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this guy...
well i like or liked (i totally dont know what to think anymore? ) this guy named peter! and well i think he liked me back and he always smiled at me but i'm kinda shy so i never smiled back. so once in my bus he sat next to me and talked to me but i was in a bad mood and very mean to him! well not THAT mean but kinda mean lol so then he never talked to me again but sometimes he still looked at me. so i felt bad and i called him on saturday i was like
me: hi my name is cornelia can i please talk to peter
peter: yeah i'm peter
me: oh well hi its me you know that mean girl? uhm yeah so i just wanted to appologize for being so mean!
peter:uhuh
silence..
me: so is everythink ok again?
peter: uhh yeah
silence
me: ok than
silence
peter: bye
me: bye
and well that was it and it totally went wrong!and when he said bye it sounded like he didnt even wanna talk! i thought he would say like ok i except it or whatever but he said nothing at all? does he hate me now? i am really upset! i think he's gonna tell everybody now that i called him and then there all gonna laugh at me! but i dont get it! he even told me he loved me once (i was kinda mean then 2) but i tried to be nice now! he act like he didnt care! i need advice i'm really upset!!!! i dont wanna see him anymore and today ( i know its stupid so dont laugh) i even skipped school because of that cause i was really scared people would make fun of me cause i called a guy ( cause normally i'm like the person who dosnt even know what the word "love" means and i dont have any friends yet cause we just moved here so i'm alone than) im scared to go to school now and thats really weird! please help! oh and please dont delete this cause i really need advice and i dont wanna write the whole question over again.
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I think it was just that you put him in a pretty awkward situation. Imagine a guy calling you and saying that they wanted to apologize for being mean. Peter just didn't know what to say. I think that you just caught him offguard. That doesn't mean that he didn't appreciate the apology or was being rude or anything. I doubt he's going to tell anybody about it and if he does, it's not that big of a deal. You had a guilty conscience and what you did took a lot of courage. If Peter is a jerk and tells people and they start picking on you, you can change everyone's opinions about you around to how nice and great of a person you are. Just use that same courage and initiative that you used while apologizing to Peter and people will gain a lot of respect for you! Good luck! :)
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Hey girrrl. You definitely did the right thing by calling him to apologize! If he's gonna be rude about it, then he's not worth your time. And anyone who makes fun of you for calling him (which probably won't happen, so no worries, girl) are not worth your time either. he's probably trying to play it off like it didn't even matter to him (like you didn't hurt him), but I bet the day you go back to school he talks to you like he always does! Good luccck.♥
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Don't worry about the phone conversation at all. You thought you were doing the right thing. Therefore you have nothing to feel bad about. It's nothing to feel ashamed of. That's why when you do things like that, you make sure that IT'S REALLY WHAT YOU WANT TO DO so you HAVE NO REGRETS. AT ALL. You did nothing wrong and if he seemed like a jerk over the phone, maybe there could've been a lot of things that were happening. Maybe he had a bad day, maybe he really didn't know who you were since you did refer to yourself as the mean girl but you did say your name. It could've been a lot of things. But while you're out of school, try and get comfortable with the fact that you called to appologize to this guy. IT'S REALLY NO BIG DEAL. IT WAS JUST AN APPOLOGY. Think of it as that. If people say,"ooh, she called him." Say, " it was just an appology over the phone. What's the big deal about that?"
Act like it don't phase you. If you don't sweat, then no one else will. But the first time they try you, and you act scary, then they are going to keep trying and trying you. Act like it don't phase you. And better, ENJOY HIS REACTION when you act like it don't phase you. But DON'T LOOK AT HIM ANYMORE. Just observe enough to get some insight about his reaction. Easy does it. Hope I was a little help. Good luck, girl.
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Well, it kinda sounds like this one kid that used to go to my school. He was just really flirtacious and would come sit with me and talk to me and stuff. I understand why you would want to skip school, but don't be scared of people making fun of you. If they have nothing better to do than w/e screw them. Plus if he actually takes the time to tell people that you called him to apologize, is he really worth getting all upset over? I don't think he was expecting the phone call, thats another reason he could've been silent. He is probably used to girls treating him like that or something. I don't know if this helped or not, but I hope it does.
Signed,
Extremely tired advicenator becuase its 7 in the morning
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