does he like me as a friend, or maybe something more?
Question Posted Saturday August 12 2006, 11:06 pm
Well, I really do need advice. This has been something that's been bothering me for so long.
I have a friend that is a boy, named David. I really really like him, you see. I asked him if I had any chance at all and he said 'sorry, no.' After this I was devastated but kept him as a good friend.
Lately it's so confusing as to whether he wants to be my friend or not! He is really mean at some points, and then he's really really nice. He even asked me to visit him at work, and go to his beach house with my friend, Molly.
Sometimes I like to think maybe I have a chance with him, and my friend insists that things can change. But I'm not even sure if he's my friend!
Help? Is he my friend or a soon to be something more?
orphans answered Sunday August 13 2006, 1:10 am: I think that you should talk to him and tell him about your feelings and thoughts of the situation and ask him if you two are still just friends or if you could be something more. He could have changed his mind, but be prepared if he hasnt. Consider him a close friend for now until you get to talk to him, and he tells you what he thinks. I really hope things work out for the best for you. Good luck. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
ask_kendall answered Sunday August 13 2006, 12:57 am: The smart thing to do would be to say to him, "lately, it's been giving me the idea that i've had some sort of a chance with you. can you tell me if i do, because i don't want to keep going on wondering," or something like that. good luck with him. [ ask_kendall's advice column | Ask ask_kendall A Question ]
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