Okay so i have gone out with alot of guys but none are really worthy of kissing. I have had my first kiss but not a makeout. I am scared. I dont no how to do it. How do i do a good makeout. People tell me it just happens but howwwwwww ahhhhh
Making out is pretty much like kissing except you open your mouth and move your tounge around. You usually will be kissing for a longer period of time, so be laying down or like close together. And put your hands around his neck or move them through his hair and he'll probably know what to do with his hands too. good luck!
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why would a guy want to finger a girl? does he actually get pleasure out of it? thanks.
Fingering a girl doesn't pleasure the guy, it pleasures the guy. A guy would want to do it so that he makes the girl happy. Plus, her moans & reaction to it probably turn him on too.
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well im 13 and ive had a boyfriend for like a month.
weve been like bestfriends for like 2 years so its nice and everything.
but weve only pecked 2 times, well weve only seen eachother 2 times sicne weve been going out.
but like i might go to my friends house with her boyfriend and me and my boyfriend, like we'd probably make out.
and ihavent before, so like any tips on what i should do like you know.
and is it weird for me to make the first move and if its not how do i do it.
thankss in advanced.
this is exactly how me and my boyfriend used to be :) and trust me it'll get easier. most guys like it when the girls make the first move, but it might be different for him. if you guys have been hanging out for a while w/ your friend her boyfriend and he hasnt made the first move, then you should. when you make out with a guy, you go in and turn your head to the right, and he does the same. you can kiss first, and then slightly open your mouth. if he doesnt get the hint, open it wider, and then stick your tounge in his mouth. if he pulls away, then stop, but if he doesnt, then just get more into it :) once you do it for the first time, it gets easier. for your hands, you can put your around his neck, or cup your hand on his chin. :) good luckkk!
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Okay you dont know how much I hate my life. I moved away from my life to a different state and I live in this hick town and it seems like everyone secretley hates me and a lot of people arent allowed to hang out with me because of things i said ( i get mad easily) and my so called friends told everyone i was cheating on my boyfriend with my best friend ben and christian. ben and christian had both asked me out and i said no because i was with Ian and i love ian so much. but word got around and he believed them so he dumped me and it hurts. and i never have anything to look forward too. My grades are still good. and ian had recently told me he was mooving to colorado and he had moved here during the school year and I cant gt over it the last thing he had said about me was i was a ***** and he hated me. and my last chance to say goodbye left
Aw. I'm going to tell you the honest truth on this one, I can't fix your problem. But I can tell you that sometimes life seems really hard, but when one door closes another door opens. (corny, i know. but its true) In a year or so things will be back to normal. Try to be nice to people and dont be so paranoid about thinking they hate you. About the whole Ian thing, since he moved to Colorado and you're in love with him, keep in touch, but move on to other guys where you live. I hope this all works out for you and let me know how it goes.
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okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months. i'm not going to lie it hasn't been exactly the easiest relationship in the world but i think that happens to about everyone. we get into arguments about stupid little stuff that doesn't really even matter and it sucks because we both hate it, but it just doesn't stop. it's gotten worse lately, we both don't want to break up but feel we may need to if this keeps occuring. i just don't want to break up if it's over this stupid stuff. can anyone help please!?
the same thing happened to me and my boyfriend, except it'd only been 2 months. we broke up, still loved each other, and then ended up going back out again. my advice would be to not break up, because all you'll do is get back together and the time in between is very painful. love
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I came to a new school in April and met a great bunch of guys who are into the same music as me and who get me. They're really good friends with one of the young teachers we have, so they introduced me to him and we all usually hang out together at school.
I thought that I had a crush on the teacher but I left it thinking that he was just young and my hormones were going crazy (as a young girls do haha). The thing is, we got really close from April to June and he kept me after class once and we kissed.
We've been seeing each other, not a lot, but in secret this summer. He was at my house when one of my guy friends walked in on us kissing. Dave (my friend) is one of my best friends so I don't know if he will tell the rest of the guys but I don't know how to face him again...or whether I should keep seeing my teacher.
I think I love him and he says he loves me but..hes 8 years older than me. I don't want to cost him his job if word gets out but he says it doesn't matter. What do you think...should I keep seeing him? (sorry if its all very confusing)
thanks!
-erika
What grade are you in? If your a senior, which I'm doubting, then maybe you could just wait until you graduate to start seeing him again. But, if you arn't then you need to face Dave again and ask him to not tell anyone. If you really love him, then don't tell anyone and see him in secret. This is a very hard situation. Good luck.
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i'm 14/f
there is a guy i like that likes me but i'm too shy to say anything and he is too.(he also doesn't know that i like him) i really want to say something but i don't know what.
what do think i should do?
thanks a lot
if you really like this guy then i would not exactly tell him, but give hints. if he has a screen name to talk to him on there, or at school. if he gives hints he likes you back, go for it. good luck :]
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My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.
I can see how your jealous. I would be jealous and also kind of mad if my boyfriend did that. Comment your boyfriends pictures and see if he comments you back and says something like that. Ask him what's going on between him and your friend. Just don't accuse him of cheating, or he might get mad.
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Well, I really do need advice. This has been something that's been bothering me for so long.
I have a friend that is a boy, named David. I really really like him, you see. I asked him if I had any chance at all and he said 'sorry, no.' After this I was devastated but kept him as a good friend.
Lately it's so confusing as to whether he wants to be my friend or not! He is really mean at some points, and then he's really really nice. He even asked me to visit him at work, and go to his beach house with my friend, Molly.
Sometimes I like to think maybe I have a chance with him, and my friend insists that things can change. But I'm not even sure if he's my friend!
Help? Is he my friend or a soon to be something more?
P.S. We are both 14 years old.
The smart thing to do would be to say to him, "lately, it's been giving me the idea that i've had some sort of a chance with you. can you tell me if i do, because i don't want to keep going on wondering," or something like that. good luck with him.
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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?
If you don't want to, then don't. If this boy really loves you then he'll understand. A guy asking a girl that is pretty gross to me.
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Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.
Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists.
If James hates you for no reason he's probably not the best guy for you. I'd try to talk to him, and if he is just so not interested in you, I'm sorry but you're going to have to find another boy. If this kid is making you cut yourself, it's just not right. Please stop cutting yourself. It's not good for you or for anybody else. There ARE a lot of fish in the sea. I know, I know, it's corny...but think about it. It's true :)
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ok well me and my "bf" want to go somewhere special and we dont want to go to the movies been there done that to many times! and not my house b.c heres the thing i want to tell him i love him for the first time!! and he has something to give me and things like that so not my house to many people, there is like 8 people there. not his house his mom is all over his kids when girls coome over, well thats what he said. so any ideas its tongiht or tomorrow but i need answers quick thanx!
You could go bowling, or to a theme park. Or you could just go out to eat at a nice restaurant. Actually it doesn't have to be nice, it can just be like a diner. It depends what you want to do. If you want entertainment or something then go to bowling or a theme park. If you want it to be romantic you could go to a park and have a picnic or somewhere like that. Have Fun!
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this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!!
If you don't like him, then don't go out with him. It's as simple as that. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that's the way it is.
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