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I need help getting over him.
Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up last year..we were going out for a month and two weeks..and broke up because my friend kept putting drama in between us. Its been a while sense we broke up and i think i still love him? I had fallen for him sense i first met him and yea. My friends still ask me if i like him and i say no, but i do. Everyone thought we made a good couple when we were going out, and now he's going out with this other girl and he says he doesnt like me anymore..so..i really need some help in thiss.
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I'm guessing hes your first real love. Cause those are the ones that take longer to get over. I just think you should find someone else who makes you happy. You will get over him one day, I promise. Trust me, I went through the same thing but me and my old bf went out for about 4 monthes or maybe 5 and he broke up with me right when I go out of the hospital and I never got over, until a few monthes ago. Trust me, it'll all work out!
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Right down every negative thing that you can think of about him. Anything from the clothes he wore, his personality quirks, that disgusting zit on his face, the fact that he doesn't like a great girl like you. Everything and anything. The more the better.
Every time you think of him, read that list. Again if you have to. Make copies of it and put them on your mirror, on your ceiling, everywhere. It should help.
~Maria, 17
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I know exactaly how you feel, and if he was a great guy, then you probably do still have feelings for him. You have to tell your friends that YOU like him, and they should support you or ask them if they could just not talk about it anymore, because you have no intentions of breaking up. (If you get back together with him.) Make sure that if you guys get back together you spend some time with your friends too. But dont let them be the cause of your breakup. My friends used to have a prob with my bf also. But I (nicely) just told them that I really like him, and they should just give him time, but to please stop talking about him badly right in front of me/to me. You can do it, and my personal advice would be to get back together with him, because you clearly like him. :-)
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Well think about how he really did treat you while your friends were creating drama, because there might be something behind that. And if he says he doesn't like you anymore, get over that loser he's a jerk.
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