hey im amy and im 13 and live in michigan. i have the best friends in the world, and could nevereverever live without them!! i like to give advice..so ask me anything!!! i will give you my opinion..take it or leave it!!!
E-mail: amyy789@yahoo.com
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Age: 13
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I'm a bit older than the people that usually answer questions on this sight. I'm 28 and my girlfriend will be 27 in about a week.
We have been dating for about 7 months when I was in medical school in Cincinnati. I had to move to Rhode Island to start my residency, but she stayed in Cincinnati. I love her and I miss her terribly.
It gets difficult because my family is from a very traditional Indian family (Asian Indian), who do not believe in cross culture dating (or anything fo the sort). My girlfriend is caucasian. I kept the relationship secret for a while, but then I told my parents. My vacation is comign up and I want to spend it with her, but now my mum says that if I go to see her- she will not let me see my family anymore. I would be disowned. I love my family, but I love my girlfriend, and this is really tearing me up inside.
I don't know what to do, personally I wish I coudl just leave everything and everyone behind, but this is really affecting everything- my heart, mind, and soul.
What do you think that I should do? (link)
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if i were you, i would go for the family UNLESS you are sure taht this girl is like, the one. because what if in the end, things dont work out between you and the girl, and you become girl-less and family-less? that wouldnt be very comforting. good luck. i hope you make the right choice
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My very best childhood friend, Lee, had been liking me since sixth grade... and I like him too. But the problem is, it seems to me like we're not meant to be together. Because like in sixth grade, we pretended to like other people because we were too shy to tell each other about our feelings. (It ended up with me going out with other boy) Then I moved to other school in seventh grade and he went out with a high school girl because he was depressed that I was gone. And I, heard that he was going out with other girl, went out with my sister's friend. Then, in eight grade, again, he went out with other girl because I wasn't there, and I just thought that we were never meant to be together. But then he broke up with that girl and finally confessed his love that he had been hiding from everyone since sixth grade. What do you say? Do you think it's too late? Or just never meant to be together? (link)
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try it out than see if it works or not. if not, then whatever, its not meant to be. its obvious that you both want eachother and just really shy, but since he came out and said he liked you then just go with it and see what happens
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so for starters -- we'll call me jen, and my boyfriend jim. jim asked me out, and for some reason i knew that everything would be really awkward. since we're friends, and turning into more than that is weird. but we dont act like boyfriend - girlfriend people do, or, we havent gotten a chance to since he just asked me out last night ... but whenver we talk online & say goodbye it just ends as 'kk bye' or 'g2g bb' or something with no meaning. and we have nothing to talk about lately, mainly because of pressure, even thought im not sure what from. we were talking about clocks today. yes, clocks. and it all seems so, artificial. and i just want to break up with him, but if i do that, we probably won't be friends. any ideas? not sure what about -- just, ideas. or opinions. thanks xx.
& of course ill rate. (link)
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well if i were you id wait it out and maybe after a few days youll be more comfortable with him as your bf and stuff, but if it doesnt turn out like that, just be like, i dont think this is working out---maybe being friends is better than girlfirend/boyfriend. hell understand. maybe he feels the same way? but still...wait and see what happens before you do anything you might not want to. it could still work out..just be flirty and stuff around him so its not like a *just friends* kinda thing. hope this helps!
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okay,first of all i'm a 14 year old female in 8th grade. sorry if this is long, but let me try to explain my situation:
to start out, i didn't really like this guy, but then one these two girls (who happened to be both of his ex-girlfriends) came up to me and asked me if i liked him. i told them no. Then they told me that they think we would make a really cute couple. So that got me thinking. Then that same day one of my best friends asked me if i liked that guy because i was talking to him. I told her the same thing i told the first two girls, no. Once i started talking to him more i started to think that he liked me, so i started liking him too. like this one time on the bus i came on the bus and just kidding told him that he was sitting in my seat. he realized that i was kidding but said sorry and said that i could sit next to him in the seat. i thought he was kidding so i laughed and saids that's ok. did he really want me to sit next to him? and does that mean that he likes me? then one night when i was out to the movies with my friend he came to my house with 3 other guys friends to see if i could hang out, but my dad told him that i was out. sorry this is so long, but i'm almost finished. then last night my school had a school dance. it was the last slow song of the night and he asked this other girl to dance, but the girl didn't really want to dance with him so she told me to dance with him. i danced with him for a little bit. but for some reason he thought it would be funny to dance with like 5 girls in one song. so he danced with me for like 20 secs, then another girl, then another girl, then back to me for like another 20 secs. Then before the song even ended his friend ran over to him and told him he had to dance with this other girl from 7th grade. so he just stopped dancing with me to dance with this other girl. i thought he was being rude at the time, but maybe he just felt bad for the other girl.
so my final question: does he like me?
thanks!
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honestly i really dont know if he likes you or not. if i were you i would straight up ask him, but im not sure if you dont want to like if tht would be akward just ask one of your friends to ask him/ask his friend if he likes you. guys are so confusing you never know wahts going on in their heads! i hope this helps
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okay, so when i was younger if i liked a guy i would be a total idiot to them. i mean... i would be really terrible (making fun of them and stuff) but when i was in fourth and fifth grade that was what everyone did so it was cool. unfortunatley now that kinda ruined my chances w/ them. all of my other friends have guy friends but most guys who used to like me just think of me as the bitchy girl from 5th grd. how do i change this? (link)
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well, it will take time and stuff, but do really nice things for them or around them, and make sure they see you doing something nice and never something mean, so then after a while theyll be like woah she changed! i hope this helps!
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Well the happiest thing happened to me... I found the love of my life... I love his family his family loves me vise versa... But the only problem is he lives next door... Ya some people are like thats the tightest thing ever... But it is a hassle sometimes when i wanna go out with the girls and its like i have 2 sets of parents... One weekend i went to a party with my friends and i came home at 12:30 and his parents were all pissed cause he wasnt with me... I dunno... But i love him though... And his parents think we are getting married... They told him to wait till after graduation to get married and we have been going out for like 2 months? that kinda creeps me out... What should i do?? (link)
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omg yeah thats kinda like really werid
if i were you i would talk to him and make sure he knows that you arent thinking of marraige yet since its so early in the relationship, and that you want to wait until your positive you want to get married to him. hopefully hell understand!
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should your boyfriend/girlfriend come before your best friend?
please explain too ♥ thanks. (link)
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NOOOO boyfriends never last but your friends will be there forever, and if you spend all your time with your boyfriend, your friends will feel second handed to the boyfriend, so when you and your boyfriend break up, you might not have your friends back!! i hoip ehis helped
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I was just "dumped" by my girlfriend of 4mnths. I feel rotten about the whole thing. I mean we were close. We were in love. My heart is shattered. I feel hurt. How does she feel. I know its an awkward question. But how do women feel after breaking up with a guy. And how do I win her back. (link)
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if i were you, i would talk to her and explain that to her. but in the end, it will be up to her to get back together with you. i can see where shes coming from---not wanting you to have a pornsite, but she needs to realise that you love her. the only thing that you can do is hope.
i hope this helps!!! good luck =]
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Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old High School student with a situation. I have a female friend who is stuck in a pretty tough life. I don't know what to do. She was put in a psychiatric hospital for about two weeks about a couple months ago, and she told me that the doctors are going to put her back for at least 6 months to a year.
The situation is that her family is pretty messed up. They don't even really care about her that much. I am her best friend at the moment, and I have and am helping her get through these tough times.
She really likes me, and I really like her, and she and I want a relationship when things clear up. The problem is that she might end up in the psychiatric hospital again or she might be moving far away.
I don't know what to do. She is getting over a lot of her issues and problems and putting them in the past behind her. I am trying to get advice as to what I can do to maybe convince the doctors or something along those lines so she doesn't have to go away to the psychiatric hospital and maybe give things a chance to clear up.
I don't know her doctors or counselor personally, but I am just desperate to try anything to change their minds. Thanks for reading this. I apologize for it being so long. Thank you again.
Todd (link)
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im sorry this is totally not what you want to hear, but in order to give her the best life possible, she might have to be sent to the hospitals to get better. my advice to you is to support her and let her know that everything is gonna be alright. if she ends up going to the hospitals, you should visit her (if its not to far) and/or call her and send her letters. just make her feel special! she WILL get through this! help her to think positive and let her know that you will always be there for her AND MEAN IT!!! good luck to you both!
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ok so I just found out my x bf has a gf and he told one of my rly good friends he also said not to tell anyone if that matters at all. but she told me and now i feel like i rly need a bf but I dont want one just to get back at him. I've liked this other guy for like almost a year now. and we dont rly talk but we go to the same church and we see eachother like every single sunday and wednesday. my friends say they think he likes me but I dont kno what to do! I rly want a bf. please help!
xo K (link)
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well if i were you i would start to talk to this other guy you like, and find out how he feels about you and just get to know him! if things feel right then, when the time is right then he will [hopefully] ask you out!! but, well depending on your age..you didnt say...its not the most important thing to have a boyfriend. it might seem like it is cuz everyone practally has one, but dont just do what everyone else wants!!--just for future advice cuz i can tell you really like this guy
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There is this guy I like...we'll call him Chris. He's really funny, and I think I might like him. I've known him for a month or two now. The problem is, I don't act myself when I'm around guys that I like. I also don't know how to flirt and seem appealing to them. So in the end, I make a complete fool of myself trying to impress Chris and being someone I'm not. Is there something that can help me stop acting so crazy? Also, how do you know when to tell a guy that you like him? Or are you not supposed to do that? Ah, I just need boy help in general! If there is someone out there who would be willing to talk to me on AIM and give me pointers, that would be great... (link)
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of course..this is something that happens to every girl sometime. you definatly need to be yourself, and if chris doesnt like the real you, then too bad for him! he missed out, and there are a ton of great guys out there that will love you for YOU-not someone to try to be. my screen name is livelov3laugh287 if you ever need anything! i hope this helped you
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ok so here is my problem.. i have a girlfriend whos really nice and i like her alot but i like one other girl alittle bit also. i mean of course i like my girl friend more but i like this other girl a little bit. i feel like i am being unfair to my girlfriend especialy seeing how this other girl likes me too. what should i do? (link)
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well i totally agree...it is NOT fair to a girl to like someone else while you are going out with her. if i were you i would just push the other girl aside for a few days and focus on your girlfriend. if you really feel like you like this other girl a lot then i think you should do something about it. if i were you i would explain to your girlfriend your situation and see how she feels. most likely, she wont like that, im sorry to say. but hey, its better than pretending you dont like that other girl! good luck i hope this helps! -amy
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