okay,first of all i'm a 14 year old female in 8th grade. sorry if this is long, but let me try to explain my situation:
to start out, i didn't really like this guy, but then one these two girls (who happened to be both of his ex-girlfriends) came up to me and asked me if i liked him. i told them no. Then they told me that they think we would make a really cute couple. So that got me thinking. Then that same day one of my best friends asked me if i liked that guy because i was talking to him. I told her the same thing i told the first two girls, no. Once i started talking to him more i started to think that he liked me, so i started liking him too. like this one time on the bus i came on the bus and just kidding told him that he was sitting in my seat. he realized that i was kidding but said sorry and said that i could sit next to him in the seat. i thought he was kidding so i laughed and saids that's ok. did he really want me to sit next to him? and does that mean that he likes me? then one night when i was out to the movies with my friend he came to my house with 3 other guys friends to see if i could hang out, but my dad told him that i was out. sorry this is so long, but i'm almost finished. then last night my school had a school dance. it was the last slow song of the night and he asked this other girl to dance, but the girl didn't really want to dance with him so she told me to dance with him. i danced with him for a little bit. but for some reason he thought it would be funny to dance with like 5 girls in one song. so he danced with me for like 20 secs, then another girl, then another girl, then back to me for like another 20 secs. Then before the song even ended his friend ran over to him and told him he had to dance with this other girl from 7th grade. so he just stopped dancing with me to dance with this other girl. i thought he was being rude at the time, but maybe he just felt bad for the other girl.
On the bus, it sounds like he wanted you to sit with him. But it could've been just because he was being nice, or felt bad that he thought he took your seat.
With the dance issue, he was probably just trying to be a big shot in front of his friends. I also find that somewhat rude, but guys are guys, especially when their friends are around.
No one here really can answer your question, because we don't know what hes thinking or feeling. If you feel comfortable doing it, just ask him how he feels about you. Or if you don't want to be so forward about it, go somewhere with him and see what goes from there. If you really like him, give it a shot.
amyyy789 answered Sunday April 30 2006, 3:55 pm: honestly i really dont know if he likes you or not. if i were you i would straight up ask him, but im not sure if you dont want to like if tht would be akward just ask one of your friends to ask him/ask his friend if he likes you. guys are so confusing you never know wahts going on in their heads! i hope this helps <3 [ amyyy789's advice column | Ask amyyy789 A Question ]
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