alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
Wow. i went thru almost the exact same thing as you! i know what its like. All i can say is please dont make the same mistake i did and hurt urself. no guy is worth that! no matter how much you love him!! its okay that ur not ready to give him up. But also dont think about this too much. relax. go out with some girlfriends. have a good time. and you dont NEED him back. I know it may seem like that at first. but from what you were saying. it sounds like you can do much better than this boy. jus think about things, gather ur thoughts... and when you ready go out and have a good time!!! but please dont hurt urslef!!! please!!
*hope i helped*
*no guy is worth ur tears and the one that is wont make you cry!!*
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Um...there's this guy at me school who I like. He's really popular, but he's SOO nice. Everybody likes him, I think. Anyway, I can really see us together, and I can really see us falling in love, you know? But the thing is I know he likes this other girl (which I'm fine with, despite a small twinge of jealousy) and I'm afraid he wouldn't like me because I'm not really in his group. I'm kind of a loner, but all my friends are his friends too (heck, everybody is his friend lol) and I was just wondering...how do I make him notice me? Not that he doesn't now...but, you know, I want him to get to know me. Know who I am. How should I go by this, without truly flirting? I don't want to make him uncomfortable.
13/F
talk to the boy!! get to know him! everybody flirts!! have a lil fun with this all!! getting to know sumone can totally change all your veiws on people!!and if he is as nice as you say he is im sure he wont make a big deal out of flirting.
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i told my boyfriend i was holding this guys hand as a friend and he said he dont get how you can hold someones hand as a friends..does anyone else kno a way of explaining that??
you were holding the guyz hand not making out with him!! I can defanintly be the jealous type myself. Watch what you do with you guy friends. You may think its jus friend stuff but to others it may look like more then friends! holding hands is nothin big but jus watch urself! and jus explain to ur boyfriend that you didnt mean to get him upset. and you wouldnt hurt him like that. i hope that made sence and helped!
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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!!
Love like you've never been hurt... Love is crazy! its misleading its passoinate and all those other things. I know what your goin through in fact i couldnt relate more! I got dumped for another girl. then my X- asked me back out. I set my hopes too high and after 3 dayz we broke up... i still to this day dont understand why! we're still friends now. but if i were you i would jus remeber to keep my feet on the ground. You never know unless you try. remeber not to fall too deep for him. i know thats hard. maybe also casually ask what happened? and why he came back to you. but please dont get hurt again! i would hate to hear of that happening so jus be careful of what you decide to do! good luck!
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i am 17 and i have known this lad for 2 years now and i am falling in love with him i know he likes me but i am too shy to tell him how i feel as i do not want to get hurt i was seeing him before but it didnt work out and if i give it another try it will not work please give advice
GO FOR IT! tell him how you feel! if somethin bad happened to one of you guyz the next day and you never told him how u felt... wouldnt that jus suck!?!? tell him. i think he derves another shot! plus its better to love and hurt then to never love at all! :)
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ok well theres this guy that i kinda like n well i wanna know if he likes me wut do u think?:
he smiles n talks to me all da time he blows off other grls for me n he says stuff realli sweet n he winks at me from across tha room...wut do u think? ill rate!~
TO ME: it sounds like he likes you. but i dono. A LOT and i mean A LOT of guyz are big flirts like that! so dont get fooled by it! but have a friend go up and ask or sumthin but make sure your friend isnt too pushy! that creeps guyz out!
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Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???
dam! whattan ass! if i were you i would jus confront him. and if what he is sayin is really bad then dont confront him nicely! show him up. let him know thats really low and you cant believe he is the same person you used to go out with. give him a MAJOR HARSH guilt trip and if that doesnt work then...... what goes around comes around!!!! ;)
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I had a boyfriend named Patrick and the whole time we were goin out, which was about 3 months, he would always ignore my friends because they are country. He would also holla at other girls. When i asked him one night who it was, he told me it was none of my buisness. So we broke up, and he told me he couldnt hang out with me and my hicks. But see, the thing is from Adamsville, Tennessee and i am from Henderson, Tennessee (about 20 mins away) but now he is always at the Finger Square Dance (about 5 mins away from Henderson) and now he is trying to get back with me. did he really love me and whats up with that?
If YOU and i mean YOU really think he deserves another chance that go for it. but to me it sounds like he's a jerk. a grl is like her friends. that is why they all get along! and if he wont give your grlies a chance then why guve him one! and also if the boy is holla-ing at other chicks that tells ya somethin right there! you deserve better!! but if he really seems worth all that then... power to ya! :)
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ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).
originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..
i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do?
okay.... chances are this isnt the worst thing that happened or is gunna happen to him so dont feel bad!!! and second, maybe you should jus kinda hit to "peter" that it bothers you how he brings that up. say it playfully or sumthin like im really sorry i hurt you but, i realized that i really did like you.... ect. and jus make him feel better about himslef!!
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haha NO WAY!!!!! i have that probblem too. and who knows this new guy might take over the old ones spot! hehe ya never know! ;)
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hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen
think about this..... if you found out by some horibbly tragic unfortunanate (excuse my spelling!) event that he died. would you regret never have telling him how you feel?? live evry day like its your last. the few but smartest words i've ever known. Who cares if he tells other people!! i know thats easier for me to say. but it wont matter when your older. and if you really like this kid then why pass up the perfect oppertunity for a relationship!?!?
"good guyz come along almost never so try a few and see which ones are sweet and which ones are sour!"
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For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex
Well.... it sounds like you guy a got hooked on you!!! way ta go! but it also sounds like you might be hurting a close freind. Remember that friends last forever and guyz only last awhile. However. if your friend seems like the type that will forgive you and move on to another guy. get her approval and go for it! but if you know you will seriously be hurting her then think of what matters more. what ever you do. Dont go behind your friends back and not tell her. I did that to my best friend in the 6th grade. And she still hasnt forgiven me. I think thats why we arent best friends any more! and it was a really dumb thing to do! but talk to your friend and remember... "a good friend is like a 4 leaf clover... hard to find, but lucky to have!" and boy is fun to have but only lasts awhile!
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