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gone for the whole summer
my boyfriend is gone for the summer to new mexico and he does not call me and i really miss him i talked to him for about 3 minutes and he said do not call my dad's cell or text <cause his cell does not have service there> cause his dad has to pay for the text messaging and minutes and he also said that he would call me yesterday and he never did and i really miss him. my sis said that he is fooling around over there but i don't think he will. what do you guys/grls think sorry it's so long.
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Give the boy a break! His dad is probably pretty annoyed with you calling and texting so that'll make things tense for your boyfriend.
Give him some time... let him miss you! Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but if you don't give him some time and space to miss you he'll feel claustrophobic even so far away from you. He'll call you eventually, and when he does you'll know that he's calling because he wants to and not just because you want him to.
In the mean time enjoy your summer! Won't you feel stupid if you waste your whole summer pining away for this guy and it turns out he was creeping on you? You know he's going to be having a good time even if he's staying true to you, so you should have a good time too.
He's probably not fooling around, so don't get all weird and jealous on him or he won't want to call you.
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i wouldnt worry too much. you have to understand that he wants to enjoy himslef while hes down there. and sometimes people forget when they are having a good time. if you really care about him, then you wont think hes cheating on you. hes prolly making an effort to call you, but remember he's limited to when he can talk and how long. i think you should just have a good summer, and enjoy the time hes gone. but also make the best out of the time you talk to him, and dont spend it fighting whether or not he could be cheating. dont listen to your sister, you knwo him better than she does. do you think he'd do that? if you do, then maybe you should rethink your relationship. sorry if it was a little harsh, but its just what i think. sorry. but good luck, and like i said - make the best out of the time you guys talk.
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Aw, girl. If he truly misses you & such he'll try his best to call you at least twice per week or so. If he doesn't call you when he says he will, that could be a sign he's trying to avoid you, but it also could be that he just forgot. Give him a few more tries, see if he follows through on what he says, if not, I'd leave him. The whole summer is a long time to go without him, and I'm sure you'll want to have fun with others. Good luck girl!
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