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Website: Giuliana n Mary's Awesome Advice Gender: Female Occupation: Students Age: 13 Member Since: September 1, 2005 Answers: 26 Last Update: October 23, 2005 Visitors: 2868
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks (link)
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um...i'm not sure, just follow your heart and do whatever feels right. I guess telling him the truth is best but i know you don't wanna risk ur relationship. I think you should just wait til the time is right and tell him..
hope this helps
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ok well I am 14 and when I am around guys any guys i tend to go in look in the mirrior alot it is weird I don't have a boyfriend but I want one but know one I know is my type I like a few guys at school thats it
My question is why do I act so weird around the guys and why can't I get a boyfriend and I am not ugly but I guess I have a preppy personallitie]
well i hope i get helped (link)
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you're not ugly...and its so natural for you to act weird around guys...i go to an all girls school and when i first started hanging around guys it was weird, but i just learned that i have to be myslef and they'll like u for who you are. And for the boyfriend thing...just giv it sum time....every1 gets a boyfrend, its just a matter of who gets one first.
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Well I like my bff (im m/14 my bestfriend is also m/14) and well he's unfourtunealtley strait, well i want to be able to go out with him. But i odn't want ppl knowing i'm Bi, anyways I found a way to get him to like me... well my friend used to do wicca stuff(spells) and she's finding me a love spell. I've seen stuff like this work before(she's done it) so i want to do it on him but i don't know if i should because I don't want to force him into this but i want to have him love me... what should i do should i use it or not?
I rate high...unlesss youre ignorant (link)
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ur just a really weird person...
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what is a good way to start talking to someone who you like and you think that person likes you too. im sometimes really shy. (link)
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Just start with the basics-"hey!" "wuts up" "wut r u doing tonite"-just don't sound like a dork. Hope this helps
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okay...i just got out of a relationship and it ended very badly. i fell in love with him and hes been saying very mean things to me and im finally over him completely. theres this other guy that im friends with and ive been thinking about him a whole lot and im really starting to like him and hes really nice and hes got such a great personality. im just scared to fall for someone like i did last time and get hurt and go through all this again..even though i do trust this guy that i like. should i go for it or keep waiting? (link)
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Go for the guy you like. jus remember....even tho they're really hard to find, there are sum hot sweet funny rich guys out there....and not all guys are the same...
hope this helps
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okay well i have a biiggg problem. i kinda have 2 boyfriends. ik befor you start telling me imma skank or w.e just listen. so i have been going out with this kid for almost 4 months.. hes 17 *im 13 and we dont care about the age difference* but im in ny and hes in fl. so yeuh there is problem number 1. so i was at the movies with my friend her bf and his friend and my friends bf's friend asked me out and i said yes because i was SOOO mad at my other bf because that day he hung up on me THREE times and he was calling me liek an asshole or w.e and this other kid who just asked me out is reallly cool and stuff. so now that i sit here and actually say i have 2 boyfriends ik i have to dump one. but i do not kno who. its tearing me apart inside nobody knos how bad this is hurting me. if my bf from florida lived in ny i would deff dump the other guy.. but i REALLY love him. ugh i do not kno who to chose. puhlesz no smart ass answers. puhlesz hurry. i rate high! (link)
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ok your bf in FL is an asshole for callin you an asshole n it seems lik you lik this other guy better so i say dump florida and go out with new york....n dont worry, you're not a skank...i (giuliana) hav 2 boyfrends too....long story dont ask
hope this helps
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okay so i dumped my boyfriend because i like this other guy a little bit. Although i dont know who i like better, my boyfriend or my crush..its like 50% boyfriend, 50% crush..i am so cought up in this i have tried killing myself..please help! (link)
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Ok first of all calm down. Killing yourself way way over the top extreme for this situation. Maybe you should try to take a break and see if you really miss your boyfrend. Sumtimes you never realize how much you love sum1 until there gone.
Really hope this helps
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Ok i've got 4 questions. If you answer all of them i'll rate you a five, unless you give me some dumbass kind of answer ;).
1.-how do you get a guy to like you
2.-how do you get a guy to notice you
3.-how can i flirt?
4.-how do i know if he's flirting back at me?
btw, i'm 15/f, skinny, natural red hair, blue eyes, (i think that i'm ok looking), i play sports, and i'm nice to everyone.
please help me!
*~*thanks*~* (link)
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1- Stand out, be confident, be yourslef
2- Why fit in when you were born to stand out
3- Just talk to him and like mention your single and stuff....tell him he looks good and stuff
4- If he always smiles, fixes his hair around you, and gives you compliments.
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Hey. I just want to be really realistic here with my question. Think of something you might do in real life. There's this kid I know from my church, he used to come but he left for a while. We were kids then. Now he's back and he's a year older, I'm going into 9th grade. I'm very interested in him and I wouldn't know if he has any in me because we literally never talk. How do I start something up with him? And realisticly, I'm not going to be all bouncy and annoying. He seems a bit shy too, and I want something clever, and not like "Hi, what's your name" type of thing. Thanks! (link)
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Ok well I think you just need to be yourself. My best advice to give to anyone who needs relationship help is be confident because confidnece is sexy. Go up to him and say hi and start a conversation. Exchange screen names and stuff. Ask him if he's going to the school dance.
Hope this helps
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Ok, so there's this girl who I REALLY love (real love, not "is she hot"), and she knows I like her, and I want to ask her out in a special way... not just "Hey, will you go out with me?" No. No way. I want something special like they did in Bye Bye Birdie (except her name has no rhymes or puns, and I'm the worst songwriter in existence). If it helps, it's my first time asking someone out, I can't do it in person because all the classes we have together, we're on opposite sides of the room, and I'm an insanely shy person. Are there any cute & special ways to do it on the interweb? That looks like my best bet right now... please, I really need help!!!! (link)
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Don't worry about it. You shouldn't be nervous...be confident like your the coolest kid in school. Confidence in sexy. Try asking her our on a group date...just ask if she wants to go to the movies with you and some friends. Or just keep talking to her online and start out as friends, a good relationship always starts as a friendship. Then take things to the next level when you think your ready.
Hope this helps!!
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