! -Ems- (link)
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well... u should flirt back to know that u are interrested in him and if u guys are hangin out bring up the question and ask him if he is seen anyone and if he says no than be like ok and don't worry about and hugs don't also mean they are goin out that could be his friend.. good luck
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