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Every girl wants Prince Charming...and while he may be nice and all...I'm thinking that I'd rather have the guy that's gonna call at 4am just to say hi, or someone who'll stop by my house- after just hanging up the phone- because he wants to see how I'm REALLY doing. Because I said I was fine, but we both know I'm lying. Or the guy who'll stay home on a Saturday night with me because I'm sick and bring me my favorite kind of candy...even though I can't eat it because my stomach flips at the idea. That guy- that one guy...he may not be Prince Charming to anyone else...but he'd be my hero. My "knight in shining armor." Anyone who'd rather stay home on a Saturday night and hold my hair back while I puke...that's a hero...
What is cute, cute is young and inexperienced, cute is holding hands in the car and kissing at the red lights,what is sexy, sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me with the intent to never stop; what is passion, passion is knowing what you want and stopping at nothing til you get it; what is beautiful, beautiful is about the inside of a person, beauty can only be found in the heart, passion is putting your heart in what you do, what is love, love is the amazing balance of all these things on your mind, heart, body and soul.
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
~Help me~ (link)
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thats just how u are nothing to be worryed about really i mean somtimes it just happend i mean my fist wasnt anything i wanna remember! lol there are tons of guys that ahvent too ur age!! its fine!! XoXO Sara
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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i think u should say what u told us to him...tell him that u just wnt ur summer N dont want to hurt him and if its alright nd if everyone has the same feelings when school starts up again things could be tryed again....just give him time to understand N take it cuz idk how he will!! hope i helped!! XoXO Sara
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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i think you should brke up with him or talk about it with him...i mean u should have a guy that wants his friends to know ur going out with him!! thats messed up! ushould get more!! xoxo Sara
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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I think ya just have to tell ur boyfriend to stop sending/showing them to u!! i mean he dsent have a chance with them like u said N he knows it but if he looks at it in his own time no just like everyone elses BF out there!! i think he'll understand!! XoXo Sara
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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well i dont know what signs you should look for cuz all guys are not the same with that some are most thouchy even if they dont like you!! they are weird like that! but i mean just take the leep i mean it might come out bad but ur still young and i mean maybe he likes u too! just no matter what happens try to stay friends!! hope i helped xoxo Sara
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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Hopeless, dont worry about it, a great guy isnt gonna just come up out of knowwhere and schools gonna start soon and theres sure to be a guy there i mean summers slow cuz u dont see or meet guys enough to like them...just dont worry and thats awsome your soo happy with yourself! keep it that way! xoxo Sara
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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
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Okay well my best friend went throught some hard stuff with some with this just dont think that its gonna last foreva!! i dont want you to get hurt like my friend did!!! just stay alert!! XoXo Sara
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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well if your falling theres almost nothing you can do because thats life and you are gonna have to go through some hard times...remember you have to hurt in order to grow!!!! i hope everytihng works out in your favor!! XoXo sara
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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alright...well IM him or E-mail him N start talking to him again if you think abotu him liek that maybe theres a chance he feels the same...just start talking again and stuff dont rush anything tho!...and if it dosent work out then theres always someone else!! XoXo Sara
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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its not like shopping...totally...just if u are attracted to a guy get to know him...and dont try to hard if he dosent like you theres someone out there that dose...and talk to them it will make them notice you...XoXo Sara
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Ok the thing that she was using him for was that we are both going to high schools in north philly but NOT the same school. She was using him because I don't know my way and she needs him to like be my body gaurd or something like that! (link)
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Oh i see thankx....im sorry, thats really unfair N stuff...
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There's this guy that I really like and I don't know what to do because I'm shy and don't even really talk to him but I like him soo much..Any suggestions on how to become closer to him? (link)
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alright i know its gonna be hard but u have to over come your shyness a bit..not al thte way, maybe bump into him in the hall...start by smiling, hi if u have a class or say u dont understand somthing find out whats hes into [music, hobbies, oppinions] bring them up if u like or agree with them..but dont change for him...never change for a guy unless its a flaw...i hope i helped...>>Sara
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Hey, i like this boy and i have like him on and off for about 3 years. he said he liked me twice, but they were at different times. but i didnt do anything about it. and now i like him alot and he doesnt know, i dont want to tell him because it would be really weird..and he would most likely take adavantage of me liking him. so what should i do? (link)
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okay..well if you like him this much i say tell him, i know that there could be a bad outcome but there could also be a good one, things may be weird but you guys can work throught that, and about the taking advantage of you, dont let him...guys that do that arent worth anyones time!! If ya got any more questins u know where to ask! Sara
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i like this girl, and she says shs likes me. we went out before but we broke up, she lied to me for the reason why but then i got the truth. i was mad at her for lieng to me andi didnt know what to do. so i didnt takl to her for a while. then she cdecided that she needed to talk, she said that she regreted breking up with me and she wanted me to take her back, but at the time i couldnt.
about a month ltr (now) i was hanging out with this girl and we were hugging and hanging out but i couldnt take it i had a wierd feeling. and then the girl popped into my head and i couldnt stop thinking of her. i rushed to her house and talked for a while then she let me come in side.i told her everything.we then started acting like nothing happened, we were friends again, and i was fine with that. then we started messing around i guess u call it flirting and we started to kiss. we kissed for a good time. but then my mom calls yelling at me to get home so i rush out.
the next day i asked her out and she said no, we taslked about it ltr that day but she didnt talk back, she said that i had bad timeing...
i want to go out with her and her best friend says that she feels really stong for me and she wants the same what should i do to correct what has happened... how do i winner her back? (link)
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Alright, well from what u have told me u guys seem like you can talk to eachother and thats very good! just keep talking to her flirting saying sweet things...[dont over do it] if she has stong feelings for you like her best friend said she did then somthing that u dont know about it maybe going on, do u know what she means by bad timeing?? ask if not...just dont give up!!...hope i helped!!! u know where to ask if u got any questions...Sara
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Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
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Alright...well see everytime you get hurt you seem to grow, you learn what went wrong and im thinking that u cant see any of the little hints wit this guy, well i think that there is a mr. right for everyone out there...everytime that you get a "mr. wrong" he will just [even if he hurts you] will make you stronger and know for sure when the "mr. right] comes along knocking at your window! i dont think that u could be toolder than me if u are, soo i mean u still have time...dont settle down to fast! alright i hope i helped! and if anything dose happen just girl one of ur girfriends a call N do a "girls night out" thing
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Ok my name is Tiana and I am a female and I am 14 years old. I have a boyfriend named Keith. Ok to cut a story really short my mom talked about my boyfriend behind his back and smiled in his face. I told my boyfriend what happened. He told his mom and his mom said that she was talking to my mom and she said tha what my mom was saying sort of sounded like she is using my boyfriend. Today he just dumped me and said I will still love you but I can't be with you until we become indepedent! I feel so hurt! Should I try to get him back. What should I do?????? (link)
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wow that is sad, theres 2 bad sides the BIG bad part is that your mom needs help...really! im not trying to be mean but normal moms dont go around using N braking up their 14 yearolders b/fs talk to her, ask her why she did that...and dose ur b/f think, your 14 u can become independent till ur 18 i thought...well talk to him to and explain urself...maybe theres somthing that can happen...um.. but i ahve one question, what was she using him for??
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okay well i really like this girl and i asked her out before and i kinda got a no out of that but i heard that if i ask her back out she will go out with me. i really dont want her to say no to me again. What do i do?!? (link)
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alight, well i think u should go for it i mean yes everyone is scared of rejection but thats somthing everyone has to deal with...and what do u mean u kinda got a no?
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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Alright, this guy sounds messed up from the start but im not gonna hold it to him bkuz u like him alot, like wit all other gossip situations go to the start [who ever its about or said it] and see whats up, dont let him off wit a light anwser too...lol I hope i helped N the Best of luck!! **Sara**
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
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If you say "I feel like im not good enough for you" and he says" Your if anything to good for me" thats him wanting u to feel good about yourself and he dosent want u to think hes to go for u because he dosent want u to feel unworthy he likes you alot N wants u to be happy N thats good he feels blesses almost that u picked him! he sounds sweet..if u need anything else or if i took anything wrong u know where to ask!!
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ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!! (link)
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is this jolinn!...sry if not..lets call this guy bubba N this guy that gave a shit about u chris...well wait it out N if u havent alredy u can get over him u'll find a gr8 boyfriend and an AWSOME new best friend...hehe maybe a twiN~ lol JK! love ya! Sara
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