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its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?! (link)
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ok firstly you need to get one on one with him, and if he wont listen to you you might have to trick him into that, have one of your friends invite him to a movie for you and tell them to meet at her house, make sure it is one of the friends that is on YOUR side, and have them help you out as you talk to him. secondly you will need to plan out WHAT you want to say to him, personally i think you should start with some thing like "im sorry for flirting with guys but it just come natural to me" and work from there, because it is always best to tell the truth,every thing, and after youtalk abou that for a while ask him if he still likes you, if he says yes, ask him out, if he says no then dont let it get you down, your young on you have your WHOLE life to search fpr that some one you really love, hope this helps , byes
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Hi my name is Vanessa. I live in the UK although all of my family are in South Africa. My husband is English and we have a little boy who is 14 months.
Where to begin. My husband and I have been having A LOT of problems over the past year. The birth of our son has put a lot of strain on our relationship to the point that we no longer have a relationship.
I no longer want him to touch me, we fight all the time. He is constantly calling me names. I am constantly putting him and his family down.
I have always been a little unstable. I have a history of drug abuse (3 years ago now) I was anorexic for a few years (5 years ago) I am slightly depressive and latley, I can feel myself getting more and more unable to cope.
I am in a lot of debt and that brings about a lot of financial stress. Instead of supporting each other, we use each others problems as ammunition when we argue.
I am very needy and I desperaly want someone to love me and touch me and look after me. I would not be able to cope on my own and moving to South Africa is not an option because of the debt that I am in the UK.
I need a realtionship where I am supported but I know I will not get it from my current husband. He will not go to a therapist because he can not open up to people. He says that I have made him that cold and suppressed. I don't think that is true.
We are both unhappy and have needs that are not being met. The solution would be to move on but how can I with a small baby and no friends or family in the uk??? I think that I would fall apart on my own. I think I would drive myself mad. I have done it before.
I have thought about therapy but I can not afford a therapist! I can not go on the NHS (free medical care) because that will go on my record and my husband has told me several times that he will fight for custody for our son and he will use my instability against me.
I love and cherish my son. He wants for nothing. I give him everything he needs and everyone I know says that I am an unbeliveably good mother who lives for her son. I would never in a billion years hurt him. I do fear that my husband will take him away from me if I see a therapist on the NHS.
I need a solution. Some advice. Someone that can put themselves in my situation and help me to figure out what I should do next.
I am desperatly unhappy :( Please help :)
Thanks for your time!
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omg i dont even know where to start... firstly i think you should talk to yur family and tell them what is going on is there any way u can do that? because your family should always be there for you, secondly you definatly need to devorse your husband, i mean if you really feel that you cant work it out, but only do that as a last resort, you also should try and have an adult conversation with him, no yelling, no fighting, just talking, just sit down and say i really need to talk to you about this and make it clear that you dont want to start a fightas for the money issue i dont know what to say, i am sorry but i do think you should some how get involved with your comunity, join a club or something, when you are out of your house it will be easyer to think and you wont be so sad, and who knows you might even make some freands:) well thats all i amve rite now... i really hope this helps you
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I really need help. Ok there's this guy I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. Well, I think he likes me because his friend told my brother that he likes me. And all the signs are there too. But there's something telling me I shouldn't like him. I don't know why though. I mean we're friends, his brother is friends with my brother, he's really nice, cute, funny, and a great athelete. But I have a feeling that something bad will happen if he finds out that I like him and we start going out. What should I do?
P.S. I'm 13 (link)
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hmmm sounds interesting.. well if in your heart you feel that you really souldnt go out with him then i would trst that.. i had a feeling about a gut like that befor and it turned out he cheeted on me.. but if you just cant get over him maybe you should go for it, life is all about trial and error... hope this helps!
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So i am going to my bf's tomorrow and we want to do something out of the ordinary. What would be a fun activity for the two of us to do that we wouldn't normaly do? Thanks in advance (link)
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ok it depends on what you "normaly do" are you sexualy active? because i dont know! lol sorry about that just clearing that up....ok when im with my boy friend i like kiss him in that corner of his neck..lol guys like that...i think you can figure ot why lol
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Well I was wondering if you could share your first kiss or kiss stories with me like what to do during one where to have one etc. I haven't had one yet (obviously) lol but I was just curious to know if you'd share yours please
Thanks
B.
P.S I'm 13/F (link)
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my first kiss was very interesting...and it actually to me wasnt engoyable because i was kinda waiting for it... and when it came i got kinda s\cared, the key is to just chill and now anticipate it...or else it might land on ur nose...speeking from experience..lol well hope this helps u!
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I kissed a boy today (no he's not just a random boy) haha and when we made out he didn't close his eyes. I usually close mine. Is NOT closing your eyes normal? (link)
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ok it kinda depends...my boy friend kinda prtends to close them... idk guys are kinda wierd...its just how people feel comforable...
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