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can kissing and fingering causes late periods
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No it can not cause late periods. The only reason your period should come late is from pregnancy which is only possible through sexual intercourse, or any other activity where sperm comes in direct contact with the vagina. If this did not happen you have nothing to worry about. Your period is only late because you had a change in body weight, you are stressed out, or you just have an irregular period. If you have just recently started your period, it will naturally be irregular for probably at least 6 months.
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I'm a lesbian, and i'm always getting used by my straight friend. She is always dirty texting me, and touching herself when she's talking to me, but she says that only i turn her on and she wouldn't date me because she doesn't want to be a lesbian. She has a boyfriend, yet she comes to me when it comes to pleasure. I love her as a best friend, maybe more, but only if she accepted. But, it seems like lately, all we've been doing is "making love" and she doesn't even love me.
Is she gay? Why is she using me like this? When she asks me to turn her on, etc, she tell me to "Make love" to her. Does that mean she loves me? because she normally says sex, unless she's talking about me. We've never actually done it, but we talk and touch ourselves. (link)
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Don\'t let anyone use you. I wouldn\'t suggest being a part of anything where the other person is in a relationship because that will only cause drama and people to get hurt and their emotions to get confused. If she actually likes you she will be with you. She can\'t base her sexuality off of whether she \"wants\" to be straight or a lesbian ect. She can be bi, or a little curious about girls, but if she still likes men she isn\'t a lesbian of course. I don\'t think she loves you, but she may want to experiment with you because she seems very unsure of her sexuality and it\'s much easier to do something you aren\'t sure of with someone you trust instead of a random person. She might say make love to differentiate her sex with a female from calling it sex when it\'s with a guy. Might make it easier for her to accept if she isn\'t calling it sex since you\'re a female.
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i am 13 and my boyfriend is 19. he wants to have sex with me ? what should i do ? (link)
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Please don\'t do anything unless you personally are ready. I wouldn\'t recommend you do it for several reasons. The first reason being that he is 19. It scares me a bit that he suggested you have sex with him because he is probably well aware of the law that states that anyone under the age of 17 can not give legal consent to sexual acts or any kind to someone 17 or older. So basically, if he has sex with you, in the eyes of the law it is rape. If your parents ever found out they could sue him and have him charged as a registered sex offender. So on his part, it is stupid to risk it. Not only is it illegal, and disturbing given the huge age difference, but being 13 your body is not physically ready for intercourse. You are still growing and maturing so it is likely sex wouldn\'t feel very good for you, in fact it may hurt a lot more than it should for a first time. Don\'t let him pressure you into doing anything you are uncomfortable with or that you feel your body isn\'t ready for. I also wouldn\'t suggest having sex with him if you haven\'t been together long because this will be a person who you are sharing your first very intimate moment with and you will remember it forever. If he hasn\'t been with you for long and is suggesting you have sex with him, he may be using you for that. If he isn\'t then he wont mind waiting a few years until your body is not only ready, but legal as well.
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I met the guy through some friends, let's call him A. We began talking for a year, but we never met privately. We would always bump in to each other and talk that way, but never meet personally on our own. Through the year of speaking, we stopped for almost 3 months, and in that 3 months, I got myself in to a relationship with a guy who I were close with. A came back in to my life and I decided to give it another go, then we stopped talking again, and I met a guy who I was interested In. Again, A came back and I decided to give it another go. Whilst I was on these dates and in another relationship, I still really cared for A, he was still my first thought of every morning. Anyway, when he came back, we decided to give it a go in to an official relationship, our first 2 months of our relationship was amazing, pure love everywhere, we were great together and then the arguments started again, I began ending us every time we argued, now we have been together for 6 months and this past month has been stressful, we argue over the stupid of things and we haven't been together for almost one month now, but we do text sometimes. I feel like I've pushed him away because of the fact we kept arguing and I kept ending us. He knows he has me wrapped around his finger and I'm guilty of that, no matter how long he goes without calling or texting me, he knows I'll always be there. I want to re kindle our relationship, I want it to be like it was at the start, but I don't know how to. He called last night after 1 week of not talking and he was being cold, he was asking if I'd met anyone yet. I told him I want to move on and I'd appreciate it if he didn't text me, take care and whatever else and all he said was ok, and that was it. Does anyone have any suggestions or personal experience they'd like to share? (link)
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It sounds to me that you really aren't sure what you want. First thing you need to do is decide if he is worth your time and effort or not and stick with it. He can probably tell that nothing is going to last very long after all of these break ups and rekindlings. You said you loved him, if you still do and he is still the person you originally fell in love with I say give it a shot. But please don't give him all the power to control your emotions because then he will likely play with your head. You need to be your own independent person and not let him think you will do whatever he wants, you are doing it because it's what you want. I don't understand why you told him to stop talking to you but if you want a chance at keeping the two of you together you need to also stop with the back and forth confusion. I would assume he's as confused as you are and maybe doesn't want to deal with the drama that seems to inevitably come up. Remember it takes two to argue, and that arguments happen in every relationship so it's just that you'll need to decide if he's the one you're willing to argue for or if he's just wasting your time. A lot of people have that person they are back and forth about but eventually you two need to decide if together is better or worse for you. If you're happiest with him, give it you're all, and if you're not or the least bit interested in someone else then he is not your one true love. You can always just remain friends and if things being you back together in the future after trying with new people for a while then dive back in when you're both older and more experienced with the situation. And if you're friendship dies in the time of you two exploring your options then neither of you were who the other should spend their life with.
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Hey well basically at a disco a few weeks ago i kissed this girl and know we've been texting lots and we both kind of like each other i think.im 15 and usually just hang out with guys from my school and if i was to hang out with girls i wouldn't know what to do.i want to ask her to do something but i cant think of anything to do that we could do without it being a date.does anyone know any sort of activities we could do like with a few other people aswell.and what do u do when u go out with girls im really in experienced and dont know how to do.any help much appreciated and please no hate (link)
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You guys could go bowling. Usually on weekend places have late night cosmic bowling where they play popular music with strobe lights and music videos so its much more fun that typical daytime bowling. You can get a group together for that. Or if it is nice out where you live, maybe mini golf. If you have a group of people it wont seem like a date no matter what you do, like getting ice cream or going out to some informal dinner or a mall trip. You could go laser tagging, or to an arcade. Maybe if you want to be cute, but not have it be a date, bring other people but pay for her. If you're trying to avoid spending money, you could get together some friends who enjoy the same game (board or video) and play that. Hope this helps some! Good luck! :)
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So i am 17 and a Junior in high school. I never really have had an official boyfriend because i am so picky. I have known this guy for 4 years and he is a really close friend, just this year I started to develop feelings for him he says he has had a "crush" on me since freshman year. He is very physical, he is always wanting to do more and more but i always say no because we aren't dating, but he lacks emotion BECAUSE he is also talking to this freshman in college which he is obsessed with but she pretty much plays him. Just yesterday i was getting to just end whatever we have but he started being really sweet and i told him he needs to choose, he said he didn't know who he would choose then he was like "you know i love you right and it wasn't for her i would be dating you" and i just rolled my eyes and he said "i swear to god i do." I just don't know why he is doing this to me and i don't know what is going on through his head. Help me understand?? Thank you. (link)
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Sounds like he is caught in the middle. There must be something about each of you that he really likes and isn't sure which one of you is better for him. It is good that you aren't letting things go farter until you are together. Usually when people start having sex before they are dating it just complicates things, because then you aren't sure if he likes you for you, or for the sex, so A+ for that girl! I think what you need to do is spell it out for him. Tell him that you have feelings for him but you're having a hard time, knowing he likes this other girl as well. Remind him how you think she is just playing him and how you wouldn't do that. Explain to him what it is that is special about him. Let him know that you've never dated anyone, and he's the first one you've really wanted to be with. That should make him feel important to you. Tell him to have the same talk with the other girl, and find out what he needs to know about each of you to make his decision. Make sure he knows you just want him to do what will make him happy. Give him a time limit though or he may string you along for a very long time (people seem to like to do that.) Tell him you want to know if you are going to pursue a relationship with him, or if you should just move on, and that you want to do so in a specified amount of time, so he has until then to figure things out. If he chooses her, as much as it may hurt, you'll have to move on. You can stay friends with him, but maybe take a little break from eachother to let the feelings disappear. Or maybe he will choose he and realize he made the wrong decision and oome running back to you, which is then up to you if you want to take him back. If he chooses her, then you know he isn't the one for you. If he really does "love" you he wont string you along for much longer. Hope I helped some :)
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I know this boy for five years.I am 13 and he is 14.He is very shy.I love him soo much.I dont know that he loves me or not.I notice that:
He starres at me alot and when I caught him,he blushed or quickly looks away.
When I am around him,he smiles alot.
He blushes alot.
He always call me by my first name.
I have the feeling that he loves me.
Please tell me that he loves me or not because its "MY FIRST LOVE" (link)
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Love is soemthing only the "lover" can know for sure. Don't let anyone tell you that you don't love him because you are "too young" too love. They only say that because they have never loved and don't understand. As for your situation, what you need to do is just talk with him. If you both have cell phones, trade numbers and sart with texting. If he really does like you he will make an effort to text you all the time and want tohearyour voice on the phone as well. You should find out soon if he really does feel that way though, because if he doesn't, the longer you wait, the more hurt you will feel in the end. Look out for yorself. If he's not the one, then move on. You have your wholel ife ahead of you and you never know what great guy will come along. Keep and open mind, and don't let this bo hurt you. If he loves you like you seem to think he does, then he wont hurt you. If he does, then there is someone else out there that is 100xs better for you. :)
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I recently broke up with this guy, who ignored me and never spent any time with me. we went out for 4 months, we only kissed that's all.
But now his best friend really likes me and I reallylike him, I always did but I thought he hated me.
The problem is, the best friend guy has an older brother, who I kissed 7 months ago at a party, like it was only silly and a joke kinda, but still..
I'm really reluctant coz of this, but would it be super inappropriate if we went out? I just don't want everyone to tease me or hate me if its slutty (link)
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If you really like him, it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks, you need to do what YOU want. It seems from how you described the previous relationship that it wasn't one in which he deseved your time anyway, so I don't think it would be unacceptable. If you are still friends with him however, it may be viewed as disrespectful towards him. As long as it doesn't bother his friend either I think you should just do what will make you happy :)
And to reply to your title "am I a slut?" absolutly not. My definition of a slut is definitely not anything you have stated above, and is also not even a person who has sex with a lot of people. In my opinion, that is just their life choice. What makes someone a slut/whore in my eyes is when they are a) cheating on their significant other with whomever they are hooking up with or b) engaging in any type of sexual act with someone just for their benefit (such as a girl going to visit a guy to give him a blow job and then leave, with no intention on getting anything in return.)
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