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Q: i was wondering if anyone new any cute short love qoutes. nothing like long poems or real snazzy ones just short and cute. or any links to one? thanks.
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Heres the site.
http://qm.your-memory.net/
Bookmark it. Its amazing + has EVERYTHING.
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Q: Okay. So all my friends make out with their guys, but I havent really done that yet, cause I don't know how to use my tongue. Tips? Do I touch his, how?
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Well. Like I've said previously alot of people have different ways to make out, theres no one way to do things.
Also, if you dont feel youre ready to make out with someone, than dont. Only do it when you feel comfortable.
Anyway ; One technique is to just kiss without the tongue. Its closed mouth kissing which is less complicated.
Open mouth kissing, which is using your tongue, you go in for the kiss with your mouth slightly open and generally you close it when your lips touch, then open your mouths together and you'll insert your tongue into his mouth & he'll do the same, and you just move it around a big. Some guys like more tongue, some guys dont like alot. Some like wet kisses, some dont.
It all depends on their kissing style.
If you're unsure, the guy will most likely take the lead.
Just let things go, and dont be so concerned about doing it wrong. He'll lead you and let you know what he likes
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Q: how do you kiss a guy?
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I think youd have to elaborate more on this if you want the correct response your searching for, but ill take a stab at it.
Everyone has different techniques to kissing.
Some people just kiss without using their tongue when making out.
Some people bite the other persons lip during a make out session
Simple making out by definition is sticking your tongue in the other persons mouth while kissing them. You generally go in for the kiss with your mouth somewhat open, and you both will "massage" each others tongues with your own.
You can do that for a long period of time or you can tongue for a bit, and then close mouth kiss.
It all depends on the other persons kissing style.
Just go with whatever and dont worry about what the other person thinks or says.
Do what you feel comfortable with & dont think about it.
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Q: So on Saturday night, I went with my best friend Bridgette to a movie night at a boy named Robert's house. She only knew her boyfriend and Robert, and I didn't know anyone. There was a couple other people there (girls and boys) but there was one guy in particular that i was interested in. and it seemed that he was interested in me as well, his name is Jacob.
after everyone left and it was just Bridgette, Robert, Jacob and me. and Jacob made me scoot over on the couch so he could sit next to me.. theres about 3 other couches in the room and he kept flirting with me alot.
and then his phone died and he needed to call his mom so he asked to borrow my phone, and so i let him. and he goes "now i have your phone number. i'm gonna text you at like 2 tonight okay?" and i was like so excited about it. we've been texting pretty much nonstop since then.. and that night i asked him if he was single. and he said he'd been with this girl on and off for a year and nine months, but for the past 3 months all they've been doing is arguing and he said he knew it was going to end soon, which is why he was flirting with me so much.
and this morning he tells me that they're over, and that he cant wait to hang out with me this weekend, so he can really get to know me better.
and i just dont know if he is just wanting some ass, like a rebound. or if he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend, and he really did fall for me.
i could use all the help i could get.
so help, please!
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Well its hard to say what goes on in guys minds, lol. I wish I could give you a solid answer so that you wont get hurt, but Im unable to do that. So let me try help; Generally when a guy wants a "piece of ass" he doesnt spend hours on the phone/texting alot/spending time with them(without sexual stuff). When thats all they want they generally go in for it right away, and once they get it their done. If you really like this boy I suggest taking it slow and let him get to know your personality before any physical things happen that you might regret. Its okay to kiss and hug but I wouldnt suggest doing anything else further.
It could very well be a rebound - but if he says it was ending for about 3 months than I dont think it would be because he seemed interested before they broke up. Rebounds generally happen immediately after the break up occurs when theyre feeling vulnerable - which it doesnt sound like he is.
I woiuld just go for it and hang out and become friends and see where it goes from there but make sure that you feel comfortable with him before doing anything you might regret - and dont rush it.
If its real, you'll have all the time in the world to do those things.
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Q: ok there's this guy that i've like for a long long time, but he is going out with this gurl how do i win him ovre her?
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I would say to not worry about it right now. He might only feel obligated to date you because he feels bad or you could get let down. Let their relationship take its course and try to become real good friends with him. Show him your personality and hope for the best. Dont overdo it so it seems obvious though. I wouild let things happen naturally. If he ends up falling for you and breaks up with her than great, and if not then it wasnt meant to be. If its real it will find a way. If you dont want to do this you can always step up and say that you have feelings for him and see if his feelings comply with your own. :)
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Q: what does to "tag team" someone mean?
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Basically its an action in which two people are participating or "teaming up" on another person.
This can be used in referance to sex, beating someone up, playing a game, etc.
I more frequently hear it when pertaining to sexual things.
For example, two guys having sex with a girl. One will have sex with her for a little bit, then the other guy comes in and does his thing, then it goes back and forth.
Not sure the point, but yeah.
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Q: Hey.
I read someplace here that you're bi?
Well.
I am too.
But I'm finding it hard at the moment.
Cause I came out to some friends, and now the whole school knows!
Will this pass?
You seem like a cool kid (:
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Hey doll. Aw thank you. Well, Yes I'm bi & I've known since 5th grade. So heres my story, lol. I came out in 6th grade and my friends freaked and turned against me, so I said that I was lying and i really wasnt and everyone pretty much forgot about it. I then waited till I was in 10th grade and I brought it back up again and everyone was cool with it. I dont know how old you are or what grade you're in, but it seems to me that the older people are, the more mature their friends seem to be. When my friends we're younger they didnt fully understand the concept, and they were used to it because everyone is generally classified as straight in middle school cause its "normal". But when I was in 10th grade, like I said, everyone was cool with it. Hopefully it will be the same at your school. If your friends are iffy about it and think that you might have a crush with them just simply explain that just because you're bi, your friendships arent going to change, and it doesnt mean that you automatically have a crush on every girl. I dont have a crush on any of my friends that are girls, because I've known them forever. If they are your really good friends, they should understand that.
So, yes Im sure it will pass. When first coming out, the initial reaction is generally shock. Once they get over the initial reaction, it should be smooth sailing. Im sure you might have a few people who might not like the idea and decide to be immature and start problems, but dont worry about them, they dont matter anyways. Just ignore that if it happens, because it simply isnt worth it.
Im still figuring out this whole thing, haha. So if you need any further help, you can give me your sn (i have AIM, yahoo & MSN) and I can IM you =]]
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Q: How can you tell the difference between a controlling boyfriend and one who just loves you a lot?
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In my opinion a controlling boyfriend is someone who wants complete control over absolutely everything that you do. Example: Where you go, who you hang out with, what time you get home, who you talk on the phone with, what you wear.
The reason that is controlling is because its none of his business where you go and what you do. You have your own life for a reason. Controlling what you wear and where you do, arent things that could endanger your life, and hes just being controlling because he most likely has trust and insecurity issues and wants to make sure that you're not going anywhere where you might cheat on him. (at least, thats how it is in most cases.)
Someone who just loves you alot may seem controlling but the things that they are asking are reasonable. Example: Stop doing drugs, quit smoking, dont drink, dont hang out with people that are bad influences.
The reason hes not considered controlling is because hes looking out for your best interest and he doesnt feel that you should do those things because they arent good for you and he wants to most likely keep you around as long as possible.
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Q: ugh.So my best friend [he's a guy im a girl] says he's gay, the thing is i dated him like twice and even thought we knew things couldnt work out it made us closer like seriously hes my best friend but the thing is i still have feelings for him i know i dont have a chance [obviously] i just dont know what to do he knows i like him and that doesnt change a thing about our friendship.but he doesnt know if hes gay or just "curious" he just got out of a 5 month relationship [w/ a girl] and i dont know if its a rebound thing, what do i do?
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This is all too familiar for me. I dated two guys about 3 years ago who were friends with msot of my friends, and also friends themselves and everyone said that they would turn out gay. They denied all the vicious rumors and I also defended them because I had feelings for them and thought well.. if we dated how can they be gay? Well, its senior year now, and junior year they both came out as being gay. One of them, said he was bi, then straight, then to gay. Its a very difficult time deciding if you are bi or gay. Even though you have feelings for him, still be supportive. Some of the best friendships I have had was with a gay guy friend. It's also common to come off a relationship with a girl that you are extremely hurt from and feel that you might have feelings of being homosexual. Generally when this happens, they tend to turn bi or gay. The reason he may be doubting it or "not sure" is because hes scared of how people will react. It's a big step. Just make sure that even though you have feelings for him, that you continue to be there for him as if nothing has changed. When I came out as being bisexual, I needed my friends to fall back on for support and I didnt want my friendships to change, and they didnt. Which is probably what he might be scared of. Offer alot of love and support, and whichever happens (bi gay or straight) make sure that you are there for him either way. He might feel that because of your feelings, and not wanting to hurt you, he might sway his decision and say that hes straight so you dont feel like its your fault. thats why you have to sort of remain neutral, as if you dont care either way, to best support his decision.
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Q: Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal?
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It varies from state to state but here where I am, ohio, and in most states, the age of consent is 16. The only thing that is "illegal" is sex to minors and someone who is over 18. If a 15 year old wanted to date an 18 year old, its fine. If they have sex its considered statitory rape, but only if the family presses charges. So I suggest that if anyone under 16 is going to date someone 18 or above, they should make sure that their parents are aware so that there isnt any legal matters. You could check for your state to see whats legal and what isnt. Just google legal age of consent, and see what comes up.
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Q: Well there is this boy that i really like and think about 24/7! his name is Victor! But hes is really bad in school and he got in school suspention twice a month does that mean hes expeled from school???????
Oh yeah does Expelled mean that you cant ever go back to school for a certain time or forever????
Please help i really am in love with this hottie dude!!!!!!!
~deprested
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It varies with schools. But suspensions are different from expultions.
If you get a suspension it generally means you arent able to come to school for a certain period of time, depending on the severity of his actions. Its generally between 2 - 7 days.
If you get an ISS(in school suspension) its just an all day detention, nothing severe and will most likely not lead to expulsion.
If he gets expelled it means that he cant come back to school for the duration of the school year.
If he did something REALLY bad like bring a gun to school or something, he would most likely be expelled forever and not allowed to come back to that school.
All schools vary with their punishments and how they go about dealing with them. If you really want to know, I would ask your principal on what his policies are for suspensions and expulsions.
Or get out a school handbook and read about it.
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Q: For the past 3 years, ive met 3 guys.
We would get really close and they'd call me all the time, IM me all the time, and wanna hangout all the time and stuff.
They would flirt with me on the phone , like CRAZY!
So i thought they liked me so i would flirt back
[becuase i liked them]
then when people asked them if they liked me , they said no and they said that i was " too good of a friend"
I dont get it!
Whats the problem here?
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Well. They may feel that you guys have gotten too close in a friend aspect and they dont want to jeopradize that by dating you. I would suggest just keeping them as friends, because if a guy cares too much about you to ruin the friendship by dating, hes a really good friend and someone to keep around for a long time. Theres nothing wrong with you or anything, they just cherish being your friend and dont want anything to happen to take that away. As for the "flirting", maybe its just friendly gestures and you're taking it the wrong way? I'd just have fun with being their friend and casually throwing in something flirtacious every once and a while. Run with the friendship thing and see where it goes. They might change their mind down the road, you never know.
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Q: me and my boyfriend are allllways bored at my house... what can we do besides sexual things.. like wrestle, etc.
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Play video games, play board games, cards, watch tv, go online & watch videos, listen to music, dance, sing, play outside together.
Anything like that.
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Q: how do you respond to a guy when he grabs your butt?
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You can respond any way that you feel comfortable with. If you didnt like it, tell him not to do it. If you dont feel comfortable with him doing that, then say that too. If you liked it, then I dont know, giggle and say something flirtacious.
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Q: i had my guy friends talking about this the other day and i was wondering what circumsized ment.
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If a guys penis is circumsized it means that the foreskin from the head of their penis, has been removed.
http://www.circinfo.com/all_about/abc.html
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Q: I'm 13 and my bf is 16 turning 17!!! Me and him have been dating 5 months!!! And we had oral sex, but not the real thing should I have sex with him!!! Me and him have talked about condoms and birth control!!! We've also talked about what would happen if I got pregnet!!! I love him more than anything!!! So should I have sex with him???
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Well. I cant answer that, only you can. Make sure you know all the risks and possible consequences. Birth control isnt 100% effective and neither are condoms. My mom got pregnant twice when she was on the strongest form of birth control. She also got pregnant with me, when she wasnt even ovulating, cause she hadnt gotten her period in months, then found out she was pregnant with me. I think you're fairly young to be having sex, but its ultimately your decision, not mine. Just make sure you know that nothing is 100% effective as abstinance. & Also, you've only been dating him for 5 months, do you think you two are going to be together forever? Guys will say anything to get in your pants, so dont be so quick to believe everything he says. I lost it to my boyfriend last Nov., when I was 16 & I regret it more than anything. We were dating for 2 weeks, and ended up staying together only 6 months, and he was cheating on me with alot of other people. I thought I loved him, but I didnt & now I'm completely truly in love with someone for the first time and I wish so much that I could take back what I did with the other guy, so I could experiance the first time with the guy I'm with now. If you're okay with losing it to someone and breaking up with them, then I'd say do it, but just make sure you weigh all the options. Sex isnt always the answer. There's so much more that you could do. Good luck with whatever you decide. :) Its a big step.
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Q: how do you tell someone you'll love them forever without them freaking out?!??!
ThAnKs!
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You just say it. If you are comfortable around each other they wont freak out. & If they feel the same towards you, it should be a breath of fresh air because they'll say it back.
Just take deep breaths and say that you have something you want to say. & you really want them to take you seriously.
When you make sure that they are listening, go ahead and say it.
Dont be scared.
If they freak out then it probably isnt real love, and their too immature to handle something that serious.
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Q: What does it mean if you give someone your heart? Like, I got a question from my bf; it said 'if I gave you my heart would you love it or let it go'.
thankyou
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It means that they have your love. If he gives you his heart it means you have all of him, you have everything that he can offer, no one else. So if you love it it means that you choose to take it, and love him back. If you let it go it means that you dont want him, or what he has to offer. Its real simple, haha =]
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Q: what do you find atractive.. because im having som troulbes in the ladies department
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Wish I could help but everyone who answers this question is going to have different things that they are into than the people that you are around or friends with. Some girls like long hair, others short. Some like punk ish, some like prep. Its all different and depends on the girl. Just be yourself and someone will come along and like you for that. The worst thing that you can do is change yourself so that someone else will like you, because when their gone, youre stuck with a person that you dont even know, because its not YOU. Best advice: Dont change yourself.
But some things that I'm into are piercings, tattoo's, spikey hair, colored hair, big pants, hoodies, rebel guys.. things like that. I like the whole punk image. But every girl is different!
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Q: can my boyfriend go to jail for us datin even if we started datin befor he was 18
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Nope. Dating isnt illegal. Statitory rape is illegal. if your parents know that you are dating than you two wont have any problems. If you guys had sex, technically it would be illegal, but that would only be in effect if you pressed charges against him, or if your parents did. So make sure that they're aware that you two are dating, so theres no discrepencies.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Member Since: August 12, 2005 Answers: 642 Last Update: October 21, 2007 Visitors: 43558
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