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Q: 13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH
tell him the truth .. if he really loves you he will understand.... hope i helped .. Love Always, MauramOo

Q: My boyfreiend abuses me!!! I mean like he doesn't mean to but like we will be messing around and he'll grab my hand to hard and I get brusies, and I dont bruse easily!! I tell him it hurts but I know he doesnt mean to!! help!!
you really should tell someone, tell an adult, parent, anyone who will listen ..also tell him to stop! .. this could get out of hand ... hope i helped .. Love always, MauramOo

Q: Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled?
there's no age limit for love .. im in love unfortunatly so yes, you can find your soulmate at 12 .. at any age!! hope i helped.. Love Always, MauramOo

Q:
When I was ill recently, I really relied on my partner, and he was wonderful at looking after me. I've told him how thankful I am and how much it meant to me, but I'd really like to show how grateful I am and am really stuck for what would be appropriate. Would a card or gift be tacky/inappropriate? I saw a book I know he'd enjoy, but it doesn't feel quite the right way to say 'thanks' for all that he's done.

Basically, I'm just looking for opinions - should I get him a small token like the book, or is it more appropriate to just talk to him about it as I have been doing?
the book would be nice, also you could bring him out to dinner at a nice restaurant or to the movies.. im sure he'll love what ever you do.. hope i helped.. Love, MauramOo

Q: 1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!
1.) if they're in america and have slept together than yes, he can get arrested because the female is under 18

2.) well the doctors can probally find out ,if she has been sexually active lately, who she has been sexually ative with by running tests

hope i helped, Love Always, MauramOo

Q: A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?

p.s. she has a boy-friend now
first of all .. you should not judge a girl for looks!! that can hurt a girl badly! you have to judge girls by their personality and all that ..write her a note saying all you want is friendship and your soo sorry and never meant to hurt her .. hope i helped . Love MauramOo

Q: This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!
we want the truth .. dont tell us we're beautiful if we're not .. tell us what your heart thinks .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: what did ashley conley do to desiry?
I.M me .. or them and we'll talk ... Love MauramOo

Q: Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f)
well i think you should talk to your parents and tell them how you want to hang out with boys just as friends but if that doesnt work then tell him your not supposed to have a boyfriend anyways and you love him but you cant chill with him .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do
that is sOoo sad!! .. im so sorry .. but you should make a lot of friends that are girls and try to flirt .. eventually one will fall head over heels and you'll get a girlfriend to help you through .. but im soo sorry about that .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????
everyone feels like that at times .. they just need to know someone cares about them .. ya know? its totally okay to feel like that .. your probally lonely inside .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: ok im 14 ima sophmore a LEHS n youll here about this soon im sure but i had sex with a girl n now she is pregnant n i cant tell my parents n she cant tell hers so i was wondering wat to do or wat she can do so we dun get in serious trouble?
do i know you? ... but anyways some people get abortions ... you can talk to her about that and then talk to a doctor about it .. good luck .. hope i helped Love MauramOo

Q: ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?
if you trust them then yes but make sure they promise not to tell ANYONE because rumors fly fast .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: I like this guy at my school ALOT. He is in 5 of my classes, but I have no idea how to tell him I like him. I don't want to write a note, because then he could show other people. Any good ideas of how to tell him that I like him?
online or to his face ... hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist
waist sounds more comfy .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: 20/f/CA.
My good friend Rose just started dating my ex-boyfriend Justin. We had been broken up for quite a while, but I am still confused about how I fell about Justin, although I think I am mostly over him. I am also seeing other people. But why is it when I see them together when I go out, that I get jealous, or more upset?
it happens to everyone because you probally really loved him and still have feelings deep down in your heart ... you should tell your friend about this .. she should understand .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

Q: see i dont know what to do i like this guy alot but he wants me to tell him why i like him what should i do?
tell him your feelings for him .. its what everyone does .. hope i helped . Love MauramOo

Q: well, I REALLY like this one guy, I mean REALLY LIKE and I have a feeling he likes me too. I have two classes with him and he like stares at me, but like alot of the time, I think a guy likes me and he doesn't.... so I need like to figure out if he likes me, can anyone help me?
well first ..try to ask him .. if he says he likes you ask him out = ) hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

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hEyy iMm Maura also known as mAu mAuRamOo or mOniQue ( lol nikki ) my birthday is March 24 I cheer, ski, snowboard, and go running . you can contact me at baybxmau 143 if you dont want to post your problems in here . ask me anything you need help with and ill be sure to answer you unless it's rude and uncalled for . xox Love Maura*

if i could have jus wun dream come true id dream a dream that i could be with you .. i miss you baby!! ... i L0VE Y0U S0O FUCKiNG MUCH!! .. = /

xox Love Maura*

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