~About me~
Name:: Alexandra
Gender:: 100% gurl
Age:: 15
Birthday:: November 20th
Grade:: Sophomore! (10th)
Hair color:: Dark brown
Eye Color:: Brown
Status:: Taken
Sign: Scorpio
~Additional Info~
Fav. color:: Piink
Fav. drink:: Water
Fav. Food:: anything filipino
Idol:: Adrianna Lima, Mya, Angelina Jolie
Fav Movie:: Sleepers, Murder in the first
Fav. song:: Wonderful Tonight, What you so mad at?, without you, goodies, and anything by the temptations
Yeah, so I will help anyone. i've been through alot in my life... alot having to do with: family, friends, relationship, school and alot more... i know alot about health issues. I love to help people. so if you have a question just leave one in my inbox and i will answer it as soon as i can and i will answer it the best i can.
Website: my pictures
Gender: Female
Location: New york
Occupation: student - sophomore year in high school
Age: 15
AIM: xtemptashunz
Member Since: August 19, 2004
Answers: 86
Last Update: March 1, 2005
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how do u just make a guy go crazy.. and make him fall for you. i know to be yourself.. but what are little extra things that he will just love? any girls who know how to make their boyfriends go crazy?.. or guy.. what turns you on? (link)
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well my boyfriend is crazy for me.. and all i did to get him that way was be myself, i love to act dorky, and i think him seeing me act that way and not care.. i think he likes that cause it shows i have confidence. So let him know you have confidence, show it, dont say it. One major thing i know he loved was.. we went to the mall, and we went into a whole bunch of my stores (girly stores), and after a while he asked where are we going next, and i told him to take me to some of his stores. That way he knows your not all about yourself and your interested in his stuff. Hang out with him and his friends (hang with the boys), and if/when they burp or fart or anything, and they say excuse me or something else like they're embarassed, be like 'haha i dont care do what you want'. My guy seems to love that. I think its just he knows he can be himself around me, and he knows im interested in him and not self-centered.
Im not sure if any of that sounds appealing to use or anything, but If you want any more ideas, Leave one in my inbox and I'll conjur up a few more tips. Good luck!
Alexandra x3
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What are the affects of taking the Morning after pill too late?
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Well, taking the morning after pill doesn't necessarily mean that you wont get pregnant. If sperm has already reached the egg, then taking the morning after pill wont stop you from getting pregnant. All the pill does is stop you from ovulating. So if you take it too late then you have a higher risk off getting pregnant.
Hope that answered your question.
Alexandra x3
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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP! (link)
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Wait! Wait Wait, get to know eachother a little better before you take it to the next level. And then when he feels as though its time to take it up a step, he'll probably ask you. So just be patient and wait. Hope I helped. Leave one in my inbox sometime!
Alexandra x3
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Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
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1)Tell your friends to stop bugging him. Tell them that you'll do it on your own when you feel its the right time.
2)You cant make someone like you, but if he does maybe you should just talk to him yourself. Start out with a casual conversation. Then tell him that your sorry for how your friends have been acting, that you didn't want them to bother him like that. Then just tell him straight out "well its true tho, I have liked you for a while now, and I wanna know if you feel the same way". And let things progress from there.
Just remember tho, hes just a guy and if he doesn't like you in that way then dont keep on bugging him about it trying to make him like you. Theres plenty of other guys out there.
Best of luck to you! Hope everything goes well. Leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything else
-Alexandra
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does anyone have any advice for me. i have asked out about 20 people and have gotten a no from all of them. i dont know what i am doing that is wrong. can someone help me? please..... (link)
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I will help you the best I can, so leave one in my inbox, and i will answer it most likely tomarrow (tuesday) night when I come back on.
Alexandra x3
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this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all.. (link)
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theres a chance you'll regret it. And seriously in my mind, if you have to question wether or not you should do something, you should do it. only when you 100% sure is when you should. I hope I helped!
Alexandra x3
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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
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your didn't kiss him back, so i guess its alrite
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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?
Please Help Me.
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wow thats sick, he's your frickin brother for heavens sake! i mean thats gross, and its called incest. keep it hush hush, and try to not like him cause thats just wrong hon.
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old gurl, umm well theres this boy that has liked me for awhile but i always thought i was too old for him, hes a couple months younger, i didnt like him but he was always really nice to me and made me feel worth something, and i liked him a lot just not where i wanted to go any farther then friends with him, but now he does not like me anymore and i feel like i lost him and i realized i like him now that i dont have him, even though i thought he was too young and the whole grade difference, it doesnt matter now, i dont care about that i just want him back, what am i suppose to do??
pleazzzeee help me, its kind of hard to understand unless you have been in this situation thankx for the help,
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I kinda do understand where your coming from, but only to a certain degree. Maybe he just gave up cause he didn't feel as though he was gunna get anywhere. Talk to him, flirt with him, make it clear to him that you like him. then if he doesn't step up and say something, you tell him that you like him and you want to be more than friends. and then take it from there, if he just wants to stay friend dont force anything. hope i helped
Alexandra x3
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im 15 years old and i think that i have found my love but the problem is we just got started and he just got locked up in a detion places i dont know what to do i dont want to leave him but i dont want to hurt and im just losted and i dont know how long he will be in there what should i do ? (link)
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aww, well im sorry to hear that. you should try and find out how long he will be in there for, and depending on the timing see if you will be able to wait that long. if not then take a break, dont sit there waiting, you have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love. have fun, you shouldn't be strained down by someone you dont see. hope i helped. leave one in my inbox if you need anything else.
Alexandra x3
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I'm a fifteen year old male and I have this problem. My best friend is a girl and we've been good friends since before kindergarten. I'm starting to develope feelings for this girl. At first I thought maybe I could just forget about it and move on but my feelings are getting stronger and stronger.
What should I do? Should I tell her?
If I do tell her and she doesen't feel the same then what should i do, I don't want things to change in a bad way but I think we could have a very good relationship together! please help me (link)
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Hello. Well in my opinion I think you should tell her. You never know what another person is felling, she could like you too. If you do tell her, and she doesn't like you in that way, your relationhip shouldn't change if you guys are that close of friends. In fact the only way it should change is if you feel odd around her after....which you shouldn't. But you definatly should tell her because how will you ever know... you dont want to ask yourself "what if?" when time goes by and you didn't ask her. I hope i helped. Feel free to ask me any more questions. I'll be more than willing to help.
Alexandra x3
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i am 14 male, i really like this girl that is 5 months older then me, shes in the next grade and thinks she too old for me, she jus broke up wit her boyfriend and she thinks im reallly sweet and i really like her, what am i supposta do to make her think she aint to old cuz i already went out wit her b4
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Hmmm, well if she just broke up with her boyfriend you should give her time. Sometimes people have different views on things, she might think shes to old for you for many different reason, people our age tend to think very different and our point of view on things are widely ranged, it also changes soo much. I think you should respect her opinions and cherish your guy's relationship as it is. my guess is that she likes you but not to the point where she wants to go out. and when shes says she thinks your sweet, believe her, cuz my guess is she really thinnks your are. good luck! much love
mahal kita
Alexandra x3
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Heres the story..i went out with this guy..we'll call him "bob"..in the begining of the summer. I wasnt really ready to go out with him, because we didnt know eachother all that much, but we really really liked eachother and all that so i said yes when he asked me out. We went out for about 3 weeks, until i dumped him. I didnt really have a straight reason why, i just did. And i regret it so much. Its been 2 months since we were going out, and i miss him alot, i have the strongest feelings for him and i want him to feel the same way but i dont think he does..and in this case..im clueless of what to do!! sorry if it sounds a little confusing..but i need some serious help cause i like him soo much!! (link)
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well i think you should talk to "bob", and find out his feelings, cause how else will you know what he's feeling. but if he doesn't feel the same way, then theres really nothing you can do...you cant control how other people feel. but you can flirt with him sand talk to him more and maybe he'll start likeing you again. if you talk to him and he does like you and you two end up going out again then congrats! but this this, dont break up with him unless your sure you want it and you have a reason. i hope i helped
Alexandra x3
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My girlfriend says we should see other people, but I'm schizophrenic, does that make me other people? (link)
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HAHA! thats a good one... maybe you shoud ask her... lol
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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean? (link)
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hmmm let me pull out my book on intrpreting dreams ( i actually have a book on this stuff hehe)ok it says, for a virgin this dream omens scandal and adversity. and i have no idea wat that means. but maybe you do. but in my opinion is you must like him in order to have a dream about him, or maybe you just thought about him alot before you went to sleep, that can happen to. hope i helped
Alexandra x3
("dreams are the hearts true desires")
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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yes you are to young to be engaged, in fact you shud'nt even be thinking of love at such a young age. if anything you might be in 'lust' with him, or puppy love, you see being so young our minds change alot, we change our taste so many times. i mean its a fun idea to think your in love, just dont take it 2 seriously.... hope i helped
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Ok hi well there r these 4 guys i really like and all of them like me back i just dont know which one i shud choose. The first guy lets say his name is ray, i met over the summer and we really clicked. WE both really really like eachother but he lives 4 hours away. The second guy, well say his name is sam, lives ten minutes away and is really hot and would do nething for me and loves me so much but he sleeps around so i dunno how long it wud last. The 3rd guy i really like and he likes me back and we r really close friends but he wont make a move! The forth guy just moved here and lives three houses down from me and is now goin out w/ my friend cuz my other friends pressured him into it but he dusnt even like her he likes me and i like him back. I really wanna choose one of them but i cant decide so please help me!!!!!! (link)
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I say you should pick guy #3. b.c it seems to me you two know eachother best, and if he doesn't make a move, he will, but if time passes by and he has yet to, then make a move on him! he might just be scared of your reaction.
I hope i helped
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i like this guy nd he supposidly likesz me...but he likes other girls 2. i want him 2 invite me 2 homecoming...since im not aloud 2 go the the 1 at my school. i want him 2 invite me...but i think i need 2 tell him i like him first...how do bring it up in a conversation? help please
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hmm.... i wud just tell him i liked him, cuz it wud be bothering me, so i wud just want to get it out... like maybe when u 2 are alone and theres a pause wen neither of you are talking, thats when you should say 'i think i like you' and see wat happens from there. you will also feel relieved after you say it. so the sooner the better. hope i helped :)
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PLEASE ANSWER!! I'LL RATE YOU GOOD!! ok well this weekend I'm going to hang out with my best friend, the guy she likes, and the guy Ive liked since 6th grade (i'm a sophmore now). Me and him have had a relationship thats been off and on, but never official or anything like that. I dont want to like him anymore but when ever i see him all the same feelings I had for him rush back. I think he just thinks of me as someone he can use tho... which isnt good! I try to be myself to make him like ME for ME but I'm never sure. He went out with this one girl for a long time (like a year or so) but he always cheated on her... but she had no idea. I wish he would change!! He's popular... and I'm not really except for with the guys... im just more comfortable around them I guess. anyways I want him to fall in love with me but I dont want him to know that I am like wanting that so much. I dont know what to do. We're all going to a movie sat and then I think we're just going to hang out or something. I know he thinks I'm attractive (he's told me) but is he just saying that to "get some"?? But also I dont know if he's just trying to use me... cuz everyone knows that I'm not easy... I mean I havent even made out yet.. (ive gone a little past that with up the shirt.. but never made out). I dont know what to do! WHATS HAPPENING?!?!? (link)
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hmmm... you are in a tricky stituation. heres my advice... if you like him, and is worried about him not liking you for you then talk 2 him and tell him wat your feeling. if you two have a good relationship as you say you do he most likely wont get weirded out. but hun, we're to young to be in love, its either lust, or 'puppy love'. also you dont want to get involved with a player, cuz he'll play you, and that will only reslut in heartbreak. my best advice to you is, follow your heart but if it says try thing out with him, make sure your ready to get hurt. and if you decide 2 forget about him... move on 2 sumone else, someone not as 'advanced' as him. so you wont have 2 worry about getting played, or making-out and etc. i really hop i helped you. and good luck
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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
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no its not bad, if your not ready to kiss then dont worry about. do it when your ready, dont let others force you
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