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There is this guy "Z"... We have been friends since the begining of school and hes a really sweet guy. He has had a gf for almost 2 years now. So i never even looked at him that way. well they broke up about a month ago and he started talking to me more and more. I fell for him so fast. He can be a "flirt" with alot of girls and im well aware of a few girls that he "like(d)(s)"... We started hanging out every weekend, going to church togeather, youth group, ect. we were togeather most days. He kissed me (my first kiss) and i was so happy, and yet so sad because he wasnt my boyfried. well this went on for like 2 more weeks. Now he's back with his ex Girlfriend......... We still hang out every weekend, and still flirt, and this weekend he kept 'snuggling' with me. I dont understand what he wantss. Ive talked to him about it before he says hes never alowed to see his gf, so my thought is well whats the point then?! he says he doesnt know. We talk all the time, flirt, snggle, talk on the phone for hours and hours. It is the one thing in my life that makes me really happy. and yet every time we hang up, or he leaves, i feel so sad. i feel like im a bad person because he has a gf, i feel like im setting myself up to be hurt but i cant stop my self...... I dont really have a question. but i need some advise. I hate feeling like im being stupid, but getting over him doesnt seem like an option. (link)
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Your worth so much more then to come 2nd to some guy. You should tell him that you really like him but you don't want to be 2nd choice anymore. That he needs to choose. And if he can't then that's still choosing because after that you should leave him alone for awhile. Maybe hell come to his senses maybe not. If not then get on w your life your still young and have a lot to experience.
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hi my names jamie im 18 and i like this guy, first i wanted to just be friends, but i am positive he likes me 2, (dont ask, its the most obvious reasons), and i am friends with his ex, but she is dating someone else. so i feel its the perfect time to date and sh*t. so i want to take things a day at a time, ya know get to know each other as budddies then date. I know he doesnt like anyone else, and beleive me hes set on me. so he hasnt asked for my number yet. When will he? we know each other for like a week (i know it seems like nothing) but we have a lot, alot of chemistry. and when will he ask me out? thanks (link)
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Guys love girls that can take control. So take control girl write your number down and tell him to call you sometime. Guaruntee hell be popping up on your caller id!
-#2- Just be confident. Maybe before you leave from hanging out with him. Just hand him your number right before you leave and say call me in that flirtacious way of ours. Then walk away hell get the message.
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please read i need help
is is possible to find love again? i am so scared that i will never find someone else. i have been trying. ever since my bf of 2 years broke up with me about a year and a half ago. my greatest fear used to be losing him and that already happend. now my new fear is never finding that special person who loves me respects me and would treat me right. people have said that he WILL come to you when you least expect it and to not go out looking for it because it will be when the time is right. im in my late teens and still young. im a good girl and i nice person. i dont know what to do. im so confused and feel so alone and im ready for that special someone but i just cant seem to find him. i dont know what to do. is there someone for everyone. what should i do ? (link)
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I went through something like this also. I took time to figure my self out it really helped in the long run. Your not focused on finding that guy just not thinking about it helps. Learning to be alone for awhile is a big step for self improvement
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ok so im 18/f and hes 19/m
i dont know why this is confusing me so much but it is. haha.
so i messaged him saying
' when i see you expect big tackle hugs'
and his response was
' haha okies =] from you...=]'
its the from you...=] part thats really confusing me. what does he mean by that? is it flirty?
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Yes. Its flirty. Ijust think he meant that yeah tackle hugs are okay but only if they are from you. ! Get it girl (:
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OK theres this guy his name is Jason! really I dont know too much about him considering I've only hung out with him for like a total of 2 weeks, and I've only known him for a little over a month. The first day I met him I was with my best friend to go hang out with her boyfriend and this guy jason just stood out to me. well anyways we stayed that night at his house and his kisses (undescribable)! Everyday for the next week after that I was around him. My problem though is that at night when we're in his room it's like we cared so much but the next day it was like nothing. maybe it was cuz when his friends asked me if I liked him I would say no just because it doesnt seem like Im the type of girl that could ever be more than a careless fling for him and I am scared of rejection! so anyways after that first week or a bit more I went about 3 weeks wuthout seeing him and just a couple days ago on my birthday I was hanging out with my friend mario and we ended up at jasons house that night.
The things I noticed that night was that in the week he was around me he saw and remembered things about me I never noticed. He could tell me exactly what I was thinking. and he made me happier than I have ever been with a guy. Then the next day it was like it didnt matter. I have two problems here. First one is its like when its just me and him he cares almost more than me but when we're around his friends he says he doesnt care. My second problem is I want to see him even if we can never be together but where he hangs out I dont know anyone really well there and I dont want to just wait for one of my friends to go around him for me to see him but I dont want to go there and not be wanted so what do I do? (link)
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I agree with the person under me except i think that maybe you shouldnt have told his friends that you didnt like him. And yeah guys act one way around around his friends bc hes try to seem cool around them. Doubt that helped but i tried haha
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hey guyz im 16/f ....and well theres this guy called jason and like we have been friends for a long time now and he has always 'liked me' in that kinda way =)..but we have always been just good friends...but now hes like 'i rly like you' and i rly duno how i feel about him =/ hes like the nicest guy ever and i kno he would not hurt me but its like i duno whether to date him b/c maybe hes just *too* nice for me and i dont wana hurt him so im like confused =/ i always get butterflies when im with him and like we flirt a lil but its just fun.....how do i kno if i like him like he likes me ??? (link)
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normally, i would advise you to just stay friends but in this case im advising you to just go for it. They always say, "the best lovers are just bestfriends on fire". To me it seems like you like him but are afraid to lose your friendship. If im wrong, sorry.
Hope, I helped :)
P.S. Anymore questions just ask :]
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I am returning to my country late in Feb.
Girl 1
Met on family trip. Spent day together walking around town, sharing looks, smiles, going "click". My father said he could see it even while around her parents.
Lives far away, so I haven't seen her. No English, and I am a slow writer, but we've shared short "Hey it's ... Remember me?"
"Yes, perfectly, I'm well..." messages.
I told her that I wanted to see her again before I leave, and she said O.k.
I won't see her for at least a year maybe longer before I come back from my home-town.
Girl 2
Found me (Going to my town for exchange study). Said she wanted to practice English, but speaks in her mother-tongue to me. Not reaching ignition. Been around her plenty, but don't feel like I can get near her personal space. Has come over several times for dinner, but we don't end up talking about personally important things. Stagnating, and don't want to turn the basis of our relation into inviting her for dinner. Hasn't invited me to her place. Only initiated one meeting, but it was on Christmas day, to give me a present of a personally-annotated novel (which I'd joked about ages ago). Annotating it must have taken ages, but I don't know if it's a friendly "I'll help you learn" thing, or an "I like you, look what I did for you" thing.
Only free time I have to visit Girl 1 is 10-20 of Feb.
Likes me in return. I could go be with her over Valentines day, but then I am throwing the day away in relation to Girl 2. It could be the death-knell of potential I have with her, and extremely awkward if she asked me to be her Valentine.
Considering asking Girl 2 to be my valentine to see if I can make the "relation" a "relation-ship", but will become awkward if she says no, and hurt potential for development. If she says yes, I would feel terrible seeing Girl 1, but I just want to so much.
a few sure days, or ambiguous long-term potential.
What do you think I should do?
Thanks (link)
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It seems to me that you like girl 1 more then girl 2. and my advice is whoever you think you like more go for them. by the way you've explained things it looks as if girl 2 would be a better friend to you. You shouldnt have to try to make it work if its meant to be it will just be. "True friendship grows even over the longest distances. The same goes for true love."
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how do you know if you have come across love and what is it anyways? (link)
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You'll just know when you've found it. Its hard not to know when you've come across it. And you come across love when you least expect it when your not looking for it every second of every minute of every day! hope i helped
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Me= 17-F
Boyfriend=17-M
bf brother=17-M
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now. A year ago before his brother got his girlfriend, He complained alot saying i was stealing his brother and we only hungout once a week if that because we live 40 minutes away and talked on the internet an hour or so nightly. Since he has got his girlfriend they hangout all the time because they go to school together and she is pretty much his only friend now because he doesnt make time for his friends. He always says things to me now about how crappy me and my boyfriends relationship is just because we dont go out and do things everytime we see eachother because we'd rather stay at home and relax together. It always ticks me off and he's made me cry twice because i feel horrible. But last 3 weeks ago (the last time i saw him) his brother told us that we shouldnt kiss as much because it means our relationship is all lust and crap because he believes everytime we go to his room we stay down there and makeout the whole time...when in reality we go down there and cuddle and watch movies and just be together yes we kiss but we dont makeout the whole time we are away from eachother for 1 to 3 weeks at a time and he complains when i say i miss him when he says it right after he gets off school when he saw her a whole 10 minutes ago.
I just want to know why he always makes me feel like shit i love my boyfriend so much but im tired of his brother making me cry and feel like crap.
just please tell me why you think he might be doing this...
i just want to understand why hes doing this to me when, when me and his brother first started dating he seemed to like me.
HELP!
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okay i was kinda in the same situation with my sister and just dont think anything of it because i was letting it get to me too and it only made me feel like crap so now i just tune out what my sister has to say about my boyfriend and me. hope i helped
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I reaally like this boy. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He stares at me in assembly sometimes, and when i look at him, he looks away.
Also when he's talking to his mates. they look at me?
im so confused. Does he like me? (link)
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girl he likes you! no doubt about it! i say go for it!!
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okay so i know we've all done it at one point or another, but see i met this boy...
i really like him but hes definitely the type of guy liked by EVERYONE and he knows it, and he loves to play mind games. he doesn't seem to be looking to commit, but hes also not a player he is the sweetest when it comes to girlfriends. its getting the gf status thats hard. i know that he likes me and im sure he wants me...thats not the problem. the problem is that i dont want to just give in to him so easily because i know him, and he WILL get bored. if we kiss, go out, hook up, w/e then in a week he'll be like 'alright were friends right?' and i want more than that. so i know this is really not the way to get someone...but i want to play his game. That's why i need advice...
what can i do to make him want me on a more serious level??? how do i play these mind games and do you think they can work? and please no lectures about how wrong this is because honestly its human nature to get bored if something is too easy we all do it. so in a way I'm just keeping things interesting. and besides, he does it too!
THANKS! =)
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well its hard to be specific if i dont know him or the way he acts but i do know the way to make him crazy is for you to not want him as much as every other girl or atleast make it seem that way to him. He'll keep wondering why almost every girl wants him except you. therefore he'll do more to get your attention and impress you. let me know if you need anything else just ask! hope i helped!
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I am a 17 year old male.
There is this girl who is a freshman and I am a senior.
I wanted to know if she is too young for me to date. (link)
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no. im in a similar situation and it worked out great between us! hope i helped!
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Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you? (link)
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! i mean i have that same situation i mean most of my friends are 16-20 and im only 13 buteveryone says i act way mature 4 my age and my boyfriend is 17 and yea. next year it will be illegal but it doesnt matter 2 me. besides i heard that if ur parent(s) or guardian is okay with it then noones doing aoything wrong and my ma approves of myboyfriend 100%
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14/f
I've heard the expression to 'Play hard to get' but how exactly do you do that? Like what are some things you do to play hard to get? Thanks (; (link)
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i agree to all these answers. and another thing that drives them crazy is when they like ask to go out say that ur busy even if u not and tell them reincheck? and look as innocent and irresistable as possible. :D
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