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my boyfriend is gone for the summer to new mexico and he does not call me and i really miss him i talked to him for about 3 minutes and he said do not call my dad's cell or text cause his dad has to pay for the text messaging and minutes and he also said that he would call me yesterday and he never did and i really miss him. my sis said that he is fooling around over there but i don't think he will. what do you guys/grls think sorry it's so long.
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Aw, girl. If he truly misses you & such he'll try his best to call you at least twice per week or so. If he doesn't call you when he says he will, that could be a sign he's trying to avoid you, but it also could be that he just forgot. Give him a few more tries, see if he follows through on what he says, if not, I'd leave him. The whole summer is a long time to go without him, and I'm sure you'll want to have fun with others. Good luck girl!
BROOKE :]
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There is this guy who likes me but he is not my boyfriend.(because I don't like him that way) He always sits next to me during classes we have together. He flirts with me alllll of the time. He treats me way better than other girls. But the thing that really gets on my nerves is how he calls me EVERYday. I don't even talk to my friends that are girls everyday. Do you think he is getting to attached or is it just me? (link)
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Alrighttt yep, the boy likes you it seems. Hahah, anyway, I'd hint at him that he needs to stop pestering you soo much. Maybe say your phone bills way high, or you're grounded from it or something that way the calling will be over with. Try & get to class early and find a seat that's already surrounded by people, so he can't get next to you. Don't lead him on, but don't be rude. He'll get over you if you try and create space between the two of you! Good luck, girl!
BROOKE :]
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well i like or liked (i totally dont know what to think anymore? ) this guy named peter! and well i think he liked me back and he always smiled at me but i'm kinda shy so i never smiled back. so once in my bus he sat next to me and talked to me but i was in a bad mood and very mean to him! well not THAT mean but kinda mean lol so then he never talked to me again but sometimes he still looked at me. so i felt bad and i called him on saturday i was like
me: hi my name is cornelia can i please talk to peter
peter: yeah i'm peter
me: oh well hi its me you know that mean girl? uhm yeah so i just wanted to appologize for being so mean!
peter:uhuh
silence..
me: so is everythink ok again?
peter: uhh yeah
silence
me: ok than
silence
peter: bye
me: bye
and well that was it and it totally went wrong!and when he said bye it sounded like he didnt even wanna talk! i thought he would say like ok i except it or whatever but he said nothing at all? does he hate me now? i am really upset! i think he's gonna tell everybody now that i called him and then there all gonna laugh at me! but i dont get it! he even told me he loved me once (i was kinda mean then 2) but i tried to be nice now! he act like he didnt care! i need advice i'm really upset!!!! i dont wanna see him anymore and today ( i know its stupid so dont laugh) i even skipped school because of that cause i was really scared people would make fun of me cause i called a guy ( cause normally i'm like the person who dosnt even know what the word "love" means and i dont have any friends yet cause we just moved here so i'm alone than) im scared to go to school now and thats really weird! please help! oh and please dont delete this cause i really need advice and i dont wanna write the whole question over again.
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Hey girrrl. You definitely did the right thing by calling him to apologize! If he's gonna be rude about it, then he's not worth your time. And anyone who makes fun of you for calling him (which probably won't happen, so no worries, girl) are not worth your time either. he's probably trying to play it off like it didn't even matter to him (like you didn't hurt him), but I bet the day you go back to school he talks to you like he always does! Good luccck.♥
BROOKE :]
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I have bit of problem but then again since I'm asking a question I guess thats obvious.
15/F. (16 in a couple months)
There is this guy Marcus, who likes me and I guess I like him. Lately my feelings for him have diminished but anyways he has a girlfriend now but he still says he loves me and all that. (I don't understand guys who say they love you when they don't even know what it means)
At the beginning of December I had a dream that sort of disturbed me and didn't make sense but its become constant now. I have it almost every night.
basically I'm taking a walk and I run into Marcus making out with a girl and I'm shocked, hurt and angry at the same time but when I turn around someone is right there and puts their arms around me and reasures me everything is alright. I know this person is a guy because of his cologne. he's in this brown/tan trenchcoat and I finish crying he goes out and beats up Marcus. (its a dream. I have to have my revenge) Then comes back and puts his arms around me a takes out to the car so no one can ask questions. When were out there we've been talking for sometime, I think and then this person says he loves me and I realize I love him too. We kiss and I wake up. The most desturbing part of the dream is that its my best friends' little brother. He's two years younger then me, 13. I mean this kid is very nice, and matture for his age but its no reason for me to be dreaming about him in such ways. I keep telling myself I don't like him. That its not right to like him but for some reason I constantly think about him. I'm really disgusted with myself. I don't even care that he's my best friends' little brother so much as the age. I feel stupid.
I've told my friend about my dream and she sees no problem with it. I can't get her to understand that there is something wrong with me.
Now my real question is, How the hell do I get myself to quit dreaming about him? I try listening to music before I go to bed, and think about anything but him yet it still doesn't work.
Any suggestions would be great.
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Yeah, you know what's weird, is that everyone says to think of whatever you want to dream about before you go to bed. I've found it to be the opposite. For instance, before I go to bed I'll think and think and think about cats, or something like that ahha, and then I'll have either no dreams, or a dream that has nothing to do with them! Then later on in the week when I want to dream about something else, I'll dream about cats. Idk if that's only for me, but maybe try actually thinking about him. Haha, I know you don't want to, but maybe it'll keep you from having the dream. I hope it helps you, Happy New Year!
BROOKE :]
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Theres this guy that i thought i liked. I liked him to. Well Today we had an arguement.Becuase i had told one of his friends that i didnt want to talk to him anymore. Well my friend told him, so then he knew. Ok. so today he calls me and ask why i dont want to talk to him anymore? i actually thought like, wow he cares enough to call me and ask. that must mean something right? i dont know, but anyways so i tell him why because he doesnt call me or take the time to IM me or anything. so he tells me why, and the reasons kind of personal, but trust me it was a good reason. so of course i let it go. so then he tells me. well i love you, and stupid me i said it back. ok so it seems like everythings good and all right? but wrong. later today we decided to hang out with my friends shawn and derek, well shawn and derek have been my friends since ever. their some of my really really good friends.so when im around them, i dont know its just crazy . so we were hanging out at my house and stuff. me shawn derek and the guy im in love with {kyle}. so kyle i guess isnt very good at trying to fit in the conversations i guess. i mean you really cant especially since me shawn and derek like nonstop crazineess. but anyways so we were hanging out, and to kyle i guess he saw it as me flirting with them bc we were laughing over stupid things and talking about some peverted stuff. i thought it was funny, well kyle i guess didnt like it so much. cause he didnt talk the entire time. neither did he laugh. so what am i suppose to do? im not going to be like beggin him to join in the conversation. so w/e. so kyle decided to go upstairs and hang with my brothers. well since me and shawn and derek are practically drunk, we werent drinking though we were just laughing at the stupidest things, bc we havent gotten together this whole entire break yet so there was alot to talk abot. but w/e. so were laughin like really retarded. and kyle tells my brother that i have the most annoying laugh, and the gayest laugh ever. and hearing this i was like wtcrap?? like i mean its something completely stupid. but since i care so much about him, it reallyhurts even though its something totally dumb. im just really hurt, bc at first he said that he loved me then he was just talking behind my back? i dont know but im really depressed right now. i know its kinda my fault bc i wasnt giving him attention and stuff, but thier my friends im not going to just dump them.but it really hurts to hear something like this from him. what should i do? (link)
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Mm, wow. Haha, well I think Kyle was just jealous of you having a good time with two other guys, rather than with him. Sometimes when people get jealous they'll go talk about the person, because they're mad. If you still like Kyle, try spending seperate time with him alone from Shawn & Derek. Kyle probably just wants time with you, and not with two other guys hanging around. Happy new yearrr, girl.
Brooke ♥
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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
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Mm, try and see how he feels about things. If he's getting bored as well, then break it off, if not, maybe you should hold back. If he's still interested in you, maybe try making the relationship more fun so you're interested in him more. If this doesn't work, and you're still finding the relationship boring, just till him gently that you want to break up. That way his feelings won't be as hurt, and you'll be happier.
BroOke♥
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There's this boy that was in all my classes last year (in the 7th grade). Jock. Jerk. Popular. Biggest S.O.B. to walk the earth. Everyone liked him, but I loathed him. He would make fun of how unpopular and "weird" I was, he'd laugh with his scruffy friends during French whenever I made a mistake, he'd even call me bad names sometimes. So I got even with him and stole his baseball hat, and hid it, and laughed and made fun of him whenever he made a fruitless attempt to find it. I didn't even get in trouble! After a while, he found the hat. This year, he suddenly started being nice to me. He gave me compliments, started sending me IMs, etc. I was nice back, and in a suttle way we became friends, but I didn't forget how much of an asshole he was last year. Friday, this guy I barely know told me that he (the boy) said I was really hot and nice. I'm confused. Do you think he likes me or he's just scared I'll steal his hats? (link)
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Well, hmm. I think it's an act, personally. He's probably going to be nice to you for a few months to make it seem like you're good friends and such, then go back to being rude. I don't think he likes you, I think he's trying to pull you into thinking that, then dump it all on you when he goes back to being a jerk. He's just being nice to make sure you don't do anything cruel to him, which proves how much of an ass he truly is.
Good luck!
♥ BROOKE
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