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Hi,
well I am still in love with my x boyfriend lets just say his name is Harrison, and he told all my current x boyfriends that if they did anything to hurt me that he would hurt them very badly, or if they got me pergnet that he would hunt them down and hurt them even harder, but I aint going to get pergnet, but dose that mean he is still in love with me??? we both really like and miss each other and we only live 4 to 5 hours away from each other, can ya just give me any advice if is still in love with me or not???
he even has been trying to get a hold of my friends telling them that he misses me alot!!! and I have alot of strong feelings for him, but I am just wanting to know if he is still in love with me??? Please give me some advice....




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i think he's still in love with you just by the actions he's been taking... but to answer your question i think yes

good luck


I like this guy that ive known for only a couple months but we're really good friends he is so nice and hes hilarious, but hes friends with so many other girls that i can't tell if he likes me or if he treats me the same as everyone else, and do u think i can get him to think of me in that way if doesnt now? (link)
well the only way to know if he does is to tell him you like him and then just say you want to be friends also, but it sounds like he MAY like you maybe

good luck


hey all well i have been with my boyfriend for six months then we broke up once and got back together 5 months later we have been going out now for 4 weeks today but i feel really weird around him and i do love him but i like this other guy but i don*t want my boyfriend to stop talking to me like he did last time! so my question is what should i do? break up with my boyfriend? or stay with him please help! i rate 5

love jesse (link)
hey you remind me of my best friend jesse...
well anyways
i think that youn need to ride this out and find out your true feelings about both of them... one girl dumped me when she thought she liked this other guy but she really didn't and then i wouldn't take her back...
so don't do what she did
but figure out what you truly feel and then you'll know what to do

good luck


ok thers this boy i like, hes rele nice, and he knows i like him and i sorta asked today of he liked me through a note and here are some things i noticed:
1. he anwered the note quickly, like he knew exactly what he was gonna say
2. when he was leaning in his chair, he said that if he fell he would hold onto me (it sounded so romantic when he said it)
3.when the bell rang, he waited for me in the stairwell
4. when we were walking down the stairs, he was wlaking close to me, even though there was plenty of room
5. in last period, he offered to switch seats with the person next to me and kept touching my hand the whole period, he kept saying it was an accident but i dont think it was.

does it seem like he like me? i have a really strong feeling he does but i need it to be confirmed. will rate! nellie (link)
hey whatsup,
well i personally think he likes you.
but of course i am not him so i can't let you know for sure
but it sounds like he likes you alot and that he sounds like an okay guy to me
good luck!


Some girls in one of my classes keep saying that me and this other guy (who im friends with but dont get to talk to all that much) would make a good couple. Today I wore a skirt and he said he wanted to look up it. And this girl said he liked me but he didn't really seem to say anything. But I wasn't really paying attention. Do you think he likes me? More than 2-3 people have said we'd make a really cute couple too.... (link)
Well i have two ideas
1. he likes you
2. he doesnt sound like boyfriend material

but to answer your question i think he likes you

but the looking up the skirt thing doesn't sound very respectful...


i'm 13/f. well me and my boyfriend have been going out since July and my birthday is at the end of October. he said he was going to get me a CD and i'm not at all greedy so i told him not to get me that and just get me like a 99cent card or something. because i would love a CD but i want something more memorable like even if he got me a 25 cent ring from a vending machine because it would be cute and sweet. I suppose that isnt my problem though besides the fact that I feel heartless for wanting something more romantic for my birthday. figuring we cant drive we cant go far either. but i'd like to do something special with him and ik usually its the guys job 2 figure something out but w/e i mean he's not going to even tho he's the sweetest guy ever.. we're going to hang out but we do that anyways so something a little more interesting might be nice i just dont know what to do *sighs* any suggestions on wut to do?? (link)
you could always go to the movies and then maybe get an ice cream or something like that, or you could go to a school football game etc. you know just normal things that you enjoy doing


13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me? (link)
well if you dont want to have your first kiss with him then its not right to let him believe that you want to so i think you should let him now that you aren't really ready to kiss yet...
and if you don't like him as a boyfriend then its only right that you dump him because you shouldnt lead him on just tell him that you would just like to be really good friends because you've realized that you love him as a friend not a boyfriend...

good luck

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i just broke up with someone and want them back, i was wondering what guys would find more attractive. i girl that plays hard to get and pretend im over him then tell him when im ready i still like him or tell him i like him and i regret it and stuff. thanks (link)
don't play hard to get it doesnt work if you dumped him because he probablly still wants you back and if you play hard to get he might get the wrong message and then the relationship would be ruined

don't be hard to get

good luck


I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas (link)
this may sound weird but try paintball... it's alot of fun and guys love it and paintballs dont hurt bad they just sting for a second wear sweatshirt with a long sleeve t-shirt and sweat pants with a pair of shorts underneath (make sure these aren't important clothes as they will get dirty) and i would just wear a cheap pair of tennis shoes

hope it works


I'm 35 yrs old, met a great person after a bad relationship, for four good years of ups n downs we stuck it through. the fifth yr we had a child, we got much closer, our child help us realized that even though we were sruggling in our relationship we needed to care for him together till the end. Unfortunately the next 31/2 three yrs it went downhill, even counseling did not work, I loved her enough to continue but she needed out. So it happend, we went our separate ways, but our child came first in everything. I fell in love with a wonderful woman that has three children, 6,10 and 15 yrs of age. She is wonderful, but we do have our differences. Been seeing her 1 yr now allthough its not perfect between us, we both agree we are in love and should make a future together. We both tried to end and let go several times but gave in to our feelings for each other each time. Right about now my X wants me back, she is the biggest hearted person I have ever met, and her intentions, as far as I'm concerned, will always be wonderful. Realizing she was wrong she found that all she needed was time to clear her mind, knowing that it could be to late for us, she asked me to be a family again, which is what I wanted all the time. I don't think can get used to the feeling of me living a future with good children and knowing my own child is without me. But I realy love this other person and its hard to be with out her. I love my X dearly but its not the same any more, she needs me more than ever now and my heart is aunxiuos and willing to be there for anything she needs, my 5yr old also needs me by his side it kills me to think of life for us both without each other, and me giving time and attention to others. My god tells me to come home and take the pain and leave the one I truely love and hurt her as well, and my heart can't stop thinking about my true found love. I cry when I think of it. My child, his mom and there need for me, my mind is so messed up because and my heart longs for the woman I love. It's time to make a decision and I can't. Either way I loose. Can someone try and help please, WHAT CAN I DO? (link)
okay im 13 and i hope you take this seriously but dude your kid needs you man so whatever you picked dont forget that your son needs you



I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :( (link)
i've gone through this a few times with horrible break ups and heart breaks
okay well the first thing you need to understand is that this is just 1 guy and their are much more guys that are probably much better people this guy sounds like he's a jerk so just don't worry about him and about this shea girl dont worry about her dont let her get to your head or anything just forget this guy ever happened

okay and if you wanna talk more my email is
baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
hey dude im 13 and i havent made out with anyone and im popular play baseball and all that...
ok and take your time asking her out
go somewhere and then at the end be like "this was fun wanna do it again sometime" and it should be fine from there

i play for parma thunder 13U travel puritas eastern ohio... we're pretty good and if you would like to talk more email me baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
i'm a guy so i no about these things

now guys love it when girls tell them they like them.

back when i was your age there was a girl that sounds very much like you and she liked me so she got me to dance with her and it just clicked so if you have any dances dance with him and also ask him little things like if he likes your hair
hey it worked for her :-)


Hey Everyone!! Well I met this guy a month ago and we completly fell for eachother. The problem was our age differences because I'm 15 and he's 20 so he decided that he couldn't be w. me because i'm too *Immature.* Recently I've been checking out his profile just to look @ his pictures and I came across his new GF!! I have to admit that they look really happy together and I'm happy 4 him but @ the same time I wish that I was his GF. I can't stop thinking about the fact that he's moved on so quickly and I'm still getting no where. I really like him but I know there can't be anything between us..How do I get over him?? Please help!! (link)
you cant get over him quickly thats the problem with all relationships gone bad

i probally cant say anything to make you get over him but one of my best friends told me this :time heals all wounds
hope it helped


ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
its cool that u like a younger girl and its no big deal either and its not a problem man so just dont worry about it and if anyone gives you crap for likin her than defend yourself and who you like


alright. this will be long.
me and my boyfriend have known eachother since kindergarden. we went out in sixth grade, and broke up after 4 months of seeing eachother.
i am in love with him, and he knows it, because we have been going out again since the 2nd. last night he told me he loved me as well.
my parents do not approve of him though. i think it is because my mom thinks he lies to me (which he doesnt) and my dad never liked any boy i went out with (because that's just how dads are) my sister doesnt like him, either, and i dont know why she doesnt.
how can i get my family to approve of him?
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have him over for dinner and tell him to shake ur dads hand
dads love it when boyfriends shake thier hands




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