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So,the boy I like came to the basketball court.And me and my friend were the first one's there.So then like 4 or 5 of his friends come too.And then we were all like chillin and playing some basketball.Then the whole time I was there, frome when I got to the court and he left he was trying to make me laugh,he kept looking at me,he tried to impress me,and he was laughing with me.Are those signs of flirting?I want to know what it means.Thanks for anyones advice. (link)
well that means he is flirting.. if he is trying to make you laugh and trying to impress you or looking at you and laughing with you then he does like you and one ? does he know you like him?


im female and im 15.

so i like this kid who i've been hanging out with lately.
how can you tell if guys like you?

also, i know this might be a weird question.. but i've never really made out before and i don't wanna seem like a complete idiot when i do, so do you have any advice on that?

thanks in advance. (link)
To answer your first question, does he look in your eyes and smile when yall are together. Does he ever like bump into you maybe on perpuse when yall walk side by side, that means he wants to hold hands. or when yall sit beside eachother, does he look like hes sitting his hand beside yours alot, as if he was scared to go for it right away, cause if so, that means he wants you to grab his hand, cause he dont know that he should do it, cause he doesnt know if you want him to. Also, does he come to you alot or are you usually the one going to him. If he comes you to you first, alot, then that strikes me as someone who likes to talk to you and see you.

Hope I helped!


ok well its sort of a long story...
first of all ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. we get along extremely well and ive never felt so comftrable around a guy like him. i truly love him and i'd give anything for him & he would too....he used 2 be a player but im pretty much his 1st girlfriend and i doubt that he would be playing with me if he introduced me 2 his whole family...right? the thing is lately we have been having problems..first on saturday i saw he had called his ex fu*k around his baby b0o & it got me sooo mmaadd...then on sunday i found out he gave his number to some other girl...he didint know i knew her but now he does and he said he didint wanna talk 2 her but she asked for his number....anyways 2day some profile [wich i believe is fake] on myspace sent me a message talking about watch out cuz he talking to steph [his x fu*k around] & he telling her he knows he fucked up but hes sorry and all this sh*t...i told him about everything and he says that he never said that but the typing seemed so much like he usually types;/ its driving me crazy not knowing if i should hold on 2 him because they may be haters or if i should let go and try and look 4 someone whos not full of drama but i cant i cant see myself with anybody else...i mean guys will be guys but what if theres more to that? what should i do????? (link)
I dont know if you should trust him or not cause i dont know much about his relationship, but trust me, once a player, always a player. you need to be careful though because if he hurts you real bad, you may lose the ability to ever trust a guy again.


Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up last year..we were going out for a month and two weeks..and broke up because my friend kept putting drama in between us. Its been a while sense we broke up and i think i still love him? I had fallen for him sense i first met him and yea. My friends still ask me if i like him and i say no, but i do. Everyone thought we made a good couple when we were going out, and now he's going out with this other girl and he says he doesnt like me anymore..so..i really need some help in thiss. (link)
I'm guessing hes your first real love. Cause those are the ones that take longer to get over. I just think you should find someone else who makes you happy. You will get over him one day, I promise. Trust me, I went through the same thing but me and my old bf went out for about 4 monthes or maybe 5 and he broke up with me right when I go out of the hospital and I never got over, until a few monthes ago. Trust me, it'll all work out!


this week im telling my boyfriend that im leaving in June to move from PA to Kansas. he already knows there is a high chance but now im officially telling him. its gonna be really hard and i want to write a poem (i love to write) but idk what to write about. how i love him, how i wont forget him, or how im so, so, so sorry. can anyone please help me and maybe give me some tips on telling him. thanks so much :) (link)
I am very sorry you are going through this but I think a poem is a great way to tell him and show that you care. I think you should right about how you wont forget him and how yall shared something real special that you will never let go of. And also you can throw in that he'll always take a special place in your heart.

Good Luck! I hope I helped!


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Everyone in my french class seems to think my teacher's daughter likes me. Im starting to think so too... One day, a week or so ago, she sat by me in class when she used to sit on the other side of the room, but one day she decided to sit next to ME. Not any one else in the class, cause there was plenty of seats to sit in, but ME.

she is pretty good looking, but im not the greatest looking guy in the world. But i think it would be awkward dating my teachers daughter.. Should i feel this way? if not, then why do i?

Help? (link)
maybe you're just unconfadent about yourself. I think you should go for it. If she likes you then she either thinks your cute or dont care about your looks so you shouldnt either.


normally, me and my girlfreidn talk on the phone everyday. When we dont, we are ussually texting. The other day, she dropped her phone and she couldnt see anything on the screen. But the phone worked, as in you could navigate around if you knew where everything was. So basicly, this happened on thursday. So we talked thursday night, and then yesterday, i text her asking if she was ok. She didnt text back, but she rang me at night, asking if i was ok, and that she was at the pub and that she'll try to text me later on. I was cool with it, and carried on with my day.she didnt text. So today i text her, asking if she's ok, but she hasnt text back or anything, and her phone must be working because she rang yesterday. What should i do? i havnt heard from her all day, and yesterday night? i cant go over and see her because she's quite far away at the moment. any tips? (link)
I feel for you. i hate to hear that cause Im goin through the same thing. but you should probaly talk to her about asap.


Okay, so I met this guy last year and right now we're friends. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about him, and I go out of my way to pass him in the hallway at school, and I'm always checking my buddy list to see if he's on..etc.

I'm thinking I might have a crush on him or something..But the strange thing is that i can't actually picture a relationship with him. Like I wouldn't say yes if he asked me out and all I want to do is stay friends.

Can someone explain to me what's going on here? Because I'm really confused. =( (link)
Maybe you're scared of ruining yalls friend ship or maybe you just wanna know that he likes you too.


hi,

well me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year.. he told me a few months ago when we were talking that he would never look up porn when he has a girlfriend.. then just recently i found porn sites in his history on his computer! i confronted him about it and he admitted that he was bored and had a look. he promises me that since then he has not looked up porn nor does he even look at other girls like at school or on the street. My friends say that all boys are the same and no matter what they cant help but look at porn and other girls. My boyfriend tells me hes different..

is he telling the truth????..

i believe him, but then again i dont????


its hard...

hope anyone can help.
thnkyou (link)
Maybe he is tellin the truth but hun, honestly its not that adnormal for guys to look at porn. It's just like a girl masterbating. The entress in looking at porn is pretty uncontrolable. Just like girls playin with themselves. I think your bothered by it more than you should be. But if he says he's not doing it anymore then you should trust him. But if he is, even though its not a bad thing to do, he shouldnt be lying to you, thats what you need to worry about.


I reallly reallly like this guy and this is what i need help doing :

. i want his guy to notice me (not slutty)
. I want him to relize i like him

What do i do!!!!

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just have little conversations with him. and after a while you could tell him you like him. and if your a little younger, then it wouldnt be too stupid to tell your to talk to him for you.


18/f. There's a kid that really likes me, and I like him too. We have alot in common and get along really well, and we can talk for hours on AIM. But whenever we talk in person, it's like really awkward. There are always awkward silences and it's just weird because we just like talk about the weather and stuff. I think it's just because we're nervous around each other, but now he wants to ask me out and I feel like I shouldn't say yes because you should be comfortable around your boyfriend, right? But he's really nice and not a jerk at all. I don't know. How can I make things less awkward? (link)
Maybe yall like eachother so much right now that yall dont wanna say anything infront of eachother that may destroy anything... cause when you're that scared, your not very confident about what you may say. but i think if yall tryed goin out, maybe yall will become more confortable with eachother. Maybe you should just give it a try.


Well this sunday me and my boyfriedn will be going out for a year . But last night we broke up with me , He said i was to jelous and he couldnt take it anymore . And he told me he wanted to break up and it broke my heart , really did . Then this morning he called and ask if i was going to school and i asked him why he broke up with me and he said he doesnt know what he wants right now . At schoolwe still walked together and then 2nd period he put his arm around me and kiss my head and said we'll talk about this later. Then going to 4th he pulled me to the side and grabbed my hand and said baby i dont want to break up i just didnt like the way things were going and i want to change things. So he said were still together kissed me and walked off , but we still needed to talk and stuuff because between classes wasnt long. So at lunch we talked and he said he felt bad breaking up but being without me made it worst . i said i was sorry for being overly jelous & he apologized about breaking up . Im just scared its going to happen again . It broke my heart so bad i couldnt and still cant eat. ShouLd i give it another go or am i just getting played ? i really love him i want it to work but im keeping my gaurd up . thanks . (link)
Just take it easy. And thank you for the rate!


man i got this girl that i been with for 3 yrs and she the only person i want to be with. recently we broke up for four months and i guess in that four months she like someone else. she called me and told me she still loves me and that she wants to be with me. i still love this girl but i remember everything she put me through in the 3 yrs and i know what i put her through. i could find a millon reasons why she should not be togather but i dont care becuase i love her and i know she is the right girl for me. i just dont want to put her through problems. we are both still young and we have our lives ahead of us. what should i do please help. should i call and try and make us one again or should i let her go and hope love will pull her back in. (link)
I think that you should rush into things. Or push yourself into things. Its a good idea to let go and if yall are ment to be, it'll happen on its own. But be careful, cause you love her so much which means if you dont get out now or if you do get back together and yall dont work out, you may not feel ok to ever date again.

Hope I helped!!=)


How do I snog someone if I never snogged before?
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just be confident. its just like french kissing.


k so there's this boy in 2 of my classes that i like alot.. he's soo hott. well he doesn't really talk to me in class.. & he's kinda full of hims self but he can be sweet sometimes.. but yea we only talk during class when we're alone in the hallway or on myspace.. well on friday he asked me if i wanted to hook up with him on myspace.. & i asked him i its a joke and he wuz like naw im for real.. & i wuz like uhh okay. & then i told him to meet me at the park except for i told him the wrong one & thats why he wasn't there.. well he said he was but it was the wrong park.. & yeahh & i asked him why he'd wanna hoook up with me cuz like he's kinda this popular jock i guess u could say.. & he told me that he's always wanted to.. so is tht a sign that he likes me? & also should i just tell him that i like him? haha and also today in class he was looking at me but i turned around so yeahh.. i really want to but i mean we barely talk soo i dunno help!! please!!! (link)
yeah i think he likes you but you need to make sure he wont ignore you arround his friends.


maybe this is totally wierd and it dosent happen to anybody else, but whenever im really close to or dancing with a guy i like, afterwards my legs start shaking like insane! why is that? andd how do i stop it?!

thanx! (link)
its like getting butterflies in your stomache. its a good thing.


I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and last month we kinda swapped rings (we're both metal heads, so it's not like he's walking around with a heart ring :P) so I have one of his, which I know means a lot to him, and he has mine, which also means a lot to me. So we each have the others one of most valued possessions.
When my friends found out some of them said ''wtf..that's gay''
but others thought it was sweet and stuff.

So I'm wondering what do most of you think?
And we are intending to be together for a long time, I love him a lot! 15/f
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THANKYOU FOR THE RATE.


i know you cant control on how people look at you or i know you cant make people like you.... but how do i get a guy to like me??? or some advice on getting anyone to like me.... (link)
just talk to a guy. and dont be pushy. and when you want a girl to be your friend, just talk to her and make her laugh and she'll think your pretty cool.


okay, so i really like thss guy like alot. and he likes me too. and we've made out a few times before. but his best friend is my somewhat of an ex.. and how am i going to be able to hang out with him if his best friend is always with him?! i mean i know he should understand but it's just going to be so akward.

but me and bob ( the guy i like ALOT) are really hitting it off. we were first best friends now, more. and he's the most amazing thing..

HELP?! (link)
I really think you should go for it, but ask him first, will it do anything to destroy his friendship with your ex. If he says it wont, then you should defenently go out with him.


so here is d sitution , i love this girl n she also loves me a lot. earlier she had a boyfriend for a short period of time, n then thery broke up(long story). now i met this guy and he claims to have had sex with her but she is denying it. by the look of it the boy dosnt seem so friendly but still i dont know how to confirm if he is not telling lies. my girlfriend claims that she is virgin. but m stuck........is there any way how exactly i can come to some conclusion???????
p.s. i am 19 and my girlfriend is 18. (link)
most guys who go arround saying stuff about it are usually lying. i think you should believe your gf. and i really dont think she would keep something like that from you.




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