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Now this must be weird to go online and try to find someone to give you advice about your problems, but i dont think it's bad. I've been through like everything even though i'm only 15. If you have any problem at all, try to just bomb it because you really need to get it out of your system. So IM me on AOL, Yahoo, MSN, or just leave your question here. i'm going to check my account here everyday. Thankyou! And I hope to help!

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there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help!

Well, it sounds to me that you're doing what a lot of girls do. He seems like Mr. Perfect, and your boyfriend seems like, he's just, there. Dont break up with your boyfriend, really, cause you'll lose someone that is really awesome to you. He obiviously cares about you, while the guy in 9th grade is leading you on a little bit. Dont get a broken heart because of the 9th grader. Of course, you can still talk to him, and be friends with him. Just go a step at time, sweet heart! Tell your boyfriend how you feel, just tell him that you're having these odd feelings, probably having to do with your womanhood and he should understand. Just keep it cool with this 9th grader. Hope everything works out!!

~Jill~

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Alrihgt kind acomplictaed.

My Class consists of like 23 ppl, all in whichtell each other EVERYTHINg. There is this boy who i like ALOT and i no for a fact he will ask me out next year. Now i am allowed to have a boyfriend but i live with my dad nad i just dont want him to find out cause ity waould be EXTREMLY awkward. Plus the bys mom is the room mother nad what if someoen told his mom


What do i do i like had a crush on him for 5 years HELP

ok, well starting out, when you do go out with this guy, you dont have to tell your dad right away-- like if you're going to a movie just be like "oh, well me and my friend (say one of your bff's name who is a girl) and i are going to see (insert movie here)" so just dont mention the guy, then once you feel it's not awkward, then tell him that you got a boyfriend, but dont say anything about going out with him before. Hope i helped!!

*Jill*

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Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!

and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?

First of all, age dosent matter. Really, it dosent. As long as you like the guy, you're fine. Second of all, he's your boyfriend, why worry? you trust him, he trusts you, and past boyfriends said you're really good. When i first when out with my boyfriend when i was 12 i made out with him and i didnt even know how to, but he showed me, now we both look back and laugh at it. And plus if he says he dosent like the way you kiss, ask for lessons! lol, it'll be fun, and you'll get better. So dont worry about it. Just do it with him and go one step at a time. I hope i helped, and also keep me in mind in the future if you want!

*Jill*

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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help

OK, well i think what you should do is just full ot tell him to stop flirting with you cause he is taken. Dont make it sound like you hate him or that you're trying to hurt him or warn him, just make it sound like you're not interested, and since he asked your friend out-- HE's intrested in her. Also, i think you should talk to your friend about it, even though you think it'll hurt her.. think about in the future when she finds out for herself, and YOU KNEW! the guilt would be really bad.. and i'm sure she'd be even more sad if she found out later after going out with him more than once. It's better to tell her now, before she get's TOO attached. I know it may be hard- but it's for the best. I hope i helped, and if you need any more advice i'm always here on Advicenators and my AIM sn is "Silverwolf1561".

*Jill*

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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!

how is not a good kid? well anyhoo, if your ex likes you, and you like him, you should just go out with your ex and dont tell the bad kid about anything.

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ok so i am 16 female and i was going to meet up with this boy tomorrow he has never met me and i have never met him i promised him last week thing is i have spots on my head now.I can't meet him with spots i mean its like 4 spots on my forehead.i have never had spots before.What shall i do chicken out and tell him i will meet him next week.i mean its better than him seeing me with spots..... or anyway i can get rid of them by tomorrow.

well it sounds sorta risky going to meet him like that, so cancel and tell him that it was urgent and go to a dynotologyst, they'll do something about it. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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I'm 15 and going into 10th grade but the guy I like is 19 and going to be a sophmore in college. We've been hanging out alot and he said he liked me too...but my mom is way against it. she says he's too old and she 'knows what older guys want out of younger girls' but its not like that at all. How do I get her to see that he's not jus trying to get some?

ok, well i know how moms are *even though i live with my dad*, just go out with him without her knowing, i know it's hard to lie to her like that but when your older like in college or whatever then you can tell her that you're going out with him. That's my plan for my boyfriend. Just try to help her understand that love is love, whether it means different age, sex, height, weight, there's really nothing you can do to move on, right? hope i helped.

*Jill*

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Alrigt!! I was in this chatroom the other night and i totatly huked up with this mega hot lady online and she lives so clsoe to my house. well, it's not close, really. its like 40 minutes away on the other side of town. but she's so hot!!! i know this cause she sent me a picture of her. my friends all tell me i'm dumb for wanting to visit a stranger but they're MEGALAMOES!!!! they'll never get some like i will. which i will. LOTS OF BOOTY FORR JERRY!!! HAHAHAHa!!

ok, this girl your going to see is either:
1. a man that is really gay and is gonna rape you
2. a girl who is REALLY ugly and use a fake photo. Personally i think you should stick to school or go to the beach and meet people- in person, trust me i've been in this situation and i didnt work out. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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omg
yesterday my girlfriend signed on, then saw i was online then signed off. i dont know waht i did! she told me latr\\ that its cause she has a crappy 56k connection but i so know she's lying. the other day we were making out and i told her to shut up and stop touching me and stuff cause i was trying to wach the oc. she's so lame though. she doens't get me!! but i know she's mad now. wat do i do?

sorry to say, but if she's bothering you, you should dump her, or tell her to stop, and if she dosent, just dump her and find someone better. sounds like she's just into you for the action, not the love. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!

dont go out with the stoner of doom. trust me i've been there.

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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what?

Hello,
Well personally i think you should give him a shot, but if you dont like him, then dont lead him on thinking you like him back. It really does depend on how you feel about him. If you dont like him like that, just try to sit him down and tell him. He'll most likely understand. But overall you should think about what you would be like in his shoes, i mean asking out someone isn't the easiest thing to do if you know i what i mean ^_~. Well I hope i helped, if you need any further advice, feel free to IM me at wildsilverflames on AOL or email me at miserablehellchild@yahoo.com.
*Jill*

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(I wasnt quite sure where to place this question, so I just chose here)
I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half now, and he is about to graduate from highschool. We dont know eachother very well, which is why I am about to ask this. I got invited to his graduation party, which is a bit less than a month away now. Problem is, I have absolutly no idea what to do for a gift. I dont know what types of things you get for someone who is graduating, this is the first time I've had to deal with having to get a graduation gift. Any help whatsoever would be greatly appreciated!

hey,
lol yeah nice question, here's what you can do: you can simply talk to him about what he likes in general, and if that dosent give you any hints, you should talk to his friends about what to get him and what they're getting him so you dont get the same thing. You know? well i hope i helped. Please rate high!

*Jill*

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